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ednut1:
So what should we now do Beg you to change your mind

Help me ask am ooooo. She wants an award i guess

But how is this news and in front page?

bestman09:

Who plays basketball with royal attire and crown on the head?

Even when obj played a novelty football game for his birthday, he wore a sports kit

Its to show levels na...royalty and crown were no get power..imagine king Charles always wearing his crown and royal regalia up and down. Africans and show off is like 5 and 6

Sorry but i want to know something..what use are these traditional leaders to the community?

Conner44:
Omo I remember this promo. It was the ‘shiznit’ that year. It ran for almost a full year. Diabetes wey hold people then because of daewoo racer ehn . . . That ride was on point waaaaay back then

Bottle cover full boys pockets dey jingle anyhow yet no daewoo racer for garage

Or Daewoo expero

Zonefree:

A girl and her wretched family are using you to play ludo and you're trying everything possible to forgive her

I love that you're losing weight and falling sick day by day. It's a good sign for others to learn not to be like you. You're a disgrace to humanity and a waste of space.

A bandit is valuable than you! Tueh!

This is too extreme na..haba. come on..one would think its happening to you or you had a stake in the matter

Rosebarn:
Typical ipob terrorist

He insulted the igbos and he is an ipob terrorist? I don't understand

caandi:
The criminal is even smiling
This is the height of wickedness
This is a situation where jungle justice is needed
The animal in human form seems to be mentally deranged
Abominable hegoat

The guy is a psychopath

Look at how he is smiling. He knows nothing will happen to him

CandidAdmin:
What are the advantages of learning a foreign language in the university and which language would you advise a person to learn?

Mandarin...its a hard language. But once you do, the sky is the limit to what you can use it for

Fame1309:
Please bro wish ur self well, don't mind the condition now, tomorrow will be better.

My sister i wish myself well o..i just want to focus on the reality. This is the tomorrow. Thanks for the encouragement though

Bjteensdes24:
Wow! I love that story too mehn ‘Idris Gandoki’ which is written in English Macmillan textbook. Funniest thing is that I had a classmate then who bears Idris and very strong then too. His brother who was in Primary 5 while we were in Pry 4 or 3 then, couldn’t defeat him. I saw him as that strong Idris in the novel but I was fortunate to fight him too on a Friday cos of small misunderstanding o😂

And you beat him

Berrityga:
This thread is not for broke guys.

Then why are you here

senteugene:
Do u know that Ali is no longer a boy, he is now a
man; Simbi is happily married with two kids; Edet no
longer live in calabar, he has moved to Canada;
Agbo has left the town of lagoon to London; Eze no
longer goes to school, he's now a graduate with 1st
class (Hons) and works with a multinational oil firm;
even Mr. Sada has stopped farming, he's now a
politician.So no condition is permanent,is just a matter of time and remember God‘s time is the best.

Gandoki nkor...i heard he has joined boko Haram

I couldn't read then. But, i still had nightmares about the witch in this book.

I'm not still married and never going to get married

frozen70:
Do you know what he already promised his family before he couldn't put up amd went to marry
That's what part of family settings are

Is because his family is another set of crazy humans

How can a dad tell his son to face him ans his family before his

That's part of what we don't know

That's nuts. I wish she had seen the signs and not even ventured into the marriage. No ine should have a say in a mans family once he is married . It should be between the man and his wife primarily

BrighterThanDay:
Sincerely I think I over-tolerated them from day one, I saw a family who never wanted their son to get married, because in their terms, they want to enjoy his money first. I wasn't the first he introduced to them, the first girl wasn't working and from all indications she'll be relying solely on him, so she was out rightly rejected. I later found out I was accepted by them due to my status, but they dreaded the fact that he was extremely in love with me and that's where the whole jealousy and envy started.
It doesn't make sense to me that I should be insulted by you consistently without provocation just because I'm getting married to your brother. My closest brother, my mom had just the 2 of us before she died and we're very close is also married. It has never crossed my mind to hate or disrespect his wife. I do call her to check on her and she does same. Why is my own case different?
Marriage from my side is very expensive but I pleaded with my dad to be considerate with them since my hubby wasn't gainfully employed then, my dad got angry and kept asking me why him?
I have supported him with all I've got. I never said my money is my money. So what exactly is their problem?
For a Christian family, I never expected this. I just wish I wasn't blinded by love from the onset. I sincerely regret my decision.

