Thanks to everyone who appreciated the pic and wished me well, and to those who didnt. God bless us all.

chigoizie7:



If I call u bad names now. They will ban me

I'm sorry, I really don't get you.

From my inbox:
EVIL BREED
Omo! TNT, Una good evening o, I will try to be as brief as possible, but please keep me anonymous, because the lady I'm writing about is likely to be a follower here.
Man dey sleep o, trouble dey wake am.my eldest brother remarried three years ago after his wife left him for his womanizing ways, call it karma, but I thing he is getting what's meant for him, but at my own expense and I'm not finding it funny anymore.
He is the black sheep of the family, and my poor old parents gave up on him, long before they died( God bless their souls). He married this very attractive young promising woman, who is almost twice his age, and two years older than I am. Since I'm the youngest, fresh out of school, with no job offer yet, I've been putting up with him for almost a year now
Long story short, this woman does not just seduce me often, but she also forced her self on me twice.. I've been celebate for two years and I'll be damned if I should break if for a loose woman, such as that (forgive me). How do I begin to tell my eldest brother that his young wife claims he is too old and does not satisfy him in bed? That the mother of his only son is lusting after his youngest brother? That the boy he keeps under his roof, suddenly ignites the sexual fantasies of his pretty young jewel(wife)
Omo, I cannot shout o, because if I was in his shoes, I won't even believe the story.I've been trying my best to avoid this woman o, I even sleep out most times, when my brother travels, since I know I will get a late night visitor. She even claims she can make my brother send me packing(ode), see this half olosho, half mami water o, my brother of 26 years and your husband of just 3 years?..I get scared at times, because I trust the power of a woman, especially if she is on a mission.
Aunty Admin, my dear TNT FAM, please help a brother, lest he falls into temptation o.its now a matter of *you must qwansh by force* I've even recorded her once, one night she snuck into my room, but guess what, I was robbed of my phone the next day. Please o, this ain't Nollywood, a broz life and future is at stake. How do I handle this evil trying to swallow me? I can't even move out, NO MONEY o.Omo! TNT, Una good evening o, I will try to be as brief as possible, but please keep me anonymous, because the lady I'm writing about is likely to be a follower here.
Man dey sleep o, trouble dey wake am.my eldest brother remarried three years ago after his wife left him for his womanizing ways, call it karma, but I thing he is getting what's meant for him, but at my own expense and I'm not finding it funny anymore.
He is the black sheep of the family, and my poor old parents gave up on him, long before they died( God bless their souls). He married this very attractive young promising woman, who is almost twice his age, and two years older than I am. Since I'm the youngest, fresh out of school, with no job offer yet, I've been putting up with him for almost a year now
Long story short, this woman does not just seduce me often, but she also forced her self on me twice.. I've been celebate for two years and I'll be damned if I should break if for a loose woman, such as that (forgive me). How do I begin to tell my eldest brother that his young wife claims he is too old and does not satisfy him in bed? That the mother of his only son is lusting after his youngest brother? That the boy he keeps under his roof, suddenly ignites the sexual fantasies of his pretty young jewel(wife)
Omo, I cannot shout o, because if I was in his shoes, I won't even believe the story.I've been trying my best to avoid this woman o, I even sleep out most times, when my brother travels, since I know I will get a late night visitor. She even claims she can make my brother send me packing(ode), see this half olosho, half mami water o, my brother of 26 years and your husband of just 3 years?..I get scared at times, because I trust the power of a woman, especially if she is on a mission.
Aunty Admin, my dear TNT FAM, please help a brother, lest he falls into temptation o.its now a matter of *you must qwansh by force* I've even recorded her once, one night she snuck into my room, but guess what, I was robbed of my phone the next day. Please o, this ain't Nollywood, a broz life and future is at stake. How do I handle this evil trying to swallow me? I can't even move out, NO MONEY o. @truth_and_tears

Osasnidas:
baba God all this fair weather ladies that like friend zoning Boys. when they have nothing only to realise they made mistake when the weather is now fair for the boys oh Lord open my eyes to see them and elongate my legs to flee from them

amen

Khutie:
The God I serve will punish Ola wid busy schedule this weekend...
and yhur wicked intentions won't be fulfilled...
And for all these nairaland girls behaving this way, am xowie for una, na for Shiloh una case dey..

amen

When I got this message earlier today, I really tried my best not to advise her, cos I would have broken all codes of conducts by heaping unthinkable insults on her.
Since I couldn't, I ignored the message of course, then posted it on my IG page for people who can advise or talk on such.
Had to bring this here on Nairaland cos I enjoy the mad luv and attention via comments nd views. Thanks y*all... As for the poster, even on nairaland, I still reserve my comment

mauryn87:
Witch on the loose!

