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Yes o It's the thought that counts

IamLaura:
She looks happy regardless

This woman posted her birthday by cutting her cake made of eba…lol. Her children shared the cool photos on Facebook

Go do yahoo

RETIREDMUMU:
what are the subtle way to make money without working






girl matter on Sunday oshii

Sometimes, saying ‘I love you’ can be a daunting task. Those three little words that could have him freaked out and running for the hills. Or, you’ve been in a relationship for so long, you sometimes forget all of the other ways to remind your partner that you love them.

So, what do you do?

Here are five subtle ways to get your point across without actually saying a word.

1. Attentiveness

Let your partner know he is a priority, that he is important to you and when he is talking, give him your undivided attention. No checking your cell phone or texting. Don’t scroll through Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. Be present, be in the moment, and be focused. Being attentive lets your partner know they are of value to you and important in your life.

2. Affection

Showing affection can deepen your level of intimacy, create a bond, and reassure your partner you care. Something as simple as running your hand along the length of your partners’ back as you walk by or playful touching them while you are out in public goes a long way. Thoughtful caresses when he is deep in conversation with you or a gentle touch on his thigh while you are having dinner. Physical touch is powerful, when you end your evening together the kiss goodnight is expected but don’t forget the importance of a lengthy hug.



Read also: LADIES: 8 Great Proven Ways To Be The Perfect Girlfriend [MUST READ]

3. Thoughtfulness

Thoughtfulness is simply showing consideration for someone other than yourself.

Little things matter. Be attentive to your partners’ needs, anticipate them. Nothing says, “love you” more than showing kindness and consideration before it is asked. Predicting the needs of your partner shows them that you care and you matter to me.



4. Be spontaneous

Cards and written notes are slowly becoming a thing of the past. Take time to jot down a heartfelt sentiment and leave it somewhere for your partner to find. A handwritten note, which simply says, “I’m thinking of you and have a great day,” can go a long way in making that certain someone feel special.

5. Put them in your future

Let them know your relationship is strong, it has the potential to last and when you speak of the plans in your life, they are a part of them. Get rid of the term, I and begin using us, or we. This gives your significant other the assurance when you look towards the future they are a part of it.

Relationships take time, build and nurture what you have. Establishing trust and commitment will eventually bring those three little words out in the open.
Read more - http://wiregist.com/5-subtle-ways-to-say-i-love-you-with-your-actions/

As desirable as that might be to that partner, it could be a right step at the wrong time as issues could still exist that need to be settled before taking such huge leap.

Generally, regardless of how blissful the relationship feels, no one should feel overly-excited or unduly pressured into making or accepting a marriage proposal until the following three issues are discussed:

1. Finances

Money, how it’s going to be earned and spent, and the need to be firmly had before you even think of proposing to anyone.

This is not a discussion that should wait till after the marriage proposal has been made, or after the marriage has been sealed already.

Babes and guys need to have, at least, a sketchy idea of what their financial ideologies are before getting engaged, and after that, further talks can be had.

But what’s certain, you don’t want to wait till you are married before you discuss this. No, fam, you can’t do that.

2. Parenting styles

Guys, long before you propose to her, you should have asked your babe: ”Do you want to be the kind of mum who stays / works from home and cares for the kids all day?”

And babes, ask him: “Are you the type of husband that places that demand on his wife?”

You also need to know whether you both agree on what punishment for kids means. Does one believe in whipping and the other can’t ever stand kids being whipped?

You need to ask these parenting-related questions, ladies and gentlemen. You can’t claim to know someone fully without knowing these aspects that will obviously impact your eventual marriage to them.

Have these talks. Find a common ground. Don’t leave things to chances.

3. Chemistry

Sexual compatibility quickly jumps to mind here, but there are other things to consider apart from this. How outgoing are you? How about him? Does your idea of fun align? Would one be willing to bend or shift to accommodate the other?

How does anyone try to marry another without touching on these questions at some point before popping the big question?
Source - http://wiregist.com/see-3-important-things-consider-getting-married/

That is not true. Anybody can lie

Evaberry:
Why would any girl take a fine boy seriously

only thing they know how to do is lie

Former Mr. Nigeria, model and actor, Brian Okwara said most women don’t take him seriously due to his good looks.

“My biggest challenge is for God to give me the strength not to be a lady’s man,” Okwara said in an interview with TS Weekend.

“There is something you need to understand about being a lady’s man. Yeah, you are a lady’s man and you can’t run away from it, it is something nature has endowed you with. But there is a flipside and it is that people tend to stereotype you and hardly take you seriously.

“Any woman that walks into your life will just say ‘oh Brian, we have seen your type before; are you not a fine boy?’ And you are like ‘what do you mean by that?’ It is a good thing that you walk into a room and every woman is ogling, but there are people that actually see the other side of life and attach importance and value to relationships, and they will not really like that after a while. I want people to like me for who I am and not judge the book by its cover.”

On how this has affected his relationship with members of the opposite sex, the actor said:

“I would say I have lost friendships that way. Some people just see me and say ‘Brian, come on, I know your type’ and I am like ‘oh sorry, you don’t even know me’.”
Source - http://wiregist.com/brian-okwara-says-fine-is-affecting-his-relationship-with-women/

A thirty-five-year-old man, Bakare Olalekan, yesterday confessed to newsmen that he bought a human heart for N10,000 from his friend, he simply identified as Oye, for “good luck charm.”

Olalekan was among 55 other suspects that were paraded by the Ogun State Commissioner of Police, Ahmed Illiyasu, at the State Police Command Headquarters, Eleweran, in Abeokuta for various crimes. The crimes ranged from kidnappings, armed robbery, vandalism, burgling, ritual killing, cultism and impersonation.

Olalekan said he bought the heart from his friend after his friend told him that he needed a charm for prosperity. He said Oye told him that he would need a human heart, which is a major ingredient in the preparation of the charm.
His words: “He (Oye) later sold three human hearts to me and he used one of them to prepare the charm for me. I later sold the remaining two to a suspect who is also being detained.”

The Police Commissioner while giving breakdown of the various crimes the suspects committed, disclosed that Olalekan was part of a four-man syndicate that was arrested for killing a 16-year-old girl, Olayinka Adebayo, last year August.

Source - http://wiregist.com/i-bought-human-heart-for-n10000-for-good-luck-charm/

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