Hi people,
I have a bf who really frustrates me. We have been dating for more than a year now and he get angry at little things...he insults me both privately and publicly whenever we quarrel.

Worst is he smokes sk and doesn't see anything wrong with it...he goes through my phone Everytime and even reply my messages sometimes. I can't have male friends cuz he calls me a prostitute whenever I talk to a guy.

The day I went through his phone I discovered he was asking so many girls out or either ask them for nudes or sexchat. I got angry and broke up with him but my dad had to settle it so I let it go.

The one he did last was when he asked me to come online on WhatsApp and it took me some minutes to do that and when I finally did I saw his messages saying I was busy with another guy which is why it took me long to get online and lots of insults.

I didn't reply to the messages and we didn't speak to each other for a week...he called and texted the next week but I didn't reply to any... I don't love him anymore and I want to break up with him but everyone including my family and his knows about our relationship.

.i can't explain to anyone what happened or they would try to get us back together.
Two months ago I met another guy and we have been going out a lot..he asked me out recently and I haven't replied him yet but I found out he womanize alot .

.I also found out that he has slept with most of the girls I know but when I asked him he said that was his past and he didn't have a gf then... I decided to give some space btw us cuz of his history with girls...

My bf is still calling with different numbers and threatening me since he found out am going out with someone else.

I don't know how to get break up with my bf and get him off my back.. I like the new guy a lot but the girls won't just stop calling him and my friends advised me to go back to my bf and forgive him since there is no perfect guy but I don't love him anymore and I don't want insults either....

Should I give the new guy a chance or let him go?
How do I tell my family and friends about my bf without them getting us back together again.

Please kindly advice
Thanks.