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It depends on their waiting preferences and how they love the person that passed away...

There's no waiting period in some people's dictionary, max for them is 3month and life goes on again

He has been betrayed by the people he supported to do evil, now they have betrayed him, he has started spilling the beans like a talking drum..

We are waiting for more revelation, how you guys rigged 2023 election and how you planned to rig the coming 2027 election

Ad multos centissimus annos His Eminence, its an honour to serve as a mass server under you..

Continue to live long to impact the up coming priest..

Nah sombody go marry you self, face your front, and let the man enjoy his new bride

This is the beauty about Peter obi, when you do somthing good he will praise you, but when you drift away from the reason why you were elected, he will call your attention to it..

He his different from every other politicians..

Who is soludo in the scheme of politics?

Nah you and your family endorse am, the whole of Igbo endorse Peter Obi, your senior in politics..

Even your kids and family will vote Peter obi before they vote you

You should breathe life into the robots 🤖, they wilk start helping you do your chores, just have some patience and litter faith. 😆 🤣 😂 😹

Meshben10:
My me go still coach them last last

Nah bende insurance get you last least 😆 🤣 😂 😹

I already know that, the SIG president name will be there 😆 🤣

TheStoriesOfMan:
God: "Stop disturbing me. You know what to do as a human."

Lol, at the same time, we still need God to direct their step to have ideas of how to rescue the victims

This is an old video, i already know it will be in north, my thinking was all those quranic school teachers might be the one doing tbis to their student

God please let your mercy speak for the people that was kidnapped to be released without any harm, most especially the innocent kids, who are just growing up to the future...

It is really heartbreaking that kids are in the bush, in the cold weather 😢

Mirasteel:
Stop asking silly questions, how do you expect us to know?

You don vex for this early momo

Onkoolos:
Good morning guys, I have 545k that I saved in a bank giving me return of 7k per month, 2 months ago i saw a land available at place in ogun state after mowe ofada area. I want to ask should I withdraw the money to buy the land or keep enjoying the 7k..

Investment wise what is the best decison to take here

Pls banter and roasting is welcome. Because I’m here to learn. I know I’m not too smart.

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Go and collect the money and buy land, lease ot out to any farmer close to the land, and be collecting same 7k or 10k monthly.


By so doing, you have atleast secured a small future for your self, and don't forget land doesn't depreciate, it appreciate, by the time it is left for 2years, it can be x3 of the price you bought it..

Don't forget you are also collecting small change monthly, from the farmers using it to plant

I don't have any marriage quote abeg, I live my life and relationship the way it comes..

This is what happens when you pardon kidnappers and bandits..

There should be capital punishment like firing squard or beheading, which shouldn't be more than 2 weeks after judgement, once you do this, alot of them will flee and sanity will be restored back to the country...

But we know this might not happen, because, some people will come out to defend them as their brothers.


IF YOU JUST HAVE ENOUGH MONEY, JUST MOVE YOUR FSMIKY OUT OF THIS COUNTRY FOR GOOD, EVEN YOUR PET SHOULDN'T BE LEFT BEHINDE

profeoo:
This not on their official account.

This account is a fake account, I just verified.

With the picture I attached, you couldn't even know that, that was an IG status, will disappear after 24hour, something that was posted like 2days ago, after the transaction was concluded, before Gordon travelled to sign his contract...

Next time be Internet savvy

hitekk:
A relations of mine wants to get this car from a US auction site. Pls What's your advice considering the damage on the car. This is his first car. It has a mileage of 77061

This is a minor damage, oyinbo doesn't lie, tell him to give you all the things that spoilt inside the car, send it to your trusted me mechanic here in nigeria and ask how much it will be fixed, do your plus and minus to see if the price will favour you and go ahead and buy...

Oyinbo doesn't lie and they know how to use car well, this car is clean

I'm voting for my friend SAHA for lagos state house of assembly lagos island constituency 2...

This is the post of Newcastle United of England, after selling one of their last season hot player to FC Barcelona..

