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I have broken up with her. Four years down the drain.

Is my girlfriend cheating on me?


Before I start, let me just say my GF has a lot of emails, and I mean a lot. She uses it for sites that require subscription, so she can benefit from free subs and change email before they require payment. She’s also trying to make money online, so she has the habit of using the emails to create different accounts.

Now the story. This afternoon, my girl called me with a strange number. This was a mistake on her part because she said she didn’t remember to switch her SIM card. I am not aware of this number. Anyways, when I checked the number on true caller, it had a different name. I saw that the number was registered on WhatsApp, so I checked to know who was calling me. This WhatsApp display picture I found (the picture below). That’s not my girlfriend. So I called the number and asked who it was. There was no answer, so I cut the call after like 5 seconds.

After I cut the call, I saw a missed WhatsApp call from my GF. So I called her and she complained my phone was busy. (That’s because the “Silence Unknown Caller” on my phone is switched on. So because I don’t have that number she used, her normal call with that strange number can’t come in. It just goes straight to missed call).


Anyways, when she complained that my phone was busy, I told her some strange number called me, and it then clicked on her head that she hadn’t changed her SIM card back. So she opened up that she had such a number.


I told her I wasn’t aware she had such number. She said she bought it a while ago. Anyways, I quickly asked her, “is that number on WhatsApp.” She said NO.

I was trying to screenshot the picture I found of that number on WhatsApp, just in case, but it said “screen capture blocked”.


Anyways, my alarm rang for me to pray. So I excused myself and went to pray for like 5 minutes. After praying, I tried to access the WhatsApp picture again and use my second phone to snap it, but now it started saying “Invite to WhatsApp”. So it’s almost like the account has been deleted within that short time.

I called my GF back and confronted her, she admitted immediately that it was her WhatsApp account and she was trying to sign back into it. But I asked her, so why was the entire profile deleted?

Anyways, during our back and forth, I checked the number again on WhatsApp and the profile was back. I snapped it and that’s what I’ve uploaded her. I showed it to her also. I know that’s not her body. But it makes me wonder what the account is for and why such picture?


I’ve checked my GF’s phone before and it’s always spotlessly clean. Even normal messages from MTN and those short codes, you will never see on her message inbox. A little too clean for my liking, now that I think about it. Also, Nothing ever pops up no matter how long I hold her phone. Just her normal female friends that call her. I checked all her chat and blocked list and it’s always clean. Although, it’s been 2 years since I did that.

But I’m not aware of the existence of this number until today.

She also showed me, during our argument, that she had other SIM cards and it was because of how much email accounts she needs. I know Gmail is kinda strict with phone numbers used for email registration.


What do you think? I just need you guys thoughts on this.

Insult me if you want.

Mrfixitt:
The world is watching. Tinubu will be disgraced out of office and no one can save him

Buhari did worst and he served for 8 years and left. Nothing happened. He lived till a very old age and died peacefully.

Again, nothing happened

I need a Nigerian translator who is very good with Nigerian languages. I have a video that shouldn’t take up to 5 minutes to detect the language and translate what’s being said in the video.


Please note that this video is very bloody. It’s nothing compared to anything you’ve ever seen in your life (I’d advice you to watch it with ur eyes closed)

The 10k I’m paying is actually just for your mental health.

Anybody that can get the job done, let me know.

People do not know that these herbal medicines, they also mix it with oyibo medicine oh. I shock.

There was an article on Nairaland years ago that the coco samba and the rest for preeek, they tested it in the lab and found it contained viagra in them also, at an unregulated dosage.

I've never heard a news like this from Ghanaians before. How were Nigerians able to do this? You can NEVER hear this kind of news come out of Ghana except it's Nigerians involved.

This is how NIgerians go and pollute the moral fabric of a country. Then they scream xenophobia when that country doesn't want them around. They say they are jealous of Nigerians. But how can anyone be jealous of this?

Well, I guess Boko Haram was a tool by globalist used for population control, cause notice how it was always in the NOrth

IceColdVeins:
Dad called at 1 am which was quite strange, narrating stories about how my bro was hit by a vehicle without headlamps blah blah blah…. I thought he was talking gibberish until it dawned on me like “O Ti Ku”… Chaiiiiiiiiiiiiii
Mr bro why??
What’s the point of this life. Hit by car ? Chaiiiiii
My head is spinning, can’t cry, lots of questions.
My mom is in the UK, she mustn’t even hear about this, arggghhhh!!!!
Worried about him, about his spirit, what is he going through now, how can I help him?

