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jbichene:
I almost read and past by till I saw this ,oga don't worry boys are not struggling this particular privilege with the men,from what I am reading here our lives are much more less complicated when our age obviously indicates to them that marriage Is not possible for us in the nearest feature ,at least all we have to worry and hope for now are mostly four things. 1 hope she is pretty. 2 hope she is not a control freak. 3 hope she does not like money too much. 4 hope she dresses hot. BONUS. 1 she knows a bit abt guy stuff e.g football ,video games,international politics and local , weapons e.t.c.

Bros mi, u have spoken well. We worry too much about ladies when wooing them but if her attitude doesn't matter what we want, then it's better we move on to the next lady.

Mhizkel:
Ask Bing.

He is joking na midehi

toksbisola:
@Op; kudos for this; very sensible points. I remember your last thread where I did mention for you to give some credit to the ladies and you eventually did with this write-up. Take this, you nailed it; well done.

@tosyne2much; well done too; you’ve made some valuable points as well. It’s refreshing to see credit given to the ladies for a change.

Although some might assume that it might be impossible for one person to posses all these qualities; I’ll slightly disagree and say that it's feasible as I don’t see these qualities as an impossible task to achieve/have.

No one was born with any quality; but as we grow as individuals, one starts to equip ones self with different qualities to complement ones personality. This in-turn, aids one to posses a personality that would be irresistible; hence, that'll bring admiration to oneself.

Anyway, if you find a lady that has 80% of the traits you’ve mentioned in your write-up; be rest assured that indeed, she’s a good catch. The good thing would be to HOLD ON TIGHT TO HER AND DON'T LET GO.

Remember though; that when we look for certain qualities in a partner; we should also strive hard to possess those similar qualities as well; in theory, to avoid it being one-sided. The saying comes to mind “You are what you attract”.

One more thing; a lady who is able to combine her career with looking after a home should be well commended.



PS: @ Orikinla; at least there are still 5% of ladies (better than 0%) out there with these traits and that's a starting point. The % can be improved further as time goes on. Remember the saying; “Half bread is better than none”.


I rest my case

Bro, thanks for your indispensable advice on my last article. I took your advice and made diplomatic option by writing an article that appreciate the positive side of our ladies.

LOL funny thing I can see joy in their heart giving view they possess all these characters but in real life by their seed we shall spot them.

ellechrystal:
NO'!!!

Hahahaha. Dear u don't have to be too mean. Don't make him regret for wooing u

Applaner:
men don't talk abt ladies BT boys do


















food for thought

Oh really?

MRpii:
Robot

Why did u say I am a robot?

Omotayor123:
I'm single na...

Ehen. I dey fear ooo!

Midehi:
thank God for my man....i will always love him.

Awww. Lovely. I am still single

adeh39:


The guy is still suffering from a heartbreak......one mumu lady broke his precious heart into pieces

Shey make we pray say make thunder strike her butt?

Mhizkel:
Lol. What else do you expect from the son of an animal? Trash ofcourse!

Lmao

lakesidepapa:
Stay there and look for a lady rounded with these qualities and before u knw it, ur juniors ones don get married with kids.

I'll rather go for that Bashira Omo iya alaso that's giving me green light than to wait till i see a lady rounded with these qualities.

What happens when u eventually marry bashira omo iya alaso and celebrities like genevieve gives u a green signal?

anigbajumo:
Welldone tosyne nd wristbangle

Thanks sir

Omotayor123:
Me na
Your post Just describe me

Ehen! U want make ur BF kill me

MRpii:
Wristbangle must be a BOT

Lol what is BOT sir?

sonofananimal2:
I JUST PRAY OUR NAIJA WOMEN POSSES THIS KIND CHARACTER,

COS I KNOW SAY ALL OF THEM POSSES STUPIDITY

POSSES WITCH




POSSES FOOLISHNESS


POSSES THE ACT OF MUMUNESS


POSSES GOOD CHARACTER OF UNFAITHFULNESS


POSSES THE THE ACT OF CHEATING


I HAVE NEVER SEEN ANY NAIJA WOMEN WITH GOOD CHARACTERS, THEM ONLY MASK IT JUST TO TRAP AN INNOCENT MAN

NAIJA WOMEN!! YOUR DAYS WILL END LIKE THE DAYS OF THE DINOSAURS

Hahahahahaha.

