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Politics / Re: Attackers killed by own explosives in Jos by Wumine(f): 7:08pm On Mar 21, 2011
These HEdiots will never rest! Serves them right. . . . . wicked things!
Business / Re: Shipping Goods From Usa To Nigeria - Which Is The Cheapest? by Wumine(f): 1:21pm On Feb 22, 2011
Pls shipping from Dallas Tx to Nigeria (cars and other goods) rate? delivery duration? anyone?
Tnx
Family / Re: Should A Woman Have an Affair Just Because Her Husband Is Having an Affair too by Wumine(f): 9:26am On Feb 20, 2011
angry @George_D : Uhhhhh?
Family / Re: Should A Woman Have an Affair Just Because Her Husband Is Having an Affair too by Wumine(f): 9:14am On Feb 20, 2011
No. Never!
Romance / Re: What's The Key To Successful Relationships? by Wumine(f): 8:53am On Feb 20, 2011
Trust
Tolerance
Forgiveness
Communication
Forum Games / Re: Re: Post What's On Your Mind Right Now (Part 2) by Wumine(f): 10:44am On Feb 10, 2011
whaaaaatttt? 360k for ticket? Is the flight heaven-bound?
Forum Games / Re: Random Facts About Yourself (part 2) by Wumine(f): 10:34pm On Feb 09, 2011
shocked shocked

I hate waiting
Forum Games / Re: My Current Mood In One Word: by Wumine(f): 10:30pm On Feb 09, 2011
The 'MOOD'
Forum Games / Re: Re: What's On Your Mind? 2 by Wumine(f): 10:25pm On Feb 09, 2011
Am waitin' for ur msg on ma wall
Forum Games / Re: Re: What's On Your Mind? 2 by Wumine(f): 12:06am On Feb 09, 2011
^^^Lol! Will try it and see
lol
Forum Games / Re: Second Vowel Letter Game. by Wumine(f): 12:00am On Feb 09, 2011
Ignoble
Forum Games / Re: Re: What's On Your Mind? 2 by Wumine(f): 11:49pm On Feb 08, 2011
How d'u ask for a vacation at the beginning of the year
Family / Re: Im Unhappy In My Marriage by Wumine(f): 12:11pm On Feb 08, 2011
funkee34
« on: February 06, 2011, 07:18 AM »  

I am getting tired of living with my husband.  we dated for 7 years before we got married but I never knew he had an alcohol problem. We are just married for over a year. He never stays at home. he will prefer to go and sit with other single men and drink, smoke and gist. He wont call t ask how we are doing. he comes home very late and leaves the house as early as possible.

I am an attractive chic,  even after a child, m still slim and can pass for a 16year old. He barely notices me. All he wants is to drink and smoke. I have picked quarrels with him and even threathened to walk out of the marriage. if he is sorry today, he gets worse tomorrow. sometimes he comes home at 2am and he is out again by 7.30am to return late at night. I need attention and someone to talk to most times. I cry at length and I am generally unhappy.

I am contemplating leaving the house for a week or so, if that will get his attention,  then maybe report him to his mum. I have spoken to him countless times and I am just TIRED. HELP ME PLEASE      


