4stylz:
Some girls will advice you to leave but sometimes it might just be that your guy loves you too much, there are some people who can't handle arguments for too long and they tend to use every means and push for a makeup. He might just be that guy, just tell him to stop it, you guys will work it out.

If you are looking for a perfect relationship, there is nothing like that

Rubbish, i don't understand why some peoples mentality and opinion of love is very low, how can a man claim to love u too much yet treats you like shit. does he do that to any of his friend on social media. so if a man slaps/beats or kills you, your like will say he loves you too much that is his way of showing his love. better upgrade your thinking.

having said that, to the poster my advice is that you end the relationship because it will only get worse in marriage take it from me, if he did it not once, twice but 5 times in 5 months it's a glaring sign that he has conflict resolution issues. look out for how a guy maturely handles resolution of misunderstanding. he can only go this far in deeting you on social media because that is as far as he can go for now but the moment you enter his house i can bet you he will go further in dealing with you when you have a misunderstanding than just social media.
read books and meet matured married couples whose life are exemplenary for counselling so that naivety will not let you make a mistake in marriage.

sorry about it, but from all indications you should have seen the handwriting on the wall. You probably decided to overlook it. next time make it legal and don't show you are too desperate. also if possible have a time period of collecting your commission in instalmentals so that when the deal is eventually closed the payment left will remain a small balance.

your uncle only realized what he lost and your aunts maturity after she died, cause according to him even when she told him she caught him after 3 months he was only remorseful for being caught but not repentant because he didn't stop.

lesson: your aunt was too weak to confront/ stand up against his cheating or walk away.
there is no reward for being a martyr to a cheating husband, rather the reward is high blood pressure, depression, in some cases madness, loveless marriage, infection with STD, HIV ETC. who knows which of these killed her.

maturity/wisdom is when the woman finds out her husband is cheating and protects herself from getting infected, she can still show him love but must not be an enabler to the man by keeping quiet and turning a blind eye, there is no crime in seeking for help or intervention from elders, parents, pastors, counselors to caution him. if he still doesn't respect her enough to change then she should be strong enough to walk away. she would be better off, happier, still be alive for the sake of her children.

if a man doesn't deserve you then he is not worth sacrificing your life for.