I’m going to Ibadan at sunrise, I don’t know what is awaiting me, like his bloodied corpse ? Chaiiiiii
Never lost a dear one before.
Hes the first born, I’m second….. Whats next?

So many questions, who was he with before death took him? Where exactly did it happen? It’s just my dad and my baby bro at home, how do we find peace ? What is going to happen to my ever-worried soft-hearted mom? …….I found out he posted on his WhatsApp around 10 pm, guess what was his caption…..”Get Rich or Die Trying”

Ahhhhh Bro Tee!! He was 35.

Brace yourself bro. It's not going to be an easy ride. I'm sorry for your loss.

Yes, let them arrest her. This is Nigeria, not United States, where you can get away with almost anything you do with your penis and vagina

And how did you go from one minutes man to this?

Dish:
Good morning guys, and hope you'll are well and wake up with morning rain and good weather for two.

Quick one...

During those days as a newbie, only the site my gf or F_mate, my pre-c*m is already dripping from my boxers and I wouldn't take up 2 minutes to c*m.

These days my gf or F_mate can't even do at least 10 minutes with me.

Last night was hell for her and she picked her panties and run outside so I resorted to use my holy hands.

This morning you know man with morning wood nah, i initiated it but first she resisted saying i would take time. For more than an hour now I've not see pre talk more of c*m.

Please help me any idea. I de big for there come still de tey sometimes I de pity am

So I need help please 🙏 😭

You might be wondering why there has been fewer terrorist attacks in the Northern and all parts of Nigeria. Well, it's not because Tinubu is working. It's because Israel is bombing the hell out of a terrorist stronghold called Hamas. Normally, the rest of the terrorist scattered all over Nigeria, and West Africa has to go back to Gaza and help their brotherhood.

Make no mistake, the reason you are enjoying somewhat peace right now is because of what Israel is doing, not that Israel cares about Nigeria, but it just so happens that we can breathe a sign of relief for a while.

Ones this ceasefire happens and everything returns to normal, they're going back to their forceful spread of ideology through terrorism.

One thing I notice is that democrats want a world that is dependent on the USA for everything. But Trump want a world where America is not the center of anything. I think that the left is really obessed with power and control, but it's hard to see because they mask it under empathy, transright, etc.

Reference:
Exactly. Stay in your country and grow it to becoming powerful and prosperous. Then you will become useful to yourself and useful to America.

I think Trump wants a more prosperous and diverse world. A world where a Ukraine is able to defend itself, where Europe is able to chart its own course without depending on US might. Where a Nigeria is able to care for its people's health, education and prosperity.

Because when you are prosperous you are ble to trade properly with the US and prosper the U S even more.

I think folks in the US are beginning to see the limitations of a unipolar world where it has led for so long, sucked so much virtue from other nations that the world has become unfertile to its ideals, it has started to rot from within.

It is the same destructive principle of monopolies in economies. One becomes too big at the expense of others, feeding off them. When the others die off the monopolist starves itself to death.

I don't understand. How do people travelling to America for work make the world a better place? If your skills were so wonderful, you should use it for your own country, that's the coco

profmallor:
in 3 years times, the americans would have learnt their lessons and many countries would have figured out how to float without America.

Chipper Cash stole my money so much I started to get heart palpitations.

One time I refreshed my card for no reason and they deducted money from it. Idk if they sent it back but I deleted the app immediately.

That was the last straw. Or is it the one where you send money to the app and they will just remove 40% of it with no description of why they did that. E go be like gist if e never happen to you. I sent thirty-six thousand but na only sixteen thousand enter. My chest wan burst but where I go go complain? Till today I never got that money back or why it was deducted. This was just one of many, but this was the worst. I started becoming careful how I sent money to the app. I can't send more than ten thousand for fear of deduction. In fact one time I sent 7k and nothing entered.

But I use Cleva now though. I got their card within one hour. But it might take like a week before you can start using it for payment.

When this goverment finish with us eh, you will kneel down and thank God. Just one year in office and see the amount of tax we're set to pay. the 12% annual tax has not even fully digested yet and now we're paying for declined transcation as if to transact in Naira is a luxury now.

Everything about her is a lie, from her age to how much she's made.

This is someone's father.

