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i left him because he wasn't giving me enough attention. it took me years to get over the pain even though i was the one that terminated the relationship

i totally agree with Tega, "falling in love is easy, staying in love is work" Real work most people dont understand this, especially women. We have a large role to play in our marriages we are expected to be submissive to our husbands, doesn't mean we dont have a say in the marriage. Married couples need to learn how to make sacrifices for their marriages to work and most importantly allowing God to work for us by going to him for wisdom. (Prayer is the key). It solves all problems. The moment we fail to realise that God is bigger than the circumstances we find ourselves, thats when we give up.

Most times couples allow inlaws to interfare in marriages, this is really detrimental . Our families dont really understand when it comes to marriages, it always has to be their own way, not minding that their childrens' happiness is at stake

Some couples dont stay in coutship long enough to really get to know themselves, when they get married they start seeing traits that are new to them and nearly impossible to deal with.

this is distant relationship, talking on phone most of the time. Its really not enough. One of u need to rellocate to be close to each other to really get to understand urselves. U definately cannot achieve this by staying apart. Distance is a barrier to a relationship, u get to achieve somany positive things in your relationship by being close to each other

Marriage is an eye opener, if u get married now, u start realising character traits which u both cannot deal with

Let me first of all say that u have taken a wise stand as a christain to discourage ur friend from divorce. Its really not the best at all, it will only complicate issues and worsen his blood pressure.

Yeaah most women are not submissive these days to their husbands. Its possible she has a bad character OR there are things about the marriage that are upsetting her of which your friend is being insensitive about, probably pressure from inlaws, not giving her that much attention,(talking out of experience) being self centered, all these make a woman go crazy and then she tends to over react all the time.He should sit her down and discuss this bad attitude of hers and look for ways restore his marriage other than going for divorve.They both have roles to play in their marriage.

God has joined them together, he shouldn't put assunder, rather fervent prayer is the key. Prayer really works.

it took me two years to get over my first love. i broke up with him and it really broke my heart cos i really really loved him and he loved me too but it was not enough for me

i was naive then

Her attitude towards u counts. is she loving.caring, wanting to be with u all the time? if yes, then  she loves u, but has not yet accepted to this fact, thats why she does'nt say it.

U could try talking to her about it.

I think dating for a year is ok, but the important question u need to ask your self is are u guys compatible? do u know and understand urselves that well to actually get married.

I have a friend who got married two years ago. Her husband was based abroad, she knew him for just a short while and felt they were compatible enough to get married. Her husband was quiet, calm and generous, she felt that was enough to evaluate him until they got married and realized somany things about themselves. They argued and quarrelled all the time and his folks hated her, he later called and said the marriage should be dissolved. She was devastated.

My point is that u should know ur partner well enough to get married to him

he ya dont worry God go provide work 4 u,just keep on having faith in him

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