rotfl I swear

From my inbox...
Good day TNT, remain blessed for this forum, and God make you bigger. I pray you see reasons with me, and post this story.
I'm 25 and all my life, I've had 2 male best friends Ola and Tunde. We've grown in strength, love and wisdom, though Ola is 28 and Tunde is 27, we all grew up in the same neighborhood and same school till we graduated from the university. Somewhere along the line, I developed feelings for Tunde, but he never reciprocated this, and I turned to a stalker and made sure no girl was around him. On several occasions tho, Ola acted funny around me, but I didn't pay attention to him, I guess its because he wasn't as tall, handsome and rich as Tunde.
Speak of karma or sheer bad luck, 2 years after graduation, Ola is now the CEO of a great company and is every woman's dream. Tunde on the other hand traveled to Cyprus, got married to a white and is currently into lots of illegal deals. I heard from a reliable source in December that Ola is in a serious relationship that might lead to marriage by March 2017. I've been devastated since then, he hardly speaks to me or even reply my texts.
He has finally agreed to meet me on my birthday, which is this weekend. I will be ovulating by then, I'm thinking of seducing him and getting pregnant for him. I know Ola, he loves me and he is very compassionate, he will leave his fiancée and marry me. FAM, do you all think its a good idea? Because I don't want to loose out on both ends. No insults please, I'm just desperately in need of advice. @truth_and_tears

TRUST OR FROST
Good evening TNT, nice work you are doing here. I'm Kendal, 25 and I'll be walking down the isle in 3weeks. I know this might be a little late, but its better late than never.
I love my husband to be, and I guess he loves me too. The problem is that I doubt if he trusts me, what is love without trust? Yes, he practically stole me from my ex, but never did I know that at some point, he will use it as pointers to hurt me

We argue a lot since we got engaged, and he never forgets to remind me that I'm not a loyal lover, but someone who is ready to jump onto the next ride, each time the storm comes.
I really don't understand, I was in a disturbing relationship, my ex hits me almost all the time, and when I couldn't take it anymore, I made up my mind to leave.

Mark(my fiance) was an acquaintance then who eventually turned to a friend because he was always there to listen to my sad stories...he made me feel loved and cherished. A month after I broke up with my ex, we hooked up and we've been together ever since.
This only happened because I fell in love with him, but I don't understand his recent aggressive nature. Pls, what do I do? Should I quit or go on into what might be a frosty marriage? @truth_and_tears

ADMIN: Dear Kendal, honey, you are too young to get entangled in such complications, let alone a life time of trust issues from your man. I won't ask you to leave, neither will I tell you to stay. If you are strong enough for emotional torture, then I wish you the very best. Personally, I think God is obviously giving you a sign and you should acknowledge that. If he doesn't trust you, then you guys can never build a strong home. Better late than never dear. Either you set him straight, or you keep moving and never turn back.

LePrezident:


You're welcome but which of the ig pics on your ig page is your image

lol none my dear. @truth_and_tears is my page for advice and co, but my followers don't really know that I own it. You can also follow me on my personal handle @edochiewhisper_edd

LePrezident:


You're welcome... and you're a polite lady, that's a plus

awww thanks a lot dear. I really appreciate this.

LePrezident:


Oohh, then you should have stated it so cos it has the tendency to confuse a reader.

thanks dear, I just did. God! I really hope peeps didn't assume it was a personal story. I always made it clear in my previous posts, just that I was kind of busy, so I did get the time to reply, before the copy nd paste. But thanks all the same, y*all should please follow my page on IG for great stories @truth_and_tears.

LePrezident:


What is this? Are you now advicing your own self?

omg...its not a personal story. I have a page where people send me problems on Instagram nd I advise them. Thats a story from my follower. @truth_and_tears

My dear, consequences of our actions, be it good or bad, has a way of catching up with us, that's why parents, guardians and loved ones advise us to watch our steps, especially in the university, since its the path way to our future. I don't know how u can get out of this, but if love truly conquers all, then James might ignore that part too. Don't give into his friend's threat or advances, it will only complicate issues. Talk to your man, and pray for the best.

