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103 days today of no masturbation!!!


If i can do it, you too can!!

Feeling super fly!!

The more days you abstain from this addiction, the easier it is for you to overcome the urge.

Just don't watch indecent content.


Someone that has stayed 30 days clean would easily over the urge compared to one that's just 5 days clean.

Just don't be deceived to think you are immune to the effects of indecent content.

When you have a deadline to meet, your mind would be occupied with how to finish up the job and submit.


So find something to meet up, even if it's not a paid job.




Someone who is busy fixing electric fittings and wiring a building all day won't have that time for such.

But someone who stays at home mostly would always be faced with such evil temptation, especially when laying down.

You might not be actively doing something productive like jogging, washing or any other activity that keeps your hands, legs and other parts working.

You could try mental passive engagement by reading good books or watching educative content.

Try and be intentional with what you browse with your phone.

If you don't have something in particular to do, don't browse the web.

You need to keep the temptation out of your mind.

It starts in your head.


If possible, go out, where others or at least someone can see you.

Have you ever wondered why is it that when you are outside, the urge flees, but immediately you open your door and enter inside, it quickly enters your mind again?


If you can't be outside for a reason or the other, fill your mind with something productive.

Remember, nature doesn't like vacuum.
If you are still struggling to stay clean for a decent number of days, or weeks,
Stop lazying around on the bed browsing the internet.

The temptation would always come especially when you are used to watching indecent stuff.

You might also stumble on suggestive contents online that lures you to view indecent content.

So keep that phone down and start doing something productive.

Warning!!!

If you want to meet up to your potentials in life.

If you want to get that sharp memory all the time.

If you want to feel confident around people.

If you want to be happy and take charge of your life,

avoid masturbation!!!

willpowerUP:
32 days clear!


If i can do it, you can do it!

Today mark's it 70 days clear!!!

Still pushing stronger.

Urges doesn't kill, just channel your energy to something productive.

💪🏾

tunnyl:
Guys. Masturbation isnt the problem. Quick ejaculation during masturbation is the problem. The longer you delay ejaculation the lesser damage it does to your confidence, etc.

You can pause and continue again whenever u feel like ejaculating. do it several times then ejaculate. Its called the stop amd start method.

It will keep your private part erect after ejaculation and You wont feel like a loser because you didn’t lose so much energy.

At this point masturbation will become boring to you since theres no instant gratification anymore.

Get this demonic post out of my thread !!

Do you know the amount of energy lost after masturbation?

Do you know how empty and low confidence you get after the act?

Do you know how it drains your willpower and renders you ambitiousless with lack of zeal and drive no matter how hard you try?

It's a destiny destroyer.

Stop promoting falsehood.

You don't know better than the thousands of people it has caged.

Don't drag innocent souls into this cage that many have been trying to escape from.

You don't know better than these guys trying so hard to overcome this dirty habit that sucks all your energy and drags you back
See thousands of people fighting this dirty addiction here

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread/

And you are busy typing rubbish

Goodlady:
Devil agent hi, you sef know you won't make heaven!

what do you suggest then

jmoore:
Sex is not rocket science. It is an instinct.
Who taught babies how to suck breast? They did not learn it in their mother's womb.

Your concern is not valid.

but shebi you see news all the time and post about men looking for help.

I want the hlep to be now, not when i get married

Demigod22:
First time come with embarrassment. It was one Muslim girl that I did it with, the disgusting thing was that we were both first timers, we tried for one week before I could penetrate and she cried, I didn't know how to console her, she later told me that it was painful.

I did a very poor job as first timer, but after that one, I don learn.

chai..

one whole week.


were you pouring all throuhg or still dint pour till you finnaly break her

Talkisneeded:
Don't do underage abeg, abeg you...


I sell herbs for sexual enhancement tho

how do i get random girls for sex.

not prostitutees plese

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
You mean at your age you still have not discovered the joy of a tight toto?

very painful aswear.


see young boysand girls flexing anyhow.

i'm still here.

even fowl enjoy more than 5 times a day.

VinnyBaba:
OP,

If you keep Waiting for the Right Girl to have sex with, you will wait till 45yrs.

Sex most times Happens when you least expect.

To Break Your Virginity, the sex may have to be with a
*Pros.titute
*Married woman
*Under Aged Girl.
Etc.

all these options no follor abge.

how do i get a random girl for sex.

the ones i have now as friends drop back when i take things past the friends leevl.

they don't even want to visit

drimzsmoke:
It's always embarrassing
you won't know how to put your penis inside the vagina. Before you know it, you've ejaculated..... The reason men can't forget their 1st sex is because of the embarrassment!!!

There are books to read that can make it less embarrassing sha

that's it o.


I wish there's a lady that can put me through.

Don't want to get married and it becomes an issue

Waterfullbelle:
Old folks claiming virgin

Have you not heard of 35 year old men that haven't had sex before

Geovanni412:
Relax

It is not rocket science.

Follow Sterling cooper on YouTube and educate yourself so that you don't feel embarrassed first time out.

Thanks.

I will search himout.

Hope his contents doesnt contain explicit stuff. Don't want to fall

goodconsience77:
Be careful about the first person you have sex with, that act may make you or Mar your life. Be guilded....
Also avoid sex before marriage, it can cause spiritual problem for you wish may transform to misfortune. Sex is overrated...

True words.

Just want to practice and gain that confidence.


Not when i get married I will become ashamaed, running helter sketer for solution, which mihgt take time to come.

If i practice now, any problem would eaily be sorted out at this point beforegetting married.

jmoore:
Matured advice?
If you ask your parents for advice nko?

I understand your stance mr jmoore, A.K.A Mr. No sex becfore marriage.



My main concern is to master the art and be in control. so that I won't be a dissapointment when i get married.


Please let's drop morality aside for a moment.

aiming for 60 days.!!!!


Two simple instructions:

1- Don't watch adult content.

2- Don't touch your private part.

32 days clear!


If i can do it, you can do it!