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Hmmmmm. I prefer not to talk.

Zitania:
Haba. There are many of such jobs na

She can even work from home as a writer and earn as much as 2,000 Naira daily

Any link to the writing jobs?

sharpwriter:
Sorry Comrade, presently, I don't have any writing gig to give out. Me too sef dey find hustle o

Lol. It's well. Able bodied youth ready to work but no work.

sharpwriter:
It's not the world oldest profession oga.... Prove it if it is.

Hello Sharpwriter, I need some writing work. Can I work with you?

obaaderemi:
A kg of cooking gas is #450 where I live. How much is it in your neighborhood?

450 and you are not happy? I managed to refill 2 kg yesterday and that was for nothing less than N1200. N600/KG. How bad can it get in this country? The politicians are pushing the people to the wall. They shouldn't forget what happened during #EndSARS. They should do everything possible not to let people hit the street again. I'm sending warning to them.

WriterGuide:
I'm looking for writers that can write informative articles about coffee. My rate is N2 pw. Send your related samples to my WhatsApp no 0-7-0-3-4-0-7-1-8-7-1

I never wrote on coffee before but I can give you a good job regardless.

I said it before. It's only in a sick country like Nigeria that someone like Jega would still come out to talk nonsense after he was the captain who brought the calamity upon the nation. Every good concern Nigerian should stone or lynch this man to death. That's what he actually deserves for destroying the country.

Buhari must really be mad. So with all the ills, we shouldn't voice out? I think over injection/over charged battery is taking a toil on him.

I'm surprised someone like Jega can still open mouth and spew thrash and go scot free in this country. Someone like Jega deserves to be lynched by good minded Nigerians for enthroning this decay on us.

And that is it! Tomorrow, another set of young ones get killed in the process again (I'm not praying for it) and another batch of condolence will be released.

Pathetic country.

God help us.

No price attached?

Meanwhile, report has it that some NYSC members posted to Katsina state from Akwa Ibom got involved in a ghastly accident. Many dead already.

Ok

This man can never disappoint

The price of everything in that list has tripled

Everything in that list has tripled

NovusHomo:
A reminder:
$1 will soon hit 550 Naira

Na why I dey find writing jobs so I can keep with the pace in terms of hard economy.

Polynek:
Making sense Sha

Abi?

Ok

Even till when clock will stop ticking, not all relationships will last long or lead to marriage and of course even if it leads to marriage, there's no guarantee there won't be a divorce. In other words, having an ex or exes will continue to abound.

Truth is, as we grow in life, we get exposed and tend to meet different people at various points. While we may be glad for meeting some or a particular person, conversely, others can be filled with regret.

The question is, how does one totally forget about the person after a break up? Well, it's established that one of the easy ways to get someone off mind is by stop seeing the person. This is why some people prefer to get rid of the person's images either by burning the hard copy photographs or deleting completely the soft copies from their devices and as well as blocking on all social media platforms.

In all of these, the following are 5 types of exes (those you have dated before) which you may not find it easy to totally forget about. In no particular order, let's check it out.

Church member
Dating a church member is fun as you both tend to flow well together spiritually and romantically. In fact, dating a fellow church member gives one peace of mind. This is because you feel comfortable around the person having known a lot about him/her via the church way even before dating.

In general, you feel at home with the person since you both are in same religious belief and see nothing to worry about. While the going may be sweet, it could be difficult breaking up.

However, even if you are able to break up, deleting or forgetting totally about the person may be a herculean. It is simple. Each time you are in church, or may be the next church activity crosses your mind, what follows immediately is your ex. Consequently, so many other thoughts come in too such as if he/she will also be in church, what if you both happens to sit next to each other and the pastor says "turn to your neighbour, shake and smile at him/her", what are the church members even saying about you guys since the break up?

All these add up and get you worried making it difficult to totally forget about the person. In reality, some people can't even stand the heat and the best option to them is to quit the church or parish/branch.

First love
Let me quickly ask you a question. How did your first love go? Except it wasn't genuine, I'm sure till today he or she still crosses your mind.

Now although not only attributed to women, but women tend to attach so much love and emotion to the first man they ever dated. This is why they count so much on the man having been the one who deflowered them. They can't love the man less and even when there's a break up, they don't easily get over it and move on. Men on the other hand equally don't find it easy to forget about the first woman they dated. They attach so much feelings to the woman and even after break up, the memories stay back.

Dating a neighbour
So many benefits come with dating a neighbour. For the guys, in a country like Nigeria where girls bill guys so much on transportation fare, dating a neighbour would automatically save you the stress of keeping transport money on every visit. She can easily stroll in and stroll back to her place (if she so wishes) at no cost. But apart from the transport aspect, so many other benefits come with it such as easy accessibility, close monitoring and observation of his/her lifestyle, possible assistance when in need e.g. if he or she has information that NEPA people are in the street, he or she can quickly run down to your place to help you change over from the "bypass". Just so many benefits.

