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Back from where, him travel b4? |
jgurus:Omor you must get time for me oo oo , nah your find me come, how you no go get time. Where you wan run go, idiaat E shock you?!!! ![]() |
Indirectly, she dey mock Nigerians, on our choice of buhari and the hardship/protest that has befallen us. On a serious note, I no blame her. After all, Nigerians mostly the Yelobas helped in chasing on a than away just to get on the Igbo's. Ow see what yerobas has put Nigeria into. Patience Jonathan, abegi enjoy urself jareee |
Your answer is yes. It is even in the bible, in the old testament, during famine, sometimes God permit these things to happen, |
jgurus:I tot u have sense, Oba-less tribe, at your years remain broke |
jgurus:This one shock you wella, jobless hegoat, see as dem disgrace ur Oba, you no do anything, now you come here they shout "igbo". supporter of APC generation, nah thunder wey no get break go fire you there foolish fool |
jgurus:Your generation is a condolence apology, foolish oil licking generation. E shock you!!!!!!? |
Mokelu:E shock you? Omor nothing enter. |
I thought the op had a point, only to discover that the OP is as confused as his former vice president Effiong that he mentioned. OP please go and take your evening medications |
Mokelu:Okkkk, good judge, you are interested in y words but not interested to know how I was also initially abused because of my humble opinion. I hail youoooo |
Mokelu:Go back to that link and reread. I will never insult someone first. Go and reread through the link. Instead, you guys are only quoting my subsequent chats, trying to ignore the root cause Then come back and tell me who started the insult, or you think you can insult me and go Scot free ? |
It’s a part of all relationships. But you can minimize the arguments and grow closer together if you do the following: 1. Listen Pay close attention to what your partner is saying when you’re having an argument—then take the time to reflect back what you heard; communicate that you understand their point of view, and validate their feelings. Once you do that, your partner will not have to defend themselves and will be open to hearing your point of view and what you need as well. Oftentimes your partner just wants to vent and be heard, it’s not an attack on you. It’s the simplest way to put the brakes on a brewing battle. 2. Pick your Battles Your partner will do things that drive you crazy. It’s part of what happens when two people become a couple. So instead of arguing every time your partner does something that annoys you, ignore the stuff that’s really not that big of a deal. Make a conscious choice about what issues really matter to you and focus on those. This is my top pick to ward off a petty, silly argument. It’s all about letting go of the small stuff. It’s so hard to do in the short run, but you’re in your relationship for the long haul. 3. Lighten Things Up If you start to feel frustrated and ready to snap at your partner because you don’t like what they’re saying or they’re getting annoying, then a great technique is for you and your partner to come up with a word that each of you say when the tension starts to build. You could lovingly say “chill” and your partner would humorously respond, “Life goes on.” As soon as you say your word and your partner responds you both chuckle and the frustration, anger, and irritation just melt away. (This one really works for me. It’s so simple and I love it.) 4. Express Your Gratitude No matter how long you’ve been together, express your appreciation and love on a daily basis. Say Thanks for making dinner, or Thanks so much for going to the doctor with me, or I love you more today than yesterday, or If I had to do it over again I would marry you in a heartbeat! The more valued you make your partner feel the less likely you both are to pick fights with each other. Compliment your partner, be his/her cheerleader, and let your partner know that you’re so happy to wake up every day next to him or her. We all need to be reminded of how important we are to our partners. It feels so good to hear it! 5. Say, Sorry We all do things we wish we could take back. It happens. But, you can take ownership and responsibility for something you’ve done that deserves an apology. The best apologies are genuine, sincere, and describe how you’ll act differently in the future. The more you demonstrate to your partner that you don’t have to be right and that the relationship is more important than your pride, the happier the both of you will be. 6. Don’t Blame We all do this one. We say things like, You never…, You always…, If only you didn’t…, You should…, etc. The more you point your finger at your partner and demand he or she do something else, the more rapidly the argument will escalate. Here’s what you can do instead. Start with “I” rather than “you” statements. For example, say, I get so aggravated when you leave your shoes right where I walk. Don’t say, You are so frigging lazy you can’t even put your shoes where they belong. Say, I was so scared when you were late the other night and you didn’t text me. Don’t say, You were so inconsiderate and cruel for not calling or texting me that you were going to be late. Say, I felt embarrassed when you told Lexi that I did lousy on my final exam. Don’t say, You were so thoughtless and out of line to tell Lexi about my lousy grade. How to prevent Arguments 7. Know What Sets You Off There’s always going to be something about your partner that elicits and activates a chemical reaction within you and then, without warning, you instantaneously lash out. It almost feels like an involuntary response. Do something to stop yourself from reacting immediately when he/she pushes your buttons. Bite your tongue (not too hard), take a deep breath, change your location, repeat a mantra, smile, etc. Also think about why you react so strongly. This could be an opportunity for you to discuss how you feel and what you need. No matter what you do, you can’t avoid disagreements, but you can successfully manage them, minimize them, and most importantly you can prevent the major blowouts. Be kind and treat your partner with love, respect, and never take them for granted. How to prevent Arguments |
Abeg What's d story behind her story. She dey give free Bleep? |
Government can confuse some people all the time, but can never confuse all Nigerians all the time |
ab1x:Noted |
LinaVentures:So you don't know the difference between Correcting me and insulting. I think Your generation is a complete condolence apology to your stupid community |
LinaVentures:Hooligan, its your type that is looting warehouses. Its not your fault, its Glo that gave you free data, I don't blame you, bloody monkey |
Nephygg:I tot I was talking an adult, now I know u are a very stupid somebody, I doubt if you have a father, idiat |
LinaVentures:Not at all |
uchman:Noooo, it can be produced in 2008, but can never be 2008 model. Production year is completely different from model. The picture above started from 2003 and end in 2005/2006 |
LinaVentures:OK, corrections noted |
2008? |
Lizzyroom:Thiefnibu should please keep quiet lets see if the little peace we have now will last. When the hoodlums return to attack him now they will start crying its the Igbo's. Mumu The mumu came out from hiding instead of keeping quiet in respect to the relative peace we have, he is here talking like a woman |
Please help me tell the hediot Mr. Adeyinka to leave Nigeria b4 24hrs. Anumanu |
merits:My DSTV subscription is automatic over 7 years each month. They are now showing, as at the time I drop the initial message, tvc was still off |
Nicenancy:I want u to luv onli mi |
Nicenancy:How am I sure you love me |
Are you OK? You better welcome yourself |
Lies, I just tuned to TVC just now, they are still off Channel 418 on DSTV |
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, nah your find me come, how you no go get time. Where you wan run go, idiaat
nothing enter.