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Romance › Re: Easiest Way To Stop Porn And Masturbation (Personal Experience) by Winnerrrr(op): 8:44pm On Sep 03
Starz825:
You will come back to my comment in the dearest future

Just wait and see wonders
bro even if it did not work out eventually i am already in a better place
Romance › Re: Easiest Way To Stop Porn And Masturbation (Personal Experience) by Winnerrrr(op): 7:52pm On Sep 03
Cum4me:
Watch stripchat livecam and see all manner of beautiful woman and you will understand that there's nothing really special about women grin
following your own logic, seeing millions of photographs would mean photography isn’t special, or seeing thousands of people would mean no individual person matters, right?

Seeing thousands of beautiful women online doesn’t prove women aren’t special bro, It only proves beauty is abundant. You’re confusing availability with value and that’s the foul in your argument.

A catalogue on stripchat can show you beautiful decadent faces but it can’t show you character.
Romance › Re: Easiest Way To Stop Porn And Masturbation (Personal Experience) by Winnerrrr(op): 6:51pm On Sep 03
Starz825:
Dey play

Bro, no girl in this nigerian social media generation can love you that deep as you thought

Let that sink
thanks for the most NPC, AI written comment i have ever seen.
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 6:09pm On Sep 03
Kaczynski:
How do you know?? Most old people have connections and link you with right plug.
my grand Pa was dead way before i was born
Romance › Easiest Way To Stop Porn And Masturbation (Personal Experience) by Winnerrrr(op): 6:08pm On Sep 03
i’ve been indulging in this despicable act since i was a teenager and i just turned 25 this year but i was able to quit completely from the root, currently, i have zero urges and i can stay with myself as long as i want without reaching out for it.

FIND A GIRL YOU REALLY LOVE (NOT LIMERENCE OR INFATUATION)

find a girl that motivate you to become a better man, make sure she is worth it (vet and observe her before you commit) also make sure it is mutual.

A girl will change you and make you want to do better for yourself, before i met my girl, i would goon and go to work or will do it the first thing in the money, i was always low energy and can’t keep a conversation going, what broke the camel back was one day, immediately i finished gooning she called me, even though she was not there i felt so guilty, i was like imagine being with a girl and you still watch porn and masturbating, is that the type of boyfriend you want to be.

i don’t know what happened but ever since that day i felt free and never had the urge to do it.

this can’t work with any girl, it has to be a girl you truly desire, not a lashing mate, the desire to be the best for her will overcome the desire to goon.

this is my own personal experience.
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 5:54pm On Sep 03
DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Drivers dey hold bar o

Na park life and herd mentality dey make dem no save money.

If you dey stay one place, no dey womanise, no dey take alcohol or abuse substances and no dey fancy too many friends or bothering to impress people, nwanne you go save millions and have a reasonable estate to your name through driving.

Ask ordinary keke how much dem dey pay their principals every week on top HP arrangement.
but is it a job young people can do?
i mean it costs a lot to buy a bus which is quiet unreachable for young people today
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 5:51pm On Sep 03
Kaczynski:
Pitch it to your grandpa and his colleagues.
they don’t have the means.
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 5:50pm On Sep 03
Gerrard59:
Lol

Kobo360 was supposedly the tech option, but the accural way of running the company led to its failure. The owner left to work for the Enugu state government and is launching or might have launched already a new startup. I remember when I read that Goldman Sachs invested $20m into that company.
i just checked him out, he has an amazing resume, i can see he attended Wharton and Harvard from his Wikipedia page.

i was wondering how he was able to raise up to $20M from GS, has to be a citizen or crazy connections.

i can build the tech the only problem is funding..
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 5:48pm On Sep 03
Kaczynski:
Yes if you have the brains and able pitch it to VCs.
i have the brains, im a software engineer just couldn’t find a way to deploy my talent and make proper money, currently surviving on freelance jobs that comes once in a while. i’ve built an app that have processed over 50 million naira so far and i’ve also built a social network with 1.5K users but had to shut it down due to high costs of hosting.

wouldn’t mind some pointers.
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 5:46pm On Sep 03
Kaczynski:
Stop coping. You are still a low income earner and getting paid in a tissue paper currency propped with dead people.
i kinda agree with you bro, i have a friend that runs a food court (sells shawarma, smoothies etc) and he’s always complaining of low sales and the profit margin is very tiny even when things were going well.
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 5:44pm On Sep 03
ravensckar:
You want us to be praying for unscrupulous elements who are looting our collective wealth?

