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 Health › Re: My Friend Has HIV, But She Recently Had A Blood Test And Is Not Showing anymore by Whatdidyousay: 8:49pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Well, science has made it possible for anti retroviral drugs to reduce the viral load of HIV in a person.... So I will be safe t say that she has been on her medication for a long time and was consistent wit it.. That's good for her anyways. 235 Likes 11 Shares |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 8:18pm On May 04, 2022 |
BobbieZion:hmmmm. Deep 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 7:46pm On May 04, 2022 |
onomeabuja:what makes you think the story is a scam? Wat do I intend to gain or achieve? Did u see me post my account details for assistance? Did u see me put up any link for people to click? Anyways I knw nt everyone will accept the story as true....but I believe I ve been able to pass the needed message across. So Whoever wan still bleep raw make he bleep raw na he toro be dat. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 7:34pm On May 04, 2022 |
worldclass68:tank you for this piece brother.. People bleeping raw won't understand the psychological effect this tin has until it happens to dem... And for that google part ehhh, e be like say devil dey use that site o. Any symptoms u tink of will start manifesting and wen you check google it will point directly to HIV. I dont knw how that tin works, I'm still surprised. 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 7:18pm On May 04, 2022 |
Alaefulu:tank you....atleast I have another chance to right my wrong.... Some other persons were nt lucky as I am. |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 7:17pm On May 04, 2022 |
VanDerWaalforces:tank you very much... I just hope my experience will motivate others to practice safe sex no matter what...bcus u see many of them commenting on this thread that noting dey happen, notin will stop dem from bleeping raw, lol the story would change by the time they find themselves in this kinda situation. I was also like them boasting nd making mouth den until nature decides to show me the other side of the coin...trust me it wasnt good at all. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 7:13pm On May 04, 2022 |
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| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 6:29pm On May 04, 2022 |
Sharatan:nor vex my comrade....na how the tin do me I take type am. No vex |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 6:28pm On May 04, 2022 |
justscorchone:the story was nt meant to be Interesting...just for people to be mindful 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 6:25pm On May 04, 2022 |
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| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 6:24pm On May 04, 2022 |
I had t give myself sometime before I run the final test...and this time around I decided to wait till this month(may) making it exactly two years of my sexual contact. Bcus I knw HIV after two years either positive or negative would certainly be true. I went 2days ago to run the final test. And the unexpected but expected came out. I was HIV negative. I couldn't smile, laugh, cry or sob... I was just tanking God for giving me another chance again to live life well.....although HIV positive patients live their lives to the fullest but it is noting compared to when you are actually negative. I didn't need any soothe sayer, doctor or spiritualist to tell me I was indeed negative. I'm very sorry nairalanders for the bore writeup. But I felt compelled to write this to encourage us to practice safe sex. I know my story won't stop some people from having raw sex but trust me you wouldn't want to go through wat I went through.... Its not worth it. U dey form jagaban now say notin dey happen but my guy knowing that u ve HIV symptoms alone is enough to cause damaging depression to u. And one thing I also noticed this 2years is this...the devil is the most trickiest of all creatures. Any symptoms I tink of at all I will start experiencing it manifesting physically...the devil will so play wit ur mind and thoughts that you would literally believe u have the disease. Whatever symptoms of HIV I think of it will always manifest. Haba how was that possible. In all nairalanders I give God the glory that I came out negative. These two years has been the hardest of my life. I can't wish it for my enemy. All bcus of 5mins raw sex. Let's learn to always play safe no matter how much we want the sex. God bless you all for reading. 63 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 6:10pm On May 04, 2022 |
February 2021, I decided to go yet again for another test. It came out negative again.. But I still wasn't convinced yet bcus I still had the swollen lymph nodes on my neck. I still had other symptoms why then is this HIV hiding somewhere inside my body....why dont u just come out let the test detect u make I for know where I dey...which kind torment be this one na? I hated myself that period for ever having sex at all.... The self torture was just too much for me to bear. The HIV hiding itself inside my body, google adding more problems and symptoms to me was just too much for me. There was a day I cried. Yes, I cried like a baby all bcus of 5mins pleasure. I was depressed. 19 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 5:58pm On May 04, 2022 |
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| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 5:55pm On May 04, 2022 |
September came, I decided to run another test. Atleast this is the 4th month after my sexual contact with her and if any result should come out now its probably true... The journey to the lab was one of the longest (not because the place was far) journey of my life...they took my sample and told me to wait for 40mins....men and brethren that 40mins was like 15yrs. I was literally shaking bcus I knew i was positive. My name was called to come pickup my result. Ohhhh lord, why did u even invent sex in the first place? Lord, why why why why? I murmured as I went to collect the evenlope which had my test. I was stylishly opening it with one eyes closed, gently gently gently i opened it and skipped to the last part where d result was. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw HIV nonreactive....which also means negative. Ehhhh u say? Negative I shouted. But was that all? It only started. Why? Because according to google u could ve HIV but ur body won't detect the antibodies yet until like 1year.....which kind wahala be dis? 24 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 5:42pm On May 04, 2022 |