You better go and get a means of livelihood. This one that he is close to his family again may spell doom for you as you may be left in the high and dry end if anything happens to him. Protect yourself and expect anything. Leave emotions and sentiments for now. Again get something doing soon as possible. Don't rely on him and every documents should be in your name ooooo

frozen70:
Having read what you posted, I feel the emotional pains you are going through

The only place am going to blame you was the in ability to tolerate them your in laws from day one

They gave you heat and you returned the heat without thinking twice if really you can face them all

You dont really understand their family settings and why all of them are interested in their son

As it is now, you are not a threat to them but they are all a threat to you and your peace in the marriage

You have already prove to them that you are equally as crazy as they are

I think at this point, you have to drop the war weapons and start calming down for them

Talk to your husband if you can, so that he will reconcile you and them, by organizing a good reconciliation meeting for that peace to reign in your marriage, in laws and your life

Once that is done, you will experience absolute peace of mind and you will now be free to relate with them and see them as your own family

Pls look into it so that you too can have peace of mind and your child will have a good sense of feelings with them

If they all decides to gang against you and send you out, your husband will just be confused but will still stand with them because he alone can't marry you

Whats the family setting..she has no fault at all. They don't just like her simple. How can a man tell his child that he must care for his parents than he cares for his children. What nonsense

BrighterThanDay:
As a child from a broken home, I saw marriage as my happy ending of finally having a home filled with love and mutual understanding. After the death of my mom, growing up with my dad and stepmom was hell. I was treated as a stranger in my own home, so I thought starting my own family will be a lot better.

After I completed my education and got a good job. I had a lot of suitors willing to settle down with me. Most of them were rich and accomplished men, but there was no spark, I felt they weren't genuinely in love with me, and since I was never a materialistic person, I turned them down. I get easily content with what I have and I spend prudently. Then I met my husband. It happened that I was his crush back then in school, in fact, he even approached me as a student then, but I turned him down because I knew where I was coming from and I never wanted to gamble with my studies, it was my only hope to leave my father's house and fend for myself.

Fast forward to when I met my husband after school. He didn't even have a good job. But I could tell I meant a great deal to him, we'll speak for hours on the phone. I fell hopelessly in love with him, I could already picture a happy home with him and our kids. Then he proposed, and I accepted. I met his family, they were nice on the first visit.

After the introduction ceremony with my family, I started noticing certain things. I was taking pictures with his phone when I saw a message from his mom telling him I'm a stranger and he shouldn't allow me to come between them. I was surprised and wondered where all this was coming from, I asked him and he reassured me that it was nothing.

Then his father told me that hope I know that a son should love and care for his parents more than his kids. I kept pondering this statement. Then the worse of it all was his married sister, she hasn't even met me, but she rained insults and abuses on me on his phone and why he needs to make money first and allow his family to enjoy his money, before getting married. She said I was old, and just forcing him to marry me. I was just 26 then, but my education was very fast.

I had to speak to her dad about this and he cautioned her. I tried speaking to her myself but she rained insults again on me. I called off the wedding at a point but my then-fiance begged and involved my brother and so we went on with the wedding preparations. The wedding went well and his entire family stayed with us for a week before leaving.

My husband got a good job, I was working, we were fine and money wasn't our problem. A few months later, my father-in-law died. I sent messages and called hubby's siblings to comfort them. I couldn't travel with him immediately due to the nature of my job. I kept calling to check on him and inquire about the traditional rites I might need to be a part of. Hubby said his father was a pastor so he won't need to do anything, while we were yet speaking, his sister who hates me snatched the phone from him and said I have to do this and that or I should pack my things and leave the house and then she shouted at me.

I was so pissed and acted in a way that wasn't right considering that we were all mourning. I sent a message to her, telling her to be nice considering that we are all mourning but if she chooses to continue insulting and humiliating me for no reason, I won't take it. She forwarded the message to the entire family, including uncles, aunts, and grandchildren. On the day of the burial, I was treated as an outcast by the entire family, she told them not to give my birth family food, even though they came bearing gifts and comforting everyone. Hubby had to step in and ask the caterers to serve them.

She kept fighting and shouting at my hubby throughout the burial and tried denying him of things he was supposed to do as the first son and child. I was humiliated and she kept castigating my name and insulting me to hearings of everyone. I wasn't even allowed to eat. I was quiet all through, when family members were asked to sit behind the corpse, she asked me to excuse them.

For fear of my life after the burial, I had to go lodge in a hotel outside. The next morning she and her brother kept shouting and complaining that why did hubby allow me to lodge and that I should have been with their mom. They continued the humiliation, I couldn't take it anymore or hold back my tears so I left.