However, this kind of love is mostly sweet when the two are genuinely in love with each other as it comes with a lot of drama. Conversely, if it's not genuine, it's advisable not to even start in the first place. At break up, it's usually very difficult to forget him or her. Why? You tend to bump into him/her on daily basis. Whether you stroll out to fetch/buy water, you bump into him/her. You rush out to get pepper from the nearby shop, you bump into him/her. You are taking fresh air in front of your compound, you see him/her passing. And unlike before, when NEPA people are in the street, he/she would be the one leading them to your place to show the bypass so they can disconnect your light. This kind of lifestyle may continue unending and until one of you relocates from the area. In submission, it's usually difficult to forget about a neighbour you were once dating.

Colleague at work
Office romance is usually discouraged and frowned at mostly because of its negative implications but colleagues in different offices have continued to go into it regardless. While it has its merits and demerits in terms of work productivity and even beyond, it's always difficult when break up begins to surface. Imagine breaking up with a colleague whom you'll come back to the office tomorrow and every other day to see again? It could be difficult to think less of the person and also traumatizing psychologically. Consequently, some people find it difficult to manage the situation and they either resign or apply for transfer (if possible) so they can stop seeing that face, hence possible to get him/her off their their mind.

Another negative part is that after the break up, the colleague may be bringing in his/her new partner to the office to play romance such as deep hugging and kissing right in front of you. Take it or not, seeing them in such mood can never guarantee you peace of mind. Therefore, it's better you quit the job or apply for transfer.

Course mate in school
Generally dating while in university is fun and is seen as part of social life on campus but imagine falling in love with a course mate from first year in the university. Except such lasts for the whole period (4, 5 or 6 years as the case may be), it could be challenging moving on if it ends prematurely. This is why this can be likened to dating a colleague in office. Breaking up with a course mate in school means you'd still come back tomorrow and every other day throughout the time being to see the same face which makes it difficult to get him/her off your mind. In some occasions based on lecturer's arrangement, you both may happen to sit next to each other in lecture or exam hall. What's going to happen?

Conclusion
It's important to look before you leap. Put in perspective the merits and demerits of what the relationship is going to bring before going into it. Some might be very difficult breaking up even when it's necessary to.

Corporate account for that matter. Wonderful. Really enterprising.

Na wa o. Human keeps proving how wicked the mind can be.

Seniorwriter:
@OP there are thousands of ease2access earning opportunities available to earn via online but you need any or all of these three(3) basics for a legitimate earning means;
# Digital Skill(s)
# Digital Service(s)
# Investment Capital

And since you have a non digital skill(sewing) you can design a Digital Service out of it.
For instance you can decide to start an online eCommerce platform offering sewing related products.

If your expertise is topnotch you can create contents (visuals) for training or mentorship on fashion....there are over 50 fashion niches you can venture .

In another news reach out via the facebook Id on my profile's personal text if you are interested in learning how to earn up to $100 weekly from Whiteboard Animation.
Fee for mentorship is $50 or it's Naira equivalent.


Via facebook as I stated in my comment.

I've got more than enough hands(Mentees)....but I can link you up to someone.....Do you have your Online Presence as a Writer for an appropriate perusal?

@SeniorWriter

I'm a beginner at the moment but I can you show the ones I have done. If you are satisfied, then we move on.

Seniorwriter:
@OP there are thousands of ease2access earning opportunities available to earn via online but you need any or all of these three(3) basics for a legitimate earning means;
# Digital Skill(s)
# Digital Service(s)
# Investment Capital

And since you have a non digital skill(sewing) you can design a Digital Service out of it.
For instance you can decide to start an online eCommerce platform offering sewing related products.

If your expertise is topnotch you can create contents (visuals) for training or mentorship on fashion....there are over 50 fashion niches you can venture .

In another news reach out via the facebook Id on my profile's personal text if you are interested in learning how to earn up to $100 weekly from Whiteboard Animation.
Fee for mentorship is $50 or it's Naira equivalent.


Via facebook as I stated in my comment.

@SeniorWriter

I want to join your writing team. Any articles for me?

Na wa o. All these for what? Show off? How was the woman being taken care of when she was alive? Why couldn't they celebrate her like this when she was alive? I even saw one video the Obi of a guy was throwing money and poor villagers were rushing and jamming themselves in attempt to pick. In other words, with all these riches and show off, poor people surround him. To what end? Just for a burial? Please, they should be limit to everything.

lauryy:
most people posting didn’t read d post at all.
And its 7miles not 17 miles

Whether 17 or 7, the distance of 1 mile cannot be covered with legs.

No be only 17miles. Na 1000 miles. Do you even know the distance of 1 mile and then times it into 17?

Exactly how I went through school. May God bless and reward us bountifully.