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Family / Re: My Sister Is Spending Money On Her Boyfriend In School. Worried About My Sis by worriedgirl: 5:52am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Onegai:chepy1 I agree with this... cut down her stipends in the guise of things are hard, every leech surrounding her will definitely leave... meanwhile, is your dog a chihuahua breed? My Samoyed breed used to be really cute until they grew up and became so wild and scary,i had to get rid of them, I'm considering going for a chihuahua since they always remain small and cute |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 5:39am On Aug 06, 2016 |
Harvard13:yh, thanks |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 9:24pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
UyiIredia:thanks |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 7:57pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
luka1981:thanks for the offer dear but I don't think it'll be necessary |
Family / Re: Is Bride Price Necessary After All These? by worriedgirl: 7:47pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
@ oloniyan when you are ready to get married, tell your father-in-law that you won't pay a dime on his daughter's head cause different men have chook chook her finish... stop asking us here, it's a question for the elders, now run along |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 6:59pm On Aug 05, 2016 |
LaDivva:thanks dear |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 10:43am On Aug 05, 2016 |
Harvard13:thanks for your advice I typed with my phone, I hate using short words cause they could become a problem in future if one gets used to it |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 4:53am On Aug 05, 2016 |
luka1981:hahaha... lol... thanks for your contribution |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 9:49pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
UrWorstNitemare:I've laid it all on the table and I tried to be as partial as possible with my part of the story... it is as you have seen it, I've held him in high esteem for so long and the situation is just very uncomfortable, that's all |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 9:46pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
sanyahkod:it's actually a southern guy and I'm considering it seriously |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 7:34pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
AfroKnight:thanks |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 7:33pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
philybuck:alright dear |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 7:02pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
byvan03:that's true... thanks 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 6:55pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
2BB4CB3E:calm down darling, I'm not trying to give any "I'm decent " kinda speech... I have sex with boys my age and not old married men who can rival my grandpa for seniority... there are two "no no's" there #old and #married... |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 6:50pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
@byvan03 @missmossy I appreciate your contributions... I really wanted to keep mute but it seems talking is a better option, so that we can sort things out and avoid future problems 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 6:44pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
sapiosexual1:someone gave me the same advice earlier on, I'll definitely do it ... thanks a lot |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 5:19pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
klenton:ummmm... funny thing is my class was full of dumb guys... our course adviser once announced that the top best 15 in our class were girls and yes I'm a sucker for intelligent guys, I crushed on four guys at a go in secondary school just because they were brainy and were the best in school then... my guy course mates were business oriented and book was the least of their problems, at least from what I saw... in case you have never met girls who go weak on the knees for intelligent guys, *exchanges a hand shake * I'm happy to meet you too... I kinda idolize them and I really don't know why, maybe it's cause they ginger me academically and make me strive to be a better person... and please don't ask me why I don't do same for females, I admire intelligent females too but ummmm opposite poles attract, if you understand me and I'm not so great with the female folks... as for why I should crush on a man that old, I think it's because he was different from the other lecturers, he talked to me like a human being and didn't treat me like trash so I had great admiration for him (if you are used to the naija system, you will know how our lecturers behave like god)... thanks for your contribution, by the way |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 4:29pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
philybuck:thanks dear, that should help... I appreciate |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 2:32pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
nmreports:thanks a lot, I appreciate |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 2:14pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
philybuck:I can't even talk about it in his presence cause I get so motionless and speechless like a zombie... I feel so embarrassed that such topic should be discussed between us... the last time I went to his office, I went to clear things with him and make him understand but I couldn't utter a single word, I ended up looking like a zombie while he hugged me, it's just a very uncomfortable topic and I'm praying he doesn't bring it up again... and I wasn't trying to convince, I was only stating the fact... for crying out loud, he is old, he is retiring in 5 years time and lecturers retire at 70, plus the whole mago mago thing, he's definitely close to 70 or more sef, he's married with children that are far older than I am, so I wasn't just trying to convince anyone there, I was mainly stating a fact... I might have had a crush on him and mistaken it a little but I guess it's all clear now, I'm a sucker for intelligent men and that was all the crush was about - his intelligence thanks for your contribution, by the way |
