₦airaland Forum

Hisbah is muslim member-only group.
SE and SS would soon organize theirs.
Theirs would likely be Church certificates.
Nice.

KingEzo:
Hello Nairalander,

please I need your advice. I am 31 years and my fiancee is 29 years and we have been dating for the past four years.

She discovered that she's pregnant on new year's eve. We discussed the issue throughout the new year and we agreed to keep the pregnancy that she's going to write her nursing Council exam later. I told her that she should give me some time so that I can go and discuss with my parents and organize introduction then do the engagement in a little way but she said her mom won't be happy with her that she needs to do big wedding because she's the first child of her mom.

She later told me that she's going to inform her parents before taking any step. To my surprise she called me this evening that she is going to terminate the pregnancy because her family has been raining insults on her since she got home.

She said her grandma is even coming to the city with her so that she can terminate the baby. But I told her that I didn't support it that I can't terminate pregnancy, I told her that she can write the council exam after delivery but she insisted.

Sir-Ma should I support this their action?

Interesting

If she does the abortion, it is her decision, you have to take your decision.

oloriLFC:
That's not true. My son is 14 years, haven't seen his dad since he was 9 and I don't contact him too. He is not doing anything for the boy despite the fact that my family didn't put any pressure on him. I am happy with my man and our son now and I hope we last forever. I dont have any cause to be in contact with my ex. He is past tense

Interesting.

Well, I just opened nairaland, found your post on my mention.

Lady, you are doing your best, your son is 14(according to you), he would not tell you what his thoughts are of his biological father.

To you he is past tense, it may not be to him. In his quiet time, he would remember of experiences with him.

In your home, instances would trigger thoughts of him. He may even search his name of FB or other social media.

In school, statements from fellow pupils or teachers would also trigger thoughts of him.

Always include him in every family fun time or discussion, as encourage your man to fully accept him as his own.

It's not easy for a man to fully accept over a number of years.

Do not marry single mothers. She would always be in communication with the father of her child. Same as the single fathers.

Comedy Central, kindly look into this man's job application.
LOL!

LOL!

Interesting

Ma'am, if this post of yours is true, you've dug for yourself(including "your guy" ) a grave of evil consequences.

You have to cry to God to make your sister have a heart of flesh(receptive) to all you would have to say to her.

It is a must you speak and sincerely beg for her forgiveness, because if you don't, you and your child would suffer a lot for what you've done.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

I'm trying not to laugh. They better not flex unseen muscle to Turkey.
LOL

The Governors on this issue are sycophants...all talk, no action.
Gani Adams, sir, secure those whom you can. They would all bear the consequences.
LOL

Awesome!!

The groom's family were in attendance, that's a plus; they are in fully support.

Bride and Groom, congratulations, have a joyful marriage

Governor with Islamist (extremist) practice

Difference in dressing...Yemi dressed better

If true, then Diplomatic channels did light up this regime, so it had to obey. Though, the administration used the excuse of court order to cover up.

Sokon kano, you are a 'funny man'. You boldly insulted Emir at a public event, then the next day, you come work as a Palace guard of the Emir you insulted.
'Sokon Kano' you are indeed a 'funny man'.

Mine is apply white powder until after WAEC exams. She can wear 4 inch shoes from age of 10(to get more comfy with them early).
It saddens me when i see girls of 8 years with makeup. A few occasions a 5 year old with makeup; i had to smh.
Parents(especially mothers) should be careful on makeup of their daughters.

Interesting
As regards ATM Withdrawal, it's 65 naira for the first three in a month, then 35 naira from the fourth withdrawal.
It makes no sense.

Then do so, not excuses. We would look forward to your years to come. Another governor would reverse it, may be then send EFCC and ICPC to investigate you.

Impeachment vote would likely be around 00:30 to 01:00 Nigerian time

goldenpenny2:
Fellow N/Landers

The future is unpredictable but nobody is praying for bad thing. This question have been bothering me for long. I thought it wise to it with good people of Nairaland and seeking for helpful advice.

As a man, is it advisable to marry the lady who loves you more than you love her?

please advice

YES

linearity:
Much ado about nothing!

Keep blowing empty air!

There is no scriptural backing or example to the nonsense you just spoil out there, that the Pastor must be in the know!

In fact, there is no scriptural backing or example for church wedding; the Bible only supports traditional wedding & parental consents and guy stated that, the girl’s parents are aware, which is inline with the scriptures.

The Pastor should have removed his over blown ego from the matter, if that was truly a Church, it therefore means that, it belongs to God and not the Pastor and the guy is permitted to do his engagement before God....Eli in the Bible did not poke nose into Samuel’s affairs with God.

Be careful what you say or type. Weddings were done in Synagogue(a place of worship).

It is one thing to get power(whether by intimidation or rightly), it's another to apply it.
In this Ganduje may not apply it, because the consequence would befall him after his tenure without mercy.

LOL!!!

dalass:
Okay. You want detailed and precise info so that Buhari can use DSS or EFCC to spoil their business abi?

What they do is not journalism, they avoid the truth, sugarcoat serious challenges and trumpet any little government does as major while its not.

Godwin2am:
channel TV is partial in their broadcasting, they don't give out all the details in the news, one have to dig harder in other platforms to get the correct cause of an event. they should some political class of people from the news so we don't know or hear about them. they don't play musical video on their tv. Arise TV and other foreign TV platform do give us precise real information

Channels TV have been partial for a long while, no details in news updates.

Interesting
TVC and Channels TV are APC(Government) TV; an extension of NTA.

Good news for importers. Logistical costs minimized for goods en route to SouthEastern and South-Southern Nigeria.

Nice.
In addition to "Major General", include "regime"

Mr Garba, is this statement from Major General Buhari or Mamman Duara?

General Buhari
Buhari regime

My post in 2015, among others,

Xano:
Page saved. Youths don't ask elderly people the truth of past years. They(youth) support blindly and refuse to know the truth. I've asked and heard what he(Buhari) did when in authority, also what he said which incited violence in the north. Thank you for this post. The truth will always be revealed.

Truth always prevail.
We need to stand so our children can walk...

Major General Buhari
Buhari regime.
I concur, as such, would join you to address him as so.

Sycophants in Buhari regime