Please tell me your church, I'd like to come and start worshipping with you guys. Na una gangan be Scripture Union.

Naija politicians deserve to be condemned to the hottest part of hell.

For turning this once beautiful country into hellhole, all of them from top to bottom (President to Councillor) no go die better. If e better for them for morning and afternoon, e no go better for them for night time. Bunch of sleazy criminals with no conscience.

#Picks_tooth
😂😂😂
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 1:31pm On Sep 03
Gerrard59:
Thanks for your opinion, but that's the East. The one I'm talking about is the north. Those drivers are doing yanga and their services are expensive and most times unreliable, but companies don't have any choice. What companies do as they grow is to own their logistics arm so they don't rely on the truck drivers.

In summary, there is a high demand for proper logistics services in the country.

P.S. I agree with the oil and gas aspect, but oil workers no reach 10K in a population of more than 100m people. Two, everyone cannot be an oil worker or participate in the industry.
do you think it could be solved with tech?
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 1:31pm On Sep 03
Daddyk87:
I run street food business and am doing pretty well
what type of food business bro? snacks or real food? i’ve been thinking of going in that direction
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 7:06pm On Sep 02
bigpicture001:
Those drivers average 500k monthly as u see them so...some jobs will take away ur gentlemanness

Aldou their money can't be compared with the afore mentioned two categories
you might earn such amount but what about the expenses?
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 7:06pm On Sep 02
chicfarmer:
The problem with transportation business be say, when maintenance expenses come e go wipe out all your savings and even put you for debt. embarassed
that one too dey
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 7:05pm On Sep 02
LordBiden:
It's easy to say drivers earn 500k monthly but when you factor in expenses like fuel,spare parts,owomida levies from different corners you will notice they don't earn much.
my points exactly.

the currency value is shit, 100K sounds cool until you hit the market and price things.
Politics › Re: Umo Eno Says He Made ₦10 Million Monthly Selling Akara And Bread by Winnerrrr(m): 5:58pm On Sep 02
why would a grown man lie?

selling false hope to citizens just to get re elected and loot the treasury dry.
Programming › Re: Tech Hiring Nowadays Has A Major Boundary Problem by Winnerrrr(m): 5:54pm On Sep 02
ahmedsaniadamu:
No, they proceed with other candidates
godspeed bro

where are you based at?
Career › Re: The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 5:51pm On Sep 02
bigpicture001:
Very true.....you forgot shuttle drivers, I mean commercial vehicle drivers
but bro most of the ones i dey see look wretched and hungry.

imagine being a driver under the hot sun, no AC, shouting at your fellow driver hurting your esophagus and throat through out the day.

plus you have a wife, sick mom, 4 children to cater for and god save you if you’re not on hire purchase.
Career › The Only Two People Doing Well In Nigeria Currently by Winnerrrr(op): 5:42pm On Sep 02
Salary just dropped yesterday and i don’t have more than 40K in my bank account right now after settling debts.