From my Inbox: @truth_and_tears
Good day TNT. Dear FAM, we've all been crazy, but I'm not looking to be judged, I just need your advice on this..I'm 24, from western Nigeria, finished my masters a couple of months back, and my boyfriend who I've been dating for a year, might end up leaving me for my mistake in the past. Back then in my university days, I partied like a maniac, I didn't smoke, but I loved spirits and red wine. The thing is,I had a friend then, Owen, who always asked me out, but I wasn't emotionally attached to him. I know he was a bad influence, but I figured I only had 3 more years to have fun in the university, so I didn't mind. Although it didn't affect my grades, it made me popular for the wrong reasons. One night at our friends party, things got wild, I was high and even took some pills, I guess I got Hot and next thing, we all started making out and it was fun.. I later blacked out, woke up in the morning and met a gory scene. We were all naked, all 10 of us, each girl to a guy, and I slept in Owens arms. I was so upset, I cursed at him, left and headed to the hospital. That was the end of my friendship with Owen, I avoided him till I graduated and traveled out for my masters.I haven't as much as attended a birthday PARTY till date, and I'm really happy with my new life. I met James online, we became friends and started dating, he has lived practically all his life in the states and plans of settling in Nigeria this year. I came back a week ago, so he came to the airport to pick me up with his friend, the same guy he complains that he doesn't like his lifestyle and how whores hover around him and all..that friend is Owen, his childhood friend. FAM, Owen is threatening to break us up, stating that I don't deserve his friend and all. My boyfriend knows that I was once a party freak, but I doubt if he can swallow this gulp, should Owen tell him everything, including that night. The fool still makes silly advances at me and when I turn him down, he keeps assuring me that James would never settle with me, and it would be his word of 28 years against mine of just 1year... What do I do, I've invested my all in this one year of knowing and loving him. @truth_and_tears

SafeDavid:
Would have been better if the real owner of the story posted it for better advice especially in a very sensitive situation like this.

posted as gotten dear, my attached advice is the only foreign item. I understand your point tho, and I appreciate your comment.

TO TRUST OR NOT
Happy weekend everyone and God bless you admin and the few persons who comment here. I had to go through few stories here, and I must commend you and your followers for the mature advice you all dish out her
Please keep me anon, I've been dating my guy for 10 months now, and I'm not the media type that brings my privacy to the world, so my relationship and many aspects of my live remained private that even my bestie who moved to another country a year ago, doesn't know my lover.
Something strange happened last month, when my guy saw the picture of my bestie, shock was obviously registered on his face but he only claimed he didn't like the girl and that I would have to choose between keeping him or my bestie. Everything started happening so fast, the hate and complications grew worse, so since we are in a long distance relationship, I had my space to investigate.
TNT, my friend who screamed when she saw my lovers picture claims he is a fraudster and a gigolo who makes money off of women.I confronted him and he claims otherwise. Pls help me FAM, I love them both, but who could be lying? @truth_and_tears

ADMIN: I'm not so good at statistics but its obvious you lover isn't what he appears to be. In a long distant relationship, you can't state what the other party does, and my guess is that he travels a lot. Fraudsters are real my dear, investigate more, to kill your curiosity, after all he got shocked at the first sight of your bestie who stays in another country..then again, there are always two sides to every story, so be wise and thread carefully...things might not be what it seems. Good luck!

Good day TNT, happy Sunday FAM, please I'd love to remain anonymous.
Pls dear, is it just me, or can this be irritating? My boyfriend of 7 months now can be weird at times. He has called me his EXs name like 5 times, during love making.I don't know what to do, and its really annoying.
I know he went through a rough breakup, but its been up to 9 months now. He suddenly started referring to me as Nancy, now I feel he thinks about her while making love to me. We love each other and we've been good all this while, so why the sudden change? Do you think he is cheating on me? FAM, pls I need help.

ADMIN: Dear poster, even if he is not cheating, its very disrespectful referring to you as his EX during love making. This isn't once, but severally, I don't know if you just want to ignore the writing on the Wall, so let me be the first to spell it out...He is not into YOU.
It can be corrected with a dialogue tho, otherwise, just move on and start over.

SHOULD I BE WORRIED?
Good day TNT, God less you for this platform. Admin, I'm really scared o, I don't know if I should call off my wedding..I've been dating my fiance for roughly 26 months, I won't swear its been a bed of roses, but we always survived all storms, and I thank God for that.
We got engaged last month, but a piece of the past just resurfaced. In the beginning of our relationship, he introduced his ex to me, as his cousin, along the line, I found out, but he assured me it was a harmless act, that he sees her as a sister and didn't want to make me uncomfortable with the details. I found it difficult to swallow, but I did forgive him. Now this girl is insisting on being in my bridal train, to make issues worse, my fiance is now so close to her than before.
I don't want to kill myself with problem in the future. pls help me FAM,do you think I'm being paranoid?