Uhmmm, wonder how you would have dated for 7 years and never knew he had drinking problems! There must have been some telltale signs here and there! Why are you tired of living with him when he’s barely there?  Being attractive is no big deal especially when you are already the wife, haven’t you seen cheating men with very attractive wives? It’s something in their gene (men), I guess! Maybe there is something you are not doing right, why not ask him what the problem is instead of picking fights with him, have a heart to heart talk with him.
The first few years of marriage is most times the most difficult for many, no matter how long you courted, those are the years you get to know each other truly well, and prayer, love and tolerance is what see most people through. I don’t think leaving the house would help matters here; you will only be giving him more room to continue his late night drinking escapades.
Forum Games / Re: Re: What's On Your Mind? 2 by Wumine(f): 6:39am On Feb 08, 2011
^^ Dont be sick dearie. Try and take some rest and see it you feel better, if not you might need to see a Doctor. Take kia of u
Computers / Re: Which Is The Best Internet Connection In Nigeria? by Wumine(f): 6:34am On Feb 08, 2011
Trid MTN Fastline and twas quite faster than my Mlinks
Forum Games / Re: Second Vowel Letter Game. by Wumine(f): 6:30am On Feb 08, 2011
oak
Forum Games / Re: French Words In English by Wumine(f): 6:28am On Feb 08, 2011
Question
Questionnaire
Politics / Re: Nigeria To Commence Islamic Banking Soon – Sanusi by Wumine(f): 6:26am On Feb 08, 2011
yeah why?
Islamic banking should be allowed for those that want to operate it as long as the conventional banking system wont be eradicated
Politics / Re: Fg Releases N15bn To Police For 2011 Polls by Wumine(f): 6:14am On Feb 08, 2011
Ole ni gbogbo won jare! Ogbon ati kowoje officially. That won't stop them from collecting bribe on the roads or killing innocent people while blaming it on accidental discharge! Rubbishly cheap set to whatever they call themselves

GEJ
Nairaland / General / Re: Quantity Time And Quality Time, Which Do You Prefer? by Wumine(f): 6:07am On Feb 08, 2011
Quality time is better, you get to do fun things together. Quantity time could be so so boring. To some girls quality time can mean 'lets just cuddle and talk and be plain silly together while making each other laugh' or 'shower me with more gifts' or 'i wanna get married'!.
Rather,why not ask her what kind of quality time she wants
Forum Games / Re: French Words In English by Wumine(f): 11:12pm On Feb 07, 2011
Souvenir
Forum Games / Re: Re: What's On Your Mind? 2 by Wumine(f): 10:44pm On Feb 07, 2011
Money. . . . Where art thou?
Forum Games / Re: What Are You Doing Right Now? by Wumine(f): 10:43pm On Feb 07, 2011
Watching TV and NLing
Forum Games / Re: Second Vowel Letter Game. by Wumine(f): 10:40pm On Feb 07, 2011
Abduct
Politics / Re: Nigeria To Commence Islamic Banking Soon – Sanusi by Wumine(f): 10:05pm On Feb 07, 2011
^^^ One of the rules of islamic banking is that there will be no interest on your savings, i think

@post:
So what is wrong in Islamic Banking? Don't see anything bad in it, U get to operate it if you want
Religion / Re: 21 Year Old Virgin Pregnant With Twins by Wumine(f): 9:52pm On Feb 07, 2011
thehomer:

An intact hymen does not automatically mean that the person did not have sexual intercourse. Besides, did you know that the sperm could be introduced without full penetration? Such occurrences need to be ruled out before claiming that it was the Holy Spirit at work or do you wish to accuse the Holy Spirit?

Read the first paragraph: hymen

U're right!

lol @ post
Romance / Re: My Husband Cheats On Me So I Cheat On Him Too. by Wumine(f): 9:35pm On Feb 07, 2011
Uhmmmmm! Is it worth it? If cheating on him will make you truly happy, then. . . . But am telling you, you will most probably feel worse after it! Guys that cheat are usually very jealous, so u gat to be careful there, except you are tired of the marriage
Forum Games / Re: My Current Mood In One Word: by Wumine(f): 5:30pm On Feb 07, 2011
Weekend hangover! U need to see the work on my desk undecided undecided undecided

@ post: Fatigued!
Forum Games / Re: What Are You Doing Right Now? by Wumine(f): 5:27pm On Feb 07, 2011
Stealing some time to NL while at work! tongue
Politics / Re: I Didn't Say God Asked Me To Run - Bakare by Wumine(f): 5:21pm On Feb 07, 2011
NL has come again o! When and where did he say that? Apart from THE SUN of course

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