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Your failure to set boundaries is the reason you are in this mess. Why allow her communicate with her ex in the first place?
Since you didn't have issues with her communicating with her ex, you shouldn't have issues with the gifts also. And you will not have issues when you find out the ex is pounding your wife. Because you don't understand what boundaries are.

In all of these, I don't blame your wife or your in-laws. You are responsible for protecting your family and you failed woefully.

Olatara:
Like the guy above, you were paid to teach and not to discipline.

No dey stress yourself. If she doesn't do her home-work, document it and make it known to the school authority.

That's the schools and parent problem to deal with.

This kind of mindset is the reason why our society is witnessing this level of decay. How do you teach without discipline? Is teaching only related to books or academics?
The parents should continue. That same child will give them sleeplessness nights if they fail to do the needful now

Mrchippychappy:
Inspired by what the Kenyans did recently with their march for Israel, I am trying to start a million man march for this cause. We need to raise support for God's people all over Nigeria, we would start from Kaduna and then Kano and Katsina as well. Are there others who might be interested?

Why not march for Nigerians dieing from insecurity across Nigeria?

politicoNG:
IMO POLICE COMMAND PRESS RELEASE OF 18TH OCTOBER, 2025

IMO POLICE IDENTIFY OFFICERS IN VIRAL VIDEO, BEGIN DISCIPLINARY PROCEEDINGS

Further to the directive of the Commissioner of Police, Imo State Command, CP Aboki Danjuma, ordering a thorough investigation into the viral video showing officers engaged in unprofessional conduct, the Command wishes to provide the following update.

The officers captured in the viral video have been identified as:
1. Inspector Obinna Peter
2. Corporal Amaechi Augustine
3. Corporal Ejikeme Victor

The officers have been arrested and are presently in detention, while the Command has commenced a thorough investigation into their alleged involvement in cultism and other related activities. Consequently, an Orderly Room Trial has been scheduled to commence on Monday.

The Imo State Police Command reiterates that the conduct displayed in the viral video is highly unprofessional and does not reflect the discipline, ethics, and values of the Nigeria Police Force.

The outcome of the Orderly Room Trial will be communicated to the public in due course, as the Command remains committed to upholding professionalism, accountability, and transparency in the discharge of its duties.

DSP OKOYE HENRY, ANIPR

Police Public Relations Officer

Imo State Command

Previous Thread:
https://www.nairaland.com/8542454/imo-policemen-engaging-cult-activity

How about other police officers who are cultist? What is the plan to identify and rid them out of the police force? Or are they allowed to keep their jobs in the NPF So long they don't parade themselves as cultist? How does the NPF get to the point of recruiting these people in the first place?

Caaz:
The tomatoes and fresh habanero peppers i plucked from my garden

What part of the country do you reside?

Samantha125:
My phone is not locked.

Try lock am. E get y

Clowns. Who is going to answer for those police officers that were killed because of propaganda

Don't they have representation at state assembly and federal houses of Rep and Senate. They should start by recalling all those people first and select others that will fight their cause

LagosOrigin:
Tinubu should kuku kill everybody in this country . What kind of wicked and heartless president is these

When he said reduce the purchasing power during his campaign, did you think he was joking?

F117nighthawk:
Why didn't many of those in the building run to the roof top? That's an open area for safety purposes

It is always easy to ask these questions in retrospect. Because of the possibility of the entire building being engulfed in fire, your first instinct will be to leave the building.

It would be nice to hear what survivors have to say about the entire ordeal

While growing up, the wives of my uncles who had kids well older than me and my siblings will prostrate to greet us, kids, when they come visiting. It always felt awkward.

I asked my mom why this was so and she said they honor every child, grandchild, great grandchild of the family the same way they honor the patriarch of the family. I also witness her doing same to my cousins.
Even today most of the older wives still maintain this form of greeting.

Your man failed woefully for not briefing you beforehand on what was expected of you.

Be thankful for for your life. Some people that had all those things you listed are dead.

Be thankful

There is too much money and corruption in politics. This is the very unfortunate result

Most likely the stairways were filled with smoke and the elevators were probably not working. So they were trapped in the smoke.

I guess the fire drills didn't prepare for when the stairs or bottom floors become engulf in fire. I believe we all can to learn from this.

RIP to the death

The borrower is slave to the lender. Proverbs 22:7

This is what happens when you go to every part of the world, begging for loan. A sovereign state begin to dictate for you. Very shameful of Nigeria.

Why do we need this? How does this align with our national and Continental strategy? If we have one?

How about local languages and African languages? Guess we don't need those ones because unity is not a priority and we can't borrow from our African brothers as giant of Africa

No let them see you finish
Finish your biscuit
Finish your swiiiiiieeeeeet
Shakara don end oh

2cribz:
I have seen lexus gs 300 pull put
Lexus gs350 pull out
Lexus rx 330 pull out
Lexus is300 pull out
Honda accord crosstour pull out
Toyota camry venza also pull out
Toyota camry spider same thing
Toyota 2014 same thing
Benz c300 same thing


Is it naija roads

I agree. However, this is prevalent with pre 2014 Honda Accord.

As the spirit leads. God's will not the will of man

If it's not too obvious he can ignore it. But if he insists he should consult a specialist before proceeding

A whole king in jail for yahoo yahoo. If the trial was done in Nigeria, he will still be on the throne today. Nigeria is done for abeg.