MistyDense:
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Samantha125:
It's your duty as men to be selfless since it's within your nature to be the sole providers...🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

I guess.

ednut1:
majority of our mothers who were traders had money than our fathers at some point in time. Eg the women that owned big salons, native cloth sellers in lagos island or big bukas had money and proceated. This one no follow

Those businesses were started by the husband after marriage and after procreation.

Your post no follow

Samantha125:
Why should we care about you when all you ever do is complain about us and our constant billing? So it's best we set you free and enjoy our own money that we'd have made ourselves.

First of all, not all men complain about that. Same way not all women cheat or are feminist. So that point makes no sense. But I think MOST women lack something that men have in abundance, which is the ability to be selfless.

I don't think women have that altruistic selfless spirit that men have, which is why men are ready to lay down their lives for others.

If a woman starts making money, she suddenly doesn’t care about men or even procreation. But if she was still struggling, she’ll want a man to procreate with.

Could it be that God knew what he was doing when he made man the sole head? Cause it look like if women start becoming like men, they will refuse to procreate and that will lead to drop in birth rate or even extinction.

I guess my question is, why are women not as selfless as men?

Men want to make money, start a family, and pass on their wealth to their extension (offspring)

Women want to make money, not start a family, die off, and give the money back to government.

Does it mean it is democrats fault that so many Ukranian's are dead and millions of Ukraninans are displaced?

Fiscus105:
And for the boys' past posts? Many of you would be ashamed of urself if they show you, posts you posted five years back.

Go to red pill and ashewo thread and see what Ur fellow guys are posting.

Wetin concern me? Na man I wan marry? If na man you wna marry, then check your man's phone before marrying them.

AKWATGOLD1:
For what now? Checking social media account of your proposed lady before you marry her. It seems you do not have job.

You think checking her phone takes a month or what? Abi you do not have 30 minutes in a day? Are you a sales boy or what? Cause those are the people that are always busy.

And I don’t mean her WhatsApp DM’s or Snapchat DMs. Nah, this is different.

Check her post history. Check her TikTok post history. Check her Twitter post history. A lot of women reveal who they truly are in their posts.

Check those things before you marry a misandrist.

Wait, is that their tradition? Please where can i raed more abou tthem?

larryUG:
So you will rather they violate his body and remove his parts in the name of tradition

Yeah, that's why lube exist, dumbas s.




]Met this new girl in church and we got talking. She has a nice shape. She is 25, graduate. From our conversation it was obvious she is so ignorant of so many things. Never enjoyed sex. Did it just for doing sake . She and her ex were non challant.
According to her, she has just one body count and last had sex in 2023. I thought it was all talk.
This girl gave me a talking Stage form to fill . This was so funny .
Then the day came , our first kiss nothing happens . The second kiss and I try going in, there was traffic . She complained about my big d*ck and ran to the toilet saying I injured her. Omoh dị*ck way every babe both big and small dey appreciate and wants more of it.
The third day same thing . She even sent me a text the following day warning me never to touch her again. That her body aches. I should go get sex from someone else .

Omoh I was getting really frustrated from all of this and our conversation dropped .
I told her we need to end it so I can concentrate. I needed to concentrate and get someone who matches my vibe abeg.
She came around to apologise and said she can't afford to lose me bla bla.
She tried doing it, it was terrible. My d*ck couldn't enter . It stopped halfway.
I took off the condom and it entered a bit deeper, but she has out in 2 minutes .
Every attempt was terrible . She has asked for patience BTW that she will adjust.

The sexual compatibility is zero. I am so active . But I like her. She is so feminine and in words and actions. And I perceive her innocence is a little bit intact.
I am willing to exercise the patience . But I wan nack and I honestly can't nack someone else cos it's not my thing to nack anyone I am not emotionally connected to . It feels like tortured to me .[/quote]

Zyrac:
AMERICA can not conduct regime change in any country. Period they should try to eliminate Iran Supreme leader if they could. Striking generals in thier homes isn't war. Its war crime now that iran is ready how many have they successfully killed?

If they did it, na go still come dey cry for here.

Anyways, that's mostly the democrat goverment way of handling things. Republicans don't really care about that.

So wait for a democrat leadersship in America before you say that.

People do not understand that Trump went against America's known initiative. Regime change is what was supposed to happen. They're supposed to kill the current supreme leader, which is very easy to do. And then install their won puppet in Iran.

Trump just went against that long standing American tradition when he told Israel to back down.