Do you think they scammed Barcelona just like they did to Liverpool after selling Alexander Isak, with his constant injury that hampered his performance and limited chances of playing to help Liverpool?

For the singular act of saying you stepped down for Tinubu, that you are still young to contest really hurt me on that day you guys did your primary.

I don't believe you sir, you wey be retired police officer?

Wetin happen?

This is rare, did they sell all their players?

contentEngineer:
Can't you give the "help" ?... Empty Talker

What happend to you, are you financially handcapped?

Abbeytoy:
I can't. It's better for her to know than me lying to her. However, we're always together as I work from home and have leg issue.

Oh, Ok, i wish you all well

For speaking your mind out, help will locate you soon IJN

This are the type of presidential material Nigerians should be begging to rule them for 50years, not the present one, who are only there to milk the country dry and take power by force

oarowosola:
I met her sometime around April or May last year, and from the beginning, things seemed fine between us. Like every relationship, we both made sacrifices, and even though I don’t like keeping score in relationships, I know I gave a lot of myself into it. Over time, though, I started noticing certain habits and behaviors that became harder and harder for me to ignore. At first, I kept convincing myself that maybe I was overthinking things or expecting too much, but eventually I realized that I was simply becoming exhausted.

One of the biggest issues for me was cleanliness and basic responsibility. I’m not a perfect person, and I can be nonchalant too. I’m someone who enjoys my own space and doesn’t constantly need attention or communication. If someone is busy and doesn’t check up on me for a while, I honestly don’t take it personally. But what bothered me was the imbalance. She could disappear for days or weeks whenever she was occupied and expect me to understand, but if I withdrew into my own space just to protect my peace, she would become upset about it. That double standard was one of the first things that started weighing on me emotionally.

The first time I visited her house, I was shocked by how untidy it was. I’m not obsessive about cleanliness, but I believe there should be a basic level of order, especially when you know someone is visiting you for the first time. When she came to my place for the first time, I made an effort. I cleaned my house , mopped the floor, arranged the bed, and even bought small things just to make the environment more comfortable. It wasn’t about trying to impress her with money; it was simply intentionality. I wanted her to feel welcomed.

But each time I visited her place, the environment remained the same. One particular day, after she stepped out, I decided to clean the entire house myself just to prove a point. While sweeping, I found sugar inside the couch, rotting cashew scattered around, and several things that clearly caused unpleasant odors. I cleaned the parlour, arranged the bedroom, organized her bags, and put everything in order. When she came back, she thanked me, but I remember telling her that it shouldn’t get to the point where her boyfriend had to clean her entire house before it became livable. I told her clearly that if I visited again and the place was still in that condition, it would probably be the last time I came there.

Unfortunately, nothing changed. On another visit, the smell in the house was so terrible that I kept trying to trace where it was coming from. Eventually, I discovered a sack beside the couch she had been sitting on. Something inside it had gone bad, and the odor was unbearable. I carried it outside myself because I couldn’t understand how someone could stay in that environment comfortably. Later, when she went to make yam and eggs, I followed her into the kitchen and found another terrible smell coming from plates that had clearly been sitting there for days. Instead of cleaning the sink first, she simply pushed the dirty dishes aside and placed the yam directly on the dirty sink to peel it. In that moment, I felt completely traumatized and emotionally checked out.

Beyond cleanliness, I also started feeling unappreciated in the relationship. On her birthday, I called her early in the morning, posted her on my WhatsApp status, and celebrated her the best way I could at the time, even though I was broke. Yet she still complained that I didn’t make her birthday special enough. Meanwhile, on my own birthday, there was no call in the morning, no thoughtful gesture, nothing until later at night when she casually said she forgot because she had been going through a lot. What hurt me more was that I had actually bought her gifts for her birthday, including a designer bag and matching slippers I personally made for her. It wasn’t really about material things; it was the imbalance in effort and thoughtfulness.