Ladies and gentlemen, I kid you not, after some months I started experiencing dry palm...that is, the skin on my palm was getting dried and peeling off..... Which kind wahala be this again na? What is all this for Christ's sake? I started cursing the day I set my eyes on that girl....infact, why didn't she resist me from having sex with her? Why did she make the sex so easy? Why did the condom choose to hide itself from me that day? God, me HIV? I ran once again to google to see if dried skin was part of the symptoms of HIV. Ladies and gentlemen, my fellow nairalanders, of course you already know the answer to that already... It was one of the symptoms although not the primary symptoms. I was also made to understand that no two persons can have the same HIV symptoms... But I don almost get all the symptoms there need to be as regards HIV. My life is ruined. Which multinational company would want t employ me as I was still a job seeker? Most big companies dont joke with tests like dat. I knew I was done for totally. Guess what? I was reducing in weight and body mass. Over thinking wan kill me... A whole me? Responsible, nice, gentle nd quiet guy HIV positive? E nor go better for the day I told that girl to come to my house I said 10 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 5:32pm On May 04, 2022 |
I couldn't wait for three months time as I was having sleepless and restless nights....whenever I walk on the streets I will be tinking so many tins at a time..... To the extent I was even at a point blaming the condom for hiding itself nd disappointing me when I needed it the most. I went to another lab a month and half later to run another test. It came out negative again. Well I knew the window period hasn't reached, so there wasn't any need to jubilate of being hiv negative... I never knew wat depression was like until then... My fellow nairalanders, I felt down, I couldn't concentrate on anything, I felt like an outcast, I started googling how people with HIV came out strong. I was reading how they were able to tell their family and friends their status. I knew I couldn't open to my family of my status bcus it would feel as if a spear was pierced in their heart. Gosh, how did I put myself into this mess. Travial continued 22 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 4:30pm On May 04, 2022*. Modified: 4:47pm On May 04, 2022 |
I knew I was in deep trouble.. I wasn't feeling normal, my mood changed, my once bubbling life depleted, I will always be in my room thinking my heart out. I was now the most visited customer of google in the whole world bcus every minute I'm always typing this and that just to convince myself I wasn't HIV positive, but the more I tried the more I see articles of HIV that says exactly of the symptoms I have as a sign of HIV. I asked myself, was the raw sex worth it? Did the 5mins I moaned in ecstasy was it really worth it? See how I am now restless, see how I ways have sleepiness nights thinking aloud.. Thinking about how I ve brought big shame upon myself and family and girlfriend if they get to find out that this descent and quiet guy is HIV positive... I quickly chatted up the girl and pleaded with her to tell me the truth if she has any underlying illness in her. I didn't just ask her if she was HIV positive bcus I myself haven't done test to confirm my status..I asked her and she said she was clean. Well. I didn't take that to heart after all who will gladly and openly tell u they are HIV positive. Two weeks after the sex wit her, I decided to go do checkup to know my fate. I also read there are some modern tests that can detect HIV as early as 2weeks. So I told myself the dye is cast. Its time to know my fate. I did the test and it came out negative. I wasn't happy because I knew the normal window period for HIV detection is 3months and 6months maximum, and here I am testing for HIV after just 2weeks of contact. I knew the next few months was going to be hell for me with lots of thinking and sleepless night....then I asked myself again, was the raw sex really worth it? See the kind of life I am living now. Continued... 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 4:19pm On May 04, 2022 |
4days after that day I started feeling some body changes. And before I knew it I was down with mild illness...in my mind, I was like hope this isn't as a result of my stand with the girl. God what have I done? I decided to convince myself it was just normal malaria. Ladies and gentlemen, some days after again I started noticing some rashes at the back of my hand and back of my body. I raced down to google to do the needful. Lol and behold the two signs I had were signs of HIV. I almost fell unconscious in my room.. I read further and discovered that fever and rashes are also symptoms of other illnesses, I was a bit relieved but deep down inside of me I knew there was no other illness in my body. So wat could have caused this fever and rashes on my body? My fellow nairalanders, after two weeks I started noticing some slight changes to my neck. One side was a bit and slightly bigger Dan the other. Although you can't easily see it not until i tell u to look closely, you won't see the difference. Wetin come still cause this one na, I asked myself... Again, I ran to google to know what the swelling was for.... Lo and behold I discovered it was called swollen lymph nodes and one of the major causes was HIV. Heyyyyyyyyy, I shouted and tears almost came down my cheek. My travails began. 24 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 4:10pm On May 04, 2022 |