Nigeria justice system in the mud. Spit

Owomida legacy

Posters of contents like this will not get banned, but if I start calling things what they are, Seun and his goons will restrict my profile.

The other day the Delta lady that the court ordered to return 450k to a guy in Abuja said most men were crazy in a video shared here. The poster nor content weren't banned. When I called her what she was for her willingness to give her body for a high fee, my profile was banned

Seun, you guys should Continue with your onesided ban

Sick sicka sickest

This is why I'm always careful with Muslims. Small misyarn, next thing blasphemy

Lexusgs430:
The issue is, that already expensive item, becomes more expensive........

Customers would seek alternatives, thereby killing that trade or making it unsustainable.....

Bro, there are other markets. It's not a must that you sell to Americans

tunapawizzy:
Eventually it becomes too expensive to purchase Nigerian products. Those Nigerians living in the US look for cheaper alternatives in the US, those Nigerian businesses selling to them lose their customers with high purchasing power. It hurts everyone, including Nigerian businesses in Nigeria.

This is not peculiar to Nigeria. Even their neighbors Canada, Mexico are affected

TallNigerian:
Don't say so bro. I once worked in the courier and logistics services sector. You'd be amazed at how many Nigerians send goods abroad (from food items, to prescription drugs, to finished native materials, documents, etc)

Mr Tola, it's American residents that will pay for those items. It doesn't affect me buying products here in Nigeria

tunapawizzy:
It is a problem.
The Nigerian seller operating from Nigeria that would normally sell his product(e.g. well tailored bespoke suit or shoe) for say $100 or 150k naira(delivery included) to someone in the US. That same buyer will now need to pay $180. The incentive to buy from a Nigerian in Nigeria is fast eroding.

Now the seller now has 2 coping mechanisms to explore in order to remain competitive
1. Reduce his charge plus shipping to $20. So the buyer can continue to pay $100. Sadly this will amount to him/her running a charity, not a business.
2. Wait until he has multiple orders so he can spread the $80 Trump money on multiple customers. A buyer now has to wait until you the seller have plenty customers to receive his product. Your product is no longer readily available and that buyer is as good as gone.

How about finding markets elsewhere. There is Australian, Europe, other parts of America. Again, an average Nigerian shouldn't be bother about it

TallNigerian:
Omo, this is serious. Nigerians are feeling the heat both from domestic and international policies

How is this a problem for Nigerians. An average Nigerian don't send stuff to the US regularly except they have an export business. So it's those living in the US that will bear the cost.

I don't see why this is an issue that Nigerians should be worried about. Especially for businesses. Just add the $80 to your cost and continue your business.

Truths9ja:
BREAKING NEWS: Federal Polytechnic Offa Unveils Nigeria's First Homegrown Electric Vehicle, OKIN EV1

Offa, Kwara State - In a historic moment for Nigerian innovation, The Federal Polytechnic Offa has successfully developed its first electric vehicle, christened OKIN EV1. This groundbreaking achievement marks a significant milestone in the country's transportation sector, showcasing the potential of homegrown innovation.

The OKIN EV1: A Marvel of Engineering.

The OKIN EV1 is a pure electric vehicle designed to run on battery power, with an additional solar energy feature that extends its working hours. According to Engr. Dr. Olufemi Oluseye Kehinde, Director of the Directorate of Assembly, Fabrication, and Commercialization of Research Products, the vehicle can travel an impressive 125 kilometers on a full charge. This distance is equivalent to a round trip from Offa to Ilorin, highlighting the vehicle's potential for practical use.

Innovative Features.

The OKIN EV1 boasts several innovative features, including:

- A touchscreen display that provides users with real-time information and control over the vehicle's systems
- A reverse camera that enhances safety and convenience

Development Process.

The development of the OKIN EV1 was a remarkable feat that required dedication, expertise, and perseverance. The project commenced in 2024 and was completed in less than six months, a testament to the team's hard work and commitment. Despite facing challenges in sourcing materials, the team remained focused and delivered an impressive result.

The Federal Polytechnic Offa has announced plans to refine the OKIN EV1 prototype further before embarking on mass production. This move is expected to make the electric vehicle more accessible to the general public, potentially revolutionizing the country's transportation sector.

Engr. Dr. Olufemi Oluseye Kehinde shared valuable insights with aspiring inventors, emphasizing the importance of:

- Taking basic knowledge seriously: A strong foundation in STEM subjects is crucial for innovation and problem-solving.
- Maintaining a positive mindset: A positive attitude and resilience are essential for overcoming challenges and achieving success.
- Focusing on acquiring knowledge: Rather than seeking financial gain, inventors should prioritize acquiring knowledge and developing practical skills.
- Prioritizing practical skills: Hands-on experience and practical skills are vital for turning ideas into reality.

The unveiling of the OKIN EV1 marks a new era for Nigerian innovation, showcasing the country's potential for technological advancement and creativity. As the OKIN EV1 prepares to hit the roads, it is poised to make a significant impact on the country's transportation sector, promoting sustainable energy and reducing carbon emissions.

Stay tuned for more updates on this exciting development!

Bright Sobowale
Nijatravels News.

This is a laudable achievement. Start small and think big