Romance / Re: My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 2:04pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
Humblesam:thanks... I've been dreading resumption since, I know it's going to be a very tricky situation and I sincerely pray I'll be able to deal with it... I pray he doesn't pester me and backs off so I don't get so irritated and start disrespecting him in any way... God help us all... thanks once again for your contribution |
Romance / My Lecturer Wants To Bed Me. by worriedgirl: 12:20pm On Aug 04, 2016 |
Disclaimer : This is real so please kindly drop the necessary advice needed before the saucy comments. My name is Lilian (pseudonym) and this is my story. Few years back, I was admitted into one of the universities in Nigeria. It was a great opportunity and I made up my mind to make good use of it. My intelligence endeared me to one of the senior professors in my department, the head of department to be precise. I enjoyed the attention he gave to me cause it gave me a chance to learn from his vast wealth of knowledge. He was a very intelligent man, he got all his degrees from UK universities and his intelligence was a force to reckon with. It didn't take long for me to start crushing on him... helllooooo don't blame me, I have a weakness for intelligent men and he liked me a lot too cause I was really young (I had to increase my age to get into the university ) and I was one of the best students in my set. He was nothing like the other lecturers, he related with students very freely and didn't have a high-handed nature like our Naija lecturers. We would talk about so many things in his office and I gained a lot from his intelligence, he was impressed with me cause I had one or two things to chip in regarding any topic that was raised. He would give me money sometimes for lunch and pleeaaasseeee free me, I didn't beg for it ooo, I was young then sef, my eye bin never tear for money. I heard some stories about him being a womanizer and sleeping with students to give them financial assistance cause he was really loaded in the pocket region but he never exchanged sex for grades as he was really disciplined in the academic region, the man sef no dey waste time to give me "b" for him course, me wey be him paddy paddy. I never paid attention to the stories cause he was my idol after all and he never made any sexual advances towards me so it was none of my business. He was like a mentor to me and would always give me beneficial advises and I knew he had my best interest at heart. I had a little crush on him too. On the day of my graduation, I gave him a gift and we said our goodbyes. When I went to serve my fatherland (NYSC), he kept in touch regularly and started showing emotional interests. I made my first mistake by accommodating it, pleaassseeee don't chew me yet, I had a crush on him and he was my idol for crying out loud!!! Note that I never exchanged emotional messages with him, I only sent a smiling smiley whenever he sent them, he was sacred and I didn't have the courage to do it even if I wanted to. After NYSC, I got a good news, my school was going to retain me as per best graduating student in the department thing. After finalizing everything, I was to work in his sub-department. No be for this kain country wey pesin dey throway better opportunity like this, no time to state the benefits of this job, all I can say for now is that it's a Federal university so think about the benefits yourself. When I visited his office briefly, he brought up the affair thing, he's married with children that can marry me sef so I knew it was never going to happen. He asked for a kiss and when I remained motionless, he hugged me tight and asked me to go and think about it. There's nothing to think about, I think the crush I had on him was academical cause there's nothing attracting me to him sexually at all, moreover he's somebody's husband and he's old enough to be my father too. I'm not scared of him causing any problem for me cause I don't think he would go that low, he is more intelligent than that. The problem is that I wish we could go back to how we were before this affair thing came up. He complimented my stature and it irritated me. I don't hate him at all, I just dislike the strange air building between us cause of his request. How do I act around him now that I have to work in his sub-department. I plan to act dumb like I don't understand what he is saying and avoid being alone with him cause he is retiring in five years time, but how possible is that? Working with him for five years and avoiding him, does that look realistic? I don't want to ever offend him not cause I'm scared of him but cause he has been my idol for too long, I respect him too much. I'm praying that the school sends me abroad for my PhD, at least that will remove 2-3 years from the 5 years. Please start throwing advises and for those that will still decide to bash me, please bash with a heart. Thanks. 1 Like 1 Share |
Education / Re: Students & Their Laptops In American University Classroom by worriedgirl: 10:33am On Aug 04, 2016 |
give Nigeria a f***ing break... how about you google how much these European universities charge as tuition... you see their high school students saying things like "I need to save up for college "... Nigeria is a work in progress so cut her some slack, maybe if we begin to believe more in her, she'll serve us well... you guys keep on talking trash about how European countries are so developed and all, can you as an individual put the kind of effort they put into making their country great in Nigeria? be careful about what you ask for ... I know our government is corrupt but who isn't, maybe if we as citizens of Nigeria were corrupt -free, we would have been able to point accusing fingers at our leaders... Nigeria has enough problems already, if you can't help her, then the least you can do is to stop criticizing her. peace! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ladies, Snap Out Of The "Mds" by worriedgirl: 8:03pm On Aug 03, 2016 |
Emodeee:shitty mindset darling |
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