She came and I ushered her in my room. Talked a bit and I decided to go for a kiss. She resisted and said we werent dating nd I couldn't do that. For my mind I say who be this one na, what do u mean by dating...but as a sharp guy I decided to sweet talk her and told her I would date her bcus she is lovely, sweet, beautiful and all what not. all just for me to "enter the place" as sang by Tuface idibia...she allowed me kiss her but I didn't fancy kising her bcus I wasn't interested in that. Then I made way for her top which she helped me unzipped and I got a full view of the melons. Well, we all know how it ended and I bleeped her. It wasn't up to 5mins when I heard my dad's car honk. I lied to her I was gonna open the gate bcus her pussy was not smelling nice. It depleted my d*ck nd my mood. I sha cane bck to the room and tried banging her again but she has already dressed up. Anyway for me mind shebi I don finally knack? I lied to her I was sent on an errant to go get something nd that I was leaving....so I excorted her to the main road nd stylishly diverted to another location and went back home. I felt fulfilled kinda. There and there I decided to go back to my box to see if I actually misplaced the condom...lo and behold the moment I opened a zip I saw the condom....damn That is where my travails began. 12 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 4:00pm On May 04, 2022 |
obinna58:I reject am in Jesus name  22 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 3:58pm On May 04, 2022 |
I didn't put much thought in it as I felt she wouldn't come... The next day came nd to my surprise she flashed. My heart skipped immediately. I called her and she told me she was on her way. Oh boy u mean I'm gonna bang that ass if she comes? So I asked myself. I quickly went to my box where I had kept one condom for sometime. I searched and searched and searched. Where dis condom come dey na? I knew I didn't misplace it so I thought nd she was already close by. I decided to forget about the condom bcus my heart was razing heavily now. If I perish I perish, after all something must kill a man. Greatest mistake of my life. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 3:52pm On May 04, 2022 |
I brought out the breasts and started sucking them one by one.... Then I made her bring out my d*ck for a quick Mouth Gig. She didn't fight back and did so gladly. Tho it was just a few seconds stuff bcus we were sceptical of the people passing by. For Christ's sake it was my street and everyone knows me as this quiet, gentle and descent guy(which I still am actually).. We were done and I decided to see her off. Later in the night I regretted for not seizing that opportunity to getting condom in my house, take her somewhere deserted and bang her (guess God was trying to help me avert wat was to come). Fast foward to the month of May 2020. We had chatted normally on WhatsApp and I told her to come see me and that I would give her a little something to take home as a thank you visit. I stylishly told her *I go like do o* ...though I can't remember the response she gave that moment but she agreed to come visit me the next day. 6 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 3:43pm On May 04, 2022 |
onyenatruchi:lol, please we shouldn't create that tribalism stuff bro  5 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 3:41pm On May 04, 2022 |
slawormiir:my Edo nigga. This matter happen for Benin oooo 14 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 3:41pm On May 04, 2022 |
This time around it was already dark. And as a sharp guy I decided to make use of this darkness. There is a shop in my street which closes early tho and there's always a bench kept at the varenda of the shop. We sat down there and started our chit chat. Well not to bore you with long stories of that moment, I had forgotten what we discussed that made her tell me she doesn't get Hot easily and I decided to use my brain(so I thought). I told her " are you trying to say if I press this your big boobs you won't get turned on" and she smiled. Without wasting time I used my right hand in grooming her left boobs as she was sitting by my left hand side. The feeling was mad. I had to take it a deep further by sliding my hand inside her too and her bra to feel the raw flesh of the boobs.. That moment I started thanking God for creating breasts bcus Omo 17 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 3:35pm On May 04, 2022 |
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| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 3:34pm On May 04, 2022 |
She didn't call as stipulated and I even zeroed my mind off it already. But I had hoped she called bcus of the butt, Omo. Weeks went by, and one evening I decided to go have a hair cut still in the same neighbourhood... I was done with the hair and decided to chill in front of the barbing saloon just to fill my eyes with the cars and people passing by as I wasn't in a hurry to go back home. There and there she walked passed nd we both sighted each other. We exchanged pleasantries as usual and talked a little and she told me she was going to see her sister abi cousin self who has a shop just a stone throw away from the barbing saloon and she said she would be back. True to her words she came back nd got some sweets and biscuits which she was eating..well I had to join in just for courtesy sake.. It was time to go home and I asked her to excort me to my street. She gladly obliged. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 3:29pm On May 04, 2022 |
Exactly 2years ago may to be precise is a day I would never forget in a hurry. I had met this girl resident in my area nd she had a killer butt. Well, I wasn't interested in creating a conversation with her as I thought she was one of this yahoo boy's babes bcus of the kinda hairstyle she did nd the dress she wore....long story short she somehow created the conversation and to be sincere she was all lively and fun to talk with....I was bidding her farewell when she asked for my digit so she could come take some movies from me later in the day. Although I was with another female friend of mine I didn't see it as a big deal since we all lived in the same neighbourhood. 10 Likes |
| Romance › What I Went Through For 2years All Because Of Raw Sex by Whatdidyousay(op): 3:23pm On May 04, 2022 |
Good day nairalanders This is a true life tale that happened to me and I felt it necessary to share so that others can be careful. I had to open up a new account now to narrate this in order to hide my identity. This is not intended to castigate or talk those into raw sex out of it but to open to them the dangers of engaging in it, because what happened to me ehhhh I dont tink I could wish it for my worse enemy. Your comments below will give me the momentum and zeal to continue with the writeup. Thanks and God bless 6 Likes |
, made promise to God I'll never have any sex again till I marry If given second chance ( may God forgive me) until I summoned courage went for test....all negative and clean.....just thinking of that thing can kill walai
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