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kandiikane:
So because you enjoyed it, it's the same for men all round? Don't be ignorant about sex.ual abuse, the psychology goes beyond mere face value.

In fact, the organisation mankind which helps men who have been abused says that "regardless of how it felt at the time, problems may occur in the future".

well what problems? Let me ask you this. A violated little girl would still be scathed when she becomes a woman. For men its different. I don't know if you have looked at the sexual psychology of men and women. Its so different.

cbrass:
*pushes him away from mat*

oh boy u r serious oo...but for ur mind sha!

cbrass:
Did she ask you to remove your cloths

I didn't talk to u o

kandiikane:
so it's okay for little boys to be abused because they "enjoy it"?

no its not okay. But its not a traumatic experience either.

[quote author=Imanuelle post=30064123]But wait first, how do guys say they suffer emotional trauma and blablabla due to molestation?

It happened to me too, as a fresh kid from lag during the holidays, everyone would want to hold and carry, and even Peck me.

Mine was even my cousin, but I don't suffer any trauma, I don't even remember it all the time I see her, heck I didn't even remember until a sudden flashback a few years ago. When I do remember, I just wave it off!

So, for any guy to whine and cringe, and say he feels damaged or emotionally what not whenever he remembers his ordeal is unmanly. Maybe the ladies, but not the guys. A guy should wave it off, and move on.

No time, ko kan aiye.[/quote mine was by my elder sisters friend in secondary school and I was 6 that time and another was by my elder cousin I don't remember the age. I wish I was older. I just pity the girls. That Benson guy would have preferred an uncle instead of an aunty. Lol

prettyjo:
*spreads long mat*
for those that would love to join me

i*takes off clothes* I would love to join u!

kendrick9:
this niyola is a confused being. U were molested many times but not defiled? what does that even mean

molestation is when a person touches another person sexually or says things they are sexually uncomfortable...while being sexually defiled is the actual rape. Forced penetration, forced to perform sexual activity on the attacker or statutory.

Kachisbarbie:
Character is an understatement.
That guy's brain is definitely under some kinda construction/upgrade.

fi fa fum Benson is gay damn it!!!

AutosBay:
I guess molestation is now another free marketing word in the Dictionary, no one sold oranges on the street again, now na molestation dey reign. Produce your molestation certificate or I don't believe it.

no mind those two men 4 d list...as if they didn't enjoy it.

I feel so sorry for the girls. Raping a girl is not only evil its beyond evil. But Ice Prince and ( I don't even know that Benson of a guy) should shut the fucck up they enjoyed it. Maybe not Benson as he looks gay!

Adaeze003:
Oga... u no dey tire?

have u done any of the above

DrWalter:
#RESPECT to my virgin fiancee..if u are reading dis now u are my world

I don tidy ur fiance for u.

tosyne2much:
My thread comes like the rattle of a gun & it is always based on proper research and sampling. The mentality of an average 9ja boy is that, when a lady claims to love her & refuses to open her legs, then it means she doesn't have a genuine love for him while some quickly conclude that a random guy out there might probably be doing what he's being deprived of

Let's unveil the reasons behind it

Just sit down, relax, grab your vaseline, dip your hand into your boxers and start reading the post

Let's get to business

Reasons Why Ladies Make It Difficult To Get Under Their Pants In Relationships

1. To Earn Respect
Some ladies will almost make you lie on the floor prostrating to them before they finally give in even when it's printed over their faces that they really want it. They mostly do this because they don't want to be seen cheap by their newly found boyfriends

2. The Fear Of Being Dumped Afterwards
Another reason why ladies withhold sex in relationships is the fear of being dumped. We are now in an era where it's terribly difficult for a lady to know the intentions of her male suitor(s). However, guys of this generation are desperate to get under the pant of a lady. Some can even jeopardise their lives at the expense of getting into a lady's pant. Many guys would pretend & resort to take them for granted after the deed has been done

3. For Personal/Unknown Reasons
It is precisely when you start to expect sex from your girlfriend that she starts using that presumption against you. Some ladies make a habit of withholding sex in their relationships, while some only do it under very specific circumstances to the extent that they purposefully withhold it woman making it hard like OAU Post UME Exam

4. She Senses You Wont Take Her To The Altar
Some ladies purposefully make sex be as hard as sending GEJ back to Otu Oke so as to make their boyfriends make promises before they open their legs. However, some ladies want their man to promise them marriage or take them to their parents b4 they open their legs. When no hope is marriage is coming forth, then NO show at all

5. She’s Manipulating You
Another reason ladies withhold sex is to get
something out of you. When no other methods of getting what she wants are working, she might resort to revoking sex privileges until you agree to what she’s after. The easiest way to get around this is to give her what she wants. If that’s not a possibility, you’ll have to appeal to her sense of reason. If that doesn’t work, try giving her something similar to what she wants & if that doesn't work, you might have to wait it out until she comes to her senses.

6. Religious Reasons
YES !! Most religions are female-dominated and sex is considered dirty and filthy; an earthly pleasure which is sinful. Many ladies who turn towards religion or spirituality would feel like avoiding sex in a bid to stay pure and evolve spiritually on the path to ascension

7. She's Not Emotionally Attached To You
YES An average naijaboiy wants to get into the pant of her girlfriend even when the emotions are not there. It is that frustrating ?. She could be avoiding sex or making it difficult and get embarrassed by the idea of talking about sex, especially when you are just few weeks into the relationship

8. She’s Cheating
It is a possibility that she's cheating because she’s more interested in having sex with
some other man. If this is the case you have bigger problems than lack of sex in your relationship. If you suspect that she is cheating on you (and you should have more reasons than just a decline in your sex routine), confront her with your suspicions calmly and listen to her explanation. If
you find out she is cheating, you’ll have to decide if you want to work on things or move on playing games

9. You don't treat Her The Way She Ought To Be Treated
If a lady loves you and you treat her the way a good lady deserves to be treated (and she shows the same back to you) sex will never die down. For a lady to allow you get under her pants, she needs to feel that strong emotional bond but when you don't give her the impression that she's a QUEEN, her interest in opening her legs disappear.

10. Abstinence
She might have promised to remain pure for her future husband. Therefore, any opening her legs for you will be the most difficult thing

Source : http://tosyne2much..com

Written By : Tosyne2much

okay nice post but not enough reason to take vaseline to start jerking off to.

Shey na whity e marry? How true is dis self. Last I heard, he had a daughter and wasn't still married. So what are you saying na?

Make una no rise. Make Cnn and IMF dey whine una head. Yeye country.

freeboy604:
OP Don't go and look for better things to better your life, you are not in anyway better than her and if you have a job to do I'm not sure you would have time to type this nonsense.

no be Jonah Paypay fault. Wey hin no give am work

alaoeri:
This got me cracking 'I was riding with the incumbent coming governor' Patience won't kill person with laughter , eyah we are going to miss her comic relief as from May 29.
Sai Buhari.

even buhari no sabi English. She get Doctorate, Buhari is still struggling with waec. Come to think of it. The amount of illiterate that would amount when GMB takes over would be tremendous. Waec would be the highest qualification as university would be scrapped. True true sai Buhari

pweetixandy:
^ why do u always go for d cheap girls ugh!

just coz she loves sex doesn't make her cheap.

Gossip nko...they love gossip too.