Even my boss dey cut corners for office to cater for his needs, based on my observations the only people that are doing well in this country are:

1) Politicians and their cronies.
2) People making money online and earning foreign currencies.

everyone else is intertwined into one or more financial problems.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 12:36pm On Aug 17
playing - Wizkid "State of Mind"

looking back on life right now, I am super grateful for the journey, I am getting closer everyday.

all of the skills I learnt as a young dude coming up are helping me understand the current one I am learning and the learning curve has shortened as a result, I have made tremendous progress in a very short period of time.

so many distractions abound begging for indulgence but I am going to pass this time. I am taking note of mistakes I can't afford again.

in a way God took my hurt and turned it to lessons I could learn and grow from, and what is beautiful in all of these is I am the only single player in all of these, no one can ever understand what it felt like and what it meant it to me. that is the beauty. I can only document them on an inanimate software.

I can foresee the end of my life looking back on all of the internal wars, disappointments, bad habits, harsh self-judgement, love, trust, embarrassments, acceptance, cries, wins, losses, then closing my eyes forever knowing I had a honorable fight in this world.

at this age it feels like as if I have made all of the mistakes there is, and I am given another go, another chance to try again with foresight, it all makes sense.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 6:24pm On Aug 15
i have a friend that is finding it really hard to get over his EX, it’s really affecting him and i am thinking of different ways i could help him get over the situation but at this point nothing is coming to my head.

i told him to get a new gf but it isn’t working for him.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 6:14pm On Aug 15
i’m broke

the retainer didn’t come through, i woke up to a message on whatsapp of the client explaining how he is in a very tight situation and he also can’t give me a tentative deadline on when he will pay me. i felt disappointed and heartbroken, i needed that money like yesterday, bills are piling up and salary is still far.

but life goes on.

i need money to settle some bills and also to take off the pressure of ‘being broke’, it paralyzes my thoughts.

central cee said ‘when my funds are low i get suicidal thats why i gotta put paper first’

so real.

my laptop needs to go, i need $$$.

i could manage with my phone and the office pc till i’m back on my feet.

tough but i have to do it.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 6:07pm On Aug 15
my relationship with my parents is the most passive thing ever.

i can’t name one time we had an intimate conversation on what’s really going on in our lives.

it’s always how are you, how’s school or work etc.

that’s how they raised me.

i want to change it because i am growing older and i understand what emotional connection is and how it can impact the development of an individual.

if i possess some superpower to see whats on their mind i could have use it, my dad especially, he’ll just sit down sometimes and stare blankly but he’ll never say anything.

my mother is more expressive but she’s shy to a fault.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 6:01pm On Aug 15
Winnerrrr:
how do one build a life worth living?
you need to have morals and principles you live by.

you have to build the capacity to think of situations independently without outside influence.

have the courage to tell yourself the truth about yourself no matter how bitter and bad it might make you feel.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 7:29pm On Aug 11
how do one build a life worth living?
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 7:18pm On Aug 11
i wish life could stay like this forever.

me and the gf are in good terms, i’ll call it bliss or nirvana. i feel like the luckiest guy on the planet.

i have got some runway, i’m expecting the retainer to drop on Wednesday.

i’m learning a new skill and just paid for a mentorship.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 5:42pm On Aug 11
5:42pm and i am back from the 9 to 5

life is good today, alhamdulillah.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 12:00am On Aug 02
today is a win for me against mediocrity.

made some decent progress and i was able to workout some things i want to focus on in the next three months.

let’s see how it goes.

day by day, brick by brick. i will definitely prevail
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 2:15am On Aug 01
had a long call with the girlfriend, understood what happened and it seemed like i overreacted. one less thing to worry about.

back to the grind.

will come up with a plan when i wake up in the morning.

i have made some changes regarding my personal life and i’ve started seeing some results as well.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 7:05pm On Jul 31
i am feeling much better right now and she called me wanting to come over at my house which i refused with an excuse.
Nairaland General › Re: an unemployed chad by Winnerrrr(op): 6:20pm On Jul 31
Winnerrrr:
i have assumed many things, worst things but the craziest thing is they never happen.

there were times i get panic attacks from what i assume will happen but it turns out better than i had imagined.

is this a cue to be more positive?

and what i noticed is when you assume, it affects your emotions and deregulate your mood as well.

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