Cc: adeh39, tosyne2much, mhizkel, ronald4lif and midehi

Omotayor123:
Wristbangle what are you waiting for

Oya come And propose joor

Lol for who ma?

kossyablaze:
Itz a pity dah LADIES of nowdays hardly possess all these!Is it CR77 or LadyF or Introvert?Even tho I perceive them to be she_males.

GOD PLEASE GIVE ME AND MY NAIRALAND NIGGAZ A LADY THAT POSSESS ALL LISTED ABOVE.

Hahahaha. I feel CR77. LadyF and introvert are males bro.

Lol them dey bro.

Empress2014:
I have all these qualities and am still searching

Gimme your number na

ronald4lif:
Hehe! Oh really, for men not boys? Oh well.


If this piece doesn't hit the HQ na to riot oo. This na sure banker if I'm to borrow the terms of Baba Ijebu bettors.

Baba e don enter FP sharp sharp. The Fastest thread that ever FP by me within few mins.

Meanwhile we are men

Freemanan:
K
N u?
Kkk
5n
L8r..


I can kill for this.

Very frustrating bro.

pbs4real:
Hahaha. . .nyc one tosyne2much and wristbangle. . . . . .i love the combo. . .

Lol. Thanks boss.

Aisha95:
Truth is that Men also love girls that are fun to be with. Not the boring types that can't easily keep a nice covo. Or is it the type that replies with abbreviations when chatting?
Heck, that is a big turn off to the guys.
Then adding to it, men loved being appreciated for even the least of things they do. Doing that will propel them to do more - it kind of cheer up their spirit.
Lastly, when a lady is committed to a religious belief, she is considered responsible to some extent so that as well is a factor that draws the attention of men to such ladies.

Well said aisha.

I detest ladies given a monosyllabic reply when chatting with them.

ronald4lif:
Flawless list. For those who are enthusiastic about marriage.

For others who understands the enslavement, sadness, lack of freedom and bondage which characterise the marital institution no perceived enviable character would make them consider that path. So long...

Well said bro. Thanks for the comment.

The marital journey is for men not boys bro.

Kachisbarbie:
I support Enyimba.

_but you guys said you like us better without makeup, are you changing mouth?
Now I am confused.

Lo. Hahahaha enyimba ke!

Lol don't be. Apply makeup where necessary not when u wana cook @ home and applying make up

kerygalerie:
Interesting... I posses all those qualities....op, pls add, godly to that list. Men need women who can pray 4 the survival of the family, when trying tymz surface.

Woow. Thanks for that dear.

I will add it before entering into HQ

Midehi:
you wan yab me abi

Haba I won't na.

tosyne2much:
9. Ladies who have good propriety of talking manner

Ladies who have good sense of speech turns me on. That is, they know how to talk, when to talk, when to keep quiet, and how to control their emotions

10. Ladies who rather Manage than Beg

Ladies who are very economical are the chase of broke guys like us. As we no get money, na to dey find ladies wey go help us manage our small change sure pass. Even if na Jupiter them dey, na me go first locate them

11. Ladies who are not obsessed with Suya

Ladies who so much love suya are big turn off for me. If you keep these kinds of ladies, na suya you go use your money buy finish. When you take these kinds of ladies on a date, they will be feeding as if there's famine on the land. They are definitely not worthy of my ring

12. Ladies who respect guys both online and offline

On a public forum like this, you see ladies forming what they are not. They talk to guys rudely and disrespectfully both online and offline at any slight provocation. Even if you are T. B Joshua, you can't control these ladies

Lmao. Point number 11 though. Those who are not also obsessed with sharwama.

Kachisbarbie:
Lols.
Funny you.
Lalasticlala and I kwa? Nawa o... una fit put people for trouble o.

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The problem now is, I have done all the listed. I even stopped wearing makeup, yet husband is not coming.
I want to change formation to 4-4-2.

What do you think?

Please which club u dey support ma?

Lol u berra go back to your makeup because guys are confused with your pimples face with respect to the one with makeup

Midehi:
they have arrived!

nice one! but am guilty of just one.

Which one is that?

CR77:
. Am sorry to say this....but u have spoken like a fool

Madame, not that I like buhari but jonathan is the most clueless man have ever seen.

@ Emusmith, Nice write up bro.

Bro, please can you send or reply my PM as I need an urgent request from you.

Thanks