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Disagreements are bound to ensue among couples, because naturally, people are expected to react to issues differently. Marriage counsellors say the response and manner in which couples react to matters are determinants of the survival of their marriages. If their spouses slapped them in the public for whatever reason, SATURDAY PUNCH asked some Nigerians what their reactions would be.
I’ll feel bad - Rejoice Ada
Why would he slap me in the public? That’s just too mean. I will feel bad, but I will expect that he apologises promptly. If he does that, I’ll forgive him, though I may not really forget about the incident. All the same, I will still love him like I used to, if he repents. It’s only when he wants to take my kindness for granted that I will show him my other side.

She must give me a million reasons she did so -Charles Adebowale
Which kind of wife slaps her husband in the public? Even if she did so in the closet, does it make it normal? No! No matter what I could have done or said that angered her, I could never have deserved such treatment. That’s way too far. The best thing she has to do for her own sake is to promptly apologise publicly so that I would not be angry at her madly. If she can’t apologise, then she must be ready to give me a million reasons why she slapped me. It is an embarrassing act.

He has to tell me why and apologise- Fatimo Babalola
That kind of man is a beast. No matter what I could have said to him that made him to be angry, he didn’t have any right to slap me. If he wants peace in the home thereafter, he should tell me at once why he slapped me, then he must apologise and compensate me for not returning that slap. Truth is, returning the slap would only be a show of shame in the public and it will be an embarrassment to friends and family members that learn about it later. I’ll choose the path of honour by asking for reasons and letting him beg for my forgiveness.

I’ll stop eating her food - Joe Oladokun
I’ll clean my cheeks up, though naturally I would be angry. That’s expected of me. But being a gentleman comes with so many sacrifices. For instance, it’s not possible for me to pay her back by landing my own slaps on her cheeks. I’ll get over it, at least while we were still in the public.
It’s when we get home that I may then bother to ask her what went wrong. Failure to produce an answer and apologise will be too mean of her and that, I will not take lightly. There are ways to deal with her, but I won’t disclose much. One of them is to refuse to eat her food and communicate with her. It’s a painful experience, but I can’t retaliate – as a gentleman.



NOW OVER TO YOU GUYS!!

What's your take on these responses and what will be your own response

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[b] The presidents of Liberia, Guinea and Sierra Leone have appealed for $3.2bn to aid their
countries recover from the Ebola crisis that has retarded their economies, severely destroyed the social fabric of their nations and killed more than 11,000 people.

Liberia’s President Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, speaking on behalf of the above l isted countries, told
a high-level UN conference that international support will give millions of people a chance to
rebuild their lives and promote regional stability and world trade.

“The world as a whole has a great stake in how we together respond to this global threat,” she said, adding that “virus diseases, just like terrorism, know no national boundaries.”

The first five pledges to finance the national plans of the three countries totaled more than
$1.5bn – $340m from Britain, $495m from the European Union, $360m from the Islamic Development Bank, $266m from the United States and $80m from Japan.

Sierra Leone’s President Ernest Bai Koroma said making the plans work “has the urgency of a life and death situation for over 20 million people in our countries.”

Guinea’s President Alpha Conde stressed the need for “a Marshall Plan” that includes writing off the international debts of the three countries, a reference to the US program to help rebuild European economies after the end of the second world war.

In addition to the $3.2bn needed for the countries’ national plans, Sirleaf said another $4bn will be needed to finance a regional recovery plan.[/b]



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If it's true , then they are not couples

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I cant be decieved!


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So after my counselling and advice you still went ahead with WEED.


See what you are doing to yourself

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The Nigerian military said its troops have
arrested the mastermind of last Sunday’s
bombing in Jos, Plateau state, and Tuesday’s
suicide blast in Zaria, Kaduna state.


The Defence Headquarters said in a tweet on
Wednesday that the suspect was arrested at a
military checkpoint in Gombe State.


It said the arrest followed an operation by a
combined team of the military and DSS
operatives.

It did not give further details.

The Plateau attack killed 44 people while the
explosion in Zaria killed 26 people.



http://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/186321-breaking-nigerian-troops-arrest-mastermind-of-jos-zaria-bombings.html

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FlirtyKaren:
This happened yesterday at the Murtala Mohammed Airport 2 in Lagos. According to an eye witness, the left wing of the new Emirate Boeing 787 collided with the tail of Hak Air plane during take off. No casualty was reported.


http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/07/photo-emirates-aircraft-collides-with.html

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Hammefeez:
there is No way i could let you read this unless i quote you so, no vex

till this world rapp up and become vanity, we will always have different religions. There is no book either Quran, Bible or others that states how the whole world will be in one religion, we shall always have people with different faith around us.

If you hate islam and everything that has to do with muslim so bad then you are no better than boko haram cos if you see gun and protection maybe from government or influential people in the society you will kill too. That's exactly the state of mind of those boko haram, isis etc. they hate Xtian too. If you like it or not Muslims will always present in this world, africa, Nigeria and Xtian will always live too so, think more on how to live together not how to fight each other.

Bros abeg , this is too early to start quarells.

I'm not a Religion bigot and will never be.

You guys understood that statement in the wrong direction.

Now lemme ask you something.


If you were a worker at certain company and the staffs and workers abuse you racially and religiously because you are black and not being a christian .

what will you do?

You are talking like a Nyash-digger (gay)