I also noticed the same imbalance in everyday life. Whenever she visited my place, I was usually the one cooking, cleaning, and taking care of things even while working from home as a shoemaker. Most times she would just sit pressing her phone while I handled everything. She barely cooked for me throughout the relationship, and eventually I stopped going out of my way because I started feeling taken for granted.

Money became another issue. She would borrow money and either delay repayment or never complete it. As a shoemaker, the money I receive for jobs is not pure profit because most of it goes back into materials and production. Yet I still found myself lending her large amounts from jobs I was supposed to complete quickly. Even when she paid back partially, it felt emotionless, almost like she didn’t recognize the inconvenience it caused me.

The final straw happened recently when she visited me during a very busy work period. She suggested we spend the night in a hotel even though my house was already comfortable, and I agreed. I paid for the room, and when food was ordered later that night, I still ended up paying almost everything despite already spending heavily on the hotel. The next day, after returning from the market exhausted from buying materials for work, I expected to at least meet food at home since all the ingredients were available. Instead, I walked into a kitchen with bread wrappers and milk sachets scattered around while she had already eaten without cleaning up after herself. I still ended up cooking for myself.

The following morning, after she made food during the night, she left the kitchen in complete disorder again. Pots, plates, and leftovers were everywhere while I woke up early to continue working. Rather than cleaning up, she sat watching TikTok videos. Eventually I had to pause my own work to clean the kitchen myself because I couldn’t stand the environment anymore. At that point, I realized I was mentally exhausted.

What made everything clearer for me was understanding that this wasn’t just about dirt or money. It was about incompatibility. I realized I was constantly carrying responsibilities that should have been shared. I’m not against people hiring cleaners or getting help. I also take some of my clothes to dry cleaners. But there’s a difference between getting assistance and being unable to handle basic responsibilities yourself. If someone who is meant to clean your house doesn’t show up, there should still be a basic ability to sweep, organize, remove trash, and maintain a healthy environment. I couldn’t understand depending entirely on other people for something so fundamental.

At some point, I stopped seeing peace in the relationship. I started feeling drained instead of supported. Even during intimate moments, she would make comments like, “If you leave me, I will haunt you,” and although she may not have meant it literally, those kinds of statements only made me more uncomfortable emotionally.

Eventually, I accepted the truth that we are simply not compatible. I don’t hate her, and I’m not trying to paint myself as perfect. I just know that I can no longer continue in a relationship where I constantly feel emotionally exhausted, unappreciated, and burdened. I’ve reached a point where I no longer want to argue, explain, or force things to work. I’ve already made up my mind that the relationship is over, and at this point, I just want to walk away peacefully and move on with my life.

What do you think? Be nice please

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Bro, you deserve better, don't continue to let her put you under the bus with her lack of home training, someone like that can't keep a home not to talk of when she start giving birth,it will even be worse..

Walk out from that relationship with boldness..


One of the reason I made sure I married my wife, omo that woman too clean mehhhnn, my kids, you will think they are born and brought up from abroad, my home is always clean, and my wife is from a village in Oyo state ooo...


Lastly, you write and communicate awesomely 👌

SixSeven:
No, I want him to answer the question. Last year he got for 500k each. This year, we are dividing it. He himself has been to the market to price and all comments above have not said any ram they've seen is 200k+

Ok, hoping he respond

LordBiden:
What kind of bullshit post is this?

You earn 1m monthly and still don't have up to 3m in savings?

Somthing is wrong with the guy, may be his wife is a full time house wife..

Why would you be earning 1m monthly and you dont have a land to your name, may be he wants to buy land in Lagos, when he can always buy like 5plot in Ogun state and keep for future..

Some people ehn

SixSeven:
2024: I bought 2 rams for 300k each
2025: I bought 3 rams for 500k each
2026: I bought 3 rams for 800k each

Please confirm I am correct

I also want to know the 2023 price

Not each, he bought the 3 rams for 800k..

So divide 800k by 3, thats how much he got them