Hubby later told me that she held a meeting in my absence with the entire family and told them I'm a bad wife and needs to leave her brother. This was when hubby stood up for me and said I wasn't going anywhere.

Our marriage was never the same. Even when we had our daughter, no one called, hubby was ostracized from his own family and he blamed me sometimes. I couldn't concentrate at work, and my job is performance-based. I was scared that I'll be fired, so I resigned.

Hubby's income wasn't enough to sustain us, so we started facing financial difficulties. He had to even go meet the same sister to borrow money, even though I discouraged it. She always mocked him for it and I had to pay off the loan at a point.


When she saw that we are now broke, she stopped fighting with him and they are on talking terms now, of course, she still wants nothing to do with me. I know that they are family by blood and nothing is too hard to forgive, but each time she calls and they are happily discussing, Ican't help but feel angry for all she has caused us. I'm sometimes tempted to leave this marriage because this is not what I envisaged at all.

My brother is also married and I have never felt the need to interfere in his marriage or fight his wife.

I don't know how long I can continue in this union, even my innocent beautiful daughter is hated by them.

Let me guess you married an igbo man. Better be single than marry an igbo man..know this and know peace

Not one single igbo or south south person...it is clear

They better know whom they want to in that sixth state ..Igbo speaking people of delta are not among sha..bear that at the back of your minds

EgwunsoDOTcom:
Sai Baba..
Sai APC

It's very good for those midgets who glamour for another APC regime.. I'm even sure that this man collected money during election and voted for APC. Let him use the election money to treat himself.

They will learn the hard way.

Stop it...you may be making an accusation against a staunch obi supporter. Lets sheath our swords and look for a solution. We are way better than that

SporaD8:
It's all these reckless statement from y'all that made me realize that, had you find yourself in position of authority, you'd be worse than the so-called terrorist!
Did you have a biometer that scan people's political inclination?
Must every discussions be view through the prism of politics?
The roughly six hundred thousand of votes Obi garnered in Lagos were all from Onitsha?
What message are you passing to the like of Pa. Adebanjo, Obasanjo, Oyedepo, Falz and other SWesterners like myself who heartily supported and campaign for the Candidacy of Peter Obi: we made a terrific mistake?!
Has the politics of bitterness so much damage your reasoning that you turn out worse than those you castigate?

Calm down. There's a whole lot of sense you made here. Tribalism is eating this country. I don't even know when it will stop .

didroon43:
This is bleeped up sha, if truly this is real. I don't think this is real sha. He is supposed to be dead by now.

No na make up...bonkum

Controlla123:
If I report her, dem go say I dey find the downfall of my fellow Nigerian

Ogbenj..this is the USA not the yeye Nigeria. Show her pepper. E no concern anybody. That's not an excuse. E be like say you no need money...sue her and get more .

Oya what happened oooooooo...only to dey yan bad news na him you sabi

LegendHero:
It’s always disheartening that at this era, Nigerians still believe protesting in UK and USA is the way to go. Like it seems like we are still tied back by colonial syndrome.

However, when some deranged mob think they can proceed to protest senselessly everywhere, Jagaban disciples will continue to match them pound for pound.

If they like they should do anti-Tinubu protest in the moon, be sure pro-Tinubu protest will happen in the moon too.

It is a long 8 years and it will be fire for fire while it last. God grant us all long life.

Long live for anti Tinubu protesters?? Why...

Is it not funny...that paris is burning and even the King of England cancled his visit. But this one chose France as a resting place. And is even strolling at night.


This race called black...very abnormal

IyaebeTheGreat:
That's not the subject of discussion here

Cherry pick much...urgent 2k is begging abeg

Slurity:
No, they go nowhere, we are keeping them as spectators since they deprive joy in creating enemies than friends. Until they choose to grow.

The most useless statement/ comment ever

IpobAntidote:
Totally unecesary from FFK.
The noise from the Obi supporters are really turning a lot of average peace loving Nigerians against the people from the SE.
I hope Obi and his cohorts will retrace their steps before it's too late.

Retrace what steps...FFK has spoken the minds of the Yoruba and Hausa people. They have had this in mind for long. He is just speaking his mind and the rest of the tribes. So its best everyone goes their separate ways for peace to reign isn't that fair enough?

FreeStuffsNG:
Go where please? I am just curious to find out? Like Lesotho or what?

Oga Delta and Edo would join. We are not southwest or North. So the north would form Nigeria Partnerin with the South west then the rest would go and form whatever land. Is it not clear