ADMIN: dear one, I can't emphasize more on the fact that EXs are not meant to be friends, let alone as close as u stated. A little injury today can lead to amputation. Dear poster, to avoid the problem that MUST surface in the future, your fiance would have to choose between his coming marriage and friendship with his Ex...Happy married life in advance dear.

Hello Admin,good day everyone, I'm just a regular good girl in her 20s, I recently started having lots of doubts about my life in general, so I felt I should share it with the world to get their views.

I'm this wonderful daughter, always used as an example by parents...I don't go out, I don't smoke, don't club, I only party once in a blue moon. I have few persons around me,I'm strict, so I get rid of people easily. I'm just generally on the good side, all the time.
Recently, I've bn thinking of LIVING a little, not necessarily to go BAD, but to HV fun. I feel restricted by my own self,I feel I keep in a lot of bad thoughts and might explode one day, and at the wrong time..I don't know if I'm making any sense, but I want to feel like a normal person for once, and not a robot with certain specifications.

I want to party, club, mingle, kiss a stranger, gamble with friends and have a little fun, but I still find myself restricted. @truth_and_tears

ADMIN: Dear poster, you are obviously going through a phase and a lot of people might not understand..the things you mentioned are not bad, so I'm guessing u had a strict upbringing. In other not to go BAD like you said, just try and have the fun you need, but with certain people who you trust that can put you in check, should you go out of place...
I'm guessing you are a time bomb, the earlier you detonate in contained/controlled area, the BEST for everyone. Kisses dear, and good luck.

refiner:
Copy and paste....

Anyway the admin is right...let the man teach her instead of going outside to get it...

yes dear, its from my Instagram page, I'm the admin...thanks for the comment tho, I'm new here and I'm yet to get a hang of it.☺

Nice evening to you TNT, please I beg to stay anonymous. I really wonder what a woman can really do to satisfy her man.
I'm a good woman and I've been married for three years, growing up, I learnt how to be clean and be a good cook, amongst others, but owing to my part of the world(Africa) sex education was not really a THING.

Before child birth, I rem my hubby complained a lot about my sexuality being boring, but I don't really blame him.I wasn't really that experienced before marriage, I remember having sex just twice with my EX.
My hubby always complained about me not satisfying him, or maintaining a good position or initiating sex. Dear Admin, I've watched porn, adult movies, I've read sexual magazines and spoken to several friends about this.. I actually thought I had improved a bit, only for him to get upset and just last week, he called me FRIGID and hasn't touched me since then.Please advice me on how to go about this. @truth_and_tears

ADMIN: Dear poster, if you have really done all these things just to improve and satisfy you man, then I'm really sorry,for he is the Novice! If he is not OK with your positions and sex life, its his responsibility to teach you and make you comfortable even in your vices. I'm sure one if his reasons for taking you as a wife is because you are naive sexually, now he is not comfortable with his package. He should be a man, suck it up and teach you, correct you and tell you his likes and dislikes.
If he is expecting you to learn it elsewhere, then my dear, you are in for serious trouble, because believe it or not, SEX is the foundation of marriage, and if you are not giving it to him right, he will seek it elsewhere.. Talk to him dear, tell him to teach you, then free yourself, don't be stiff, be flexible mentally and physically, always improvise and enjoy the ride.

Good evening TNT, nice work you are doing here. Please I'd love to stay anonymous. Myself and my twin sister grew up loving each other, but we are always in competition.. Best dressed, most brilliant, most beautiful and co. We are not really identical, people mostly think we are just friends.

My sister loves competition more that anything, but I'm not really that type of lady. We are 24 this year, so things are gradually falling apart. In 2014, we made a bet on who will get married first. Initially, I declined but seeing how she's rubbing it and every other thing on my face, I decided to take up the challenge.
Things got bad in 2015 when we found out we were dating the same guy. We fought endlessly till I eventually left the guy for her and they've been together till date.

December 25th, my boyfriend proposed to me in a grand style and ever since, my sister has been a shadow of her self. Since I hate seeing her down, I had to ask her what the problem was...now she wants me to put my wedding on hold, till her boyfriend proposes, so we can have a double wedding.
If I don't, I know it will bring up another war. Pls advice me on how to go about this. @truth_and_tears

ADMIN: Dear poster, the most important thing in life is happiness and the only one who can give you that, is yourself. Your twin can't condone loosing, now she wants you to pause your happiness.. She is selfish(sorry)
You've given up a lot for her, its time she does the same, and if she can't see reasons with you, then she doesn't love you. Be wise my dear, time waits for no one. You both have different destinies, so its time to grow up and find your path. God made you both fraternal twins for a reason, so don't limit your happiness for her selfish aim.