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I guess you have been praying about your marriage to this guy? That God should show you the way so you dont make a mistake? Well, God has answered your prayer. Shown to you what kind of man you will be tying the knot with. Human beings! Why cant you believe God when He answers your prayers? God answers your prayers and you are now confused ? Of all creatures God created, only humans will not believe Him. Even a cockroach, when it senses danger, will flee. All other creatures too. But man? Man will stand there doubting whether he actually is sensing danger or not.

You can gently talk to your brother about it or even joke with him about it, instead of fuming inside you or seething with rage.

On a more serios note, I hope when you get married, your other siblings will also detest your wife with same intensity. When she eats and leaves her plate because of the baby crying , i hope whichever relation is putting up with you then, will take her plate and soak it in hot bleach water to get your wifes filthy mouth germs off the plate.

Someone said she has removed all the children in her womb? I ask. And the man? He hasn't? Whose children were being removed? Only the girl's ? Believe that if you are naive.

Thank God you dodged a bullet
A man who could do that to you is such a wicked man who clearly does not know the meaning of love and not the type to be married to. So selfish. So self serving. He was only with you for what he could get out of it. Thank God you didn't marry him. Every disappointment is a blessing in disguise. This was a huge disappointment disguising a huge blessing. So sorry about this. Please pick up the pieces of your life,get your health and your body back and face your life again. And in your next relationship, do stay away from premarital sex will you? You were not ready to be a mother. So what were you doing having pre marital sex, for one, and unprotected again, for another? Not a smart decision. See where it led you?

It's also the other way round. There are many men who call up ladies for the "urgent "100k or 250k. Men won't usually ask for urgent 5k. They go for the kill. Those men too will conveniently forget the ladys birthday, or festive period greetings. Truth is, you don't abandon those you love. You abandon those you use.