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PuZZyNegro:
Ask medical practitioners... Ask chatgpt... Ask Google.

The scan result is always plus or minus two weeks, because it starts counting from the last menstrual cycle.

But how sure are you about this please

Openair:
Please don't say what you don't know..ultrasound scan in the first trimester (1-13 weeks) is the MOST ACCURATE method for dating pregnancy.

This is also what I heard from a doctor friend I went to ask

Fekumzi123:
Those people can manipulate ooo.
Just use brain for the matter, she can threaten with divorce and still be lieing .
There's this case on Facebook, the boy has finished service before his real father came for him all the way from Liberia and yet the woman is still denying even after two DNA tests.
Last last, she still accept.

Wow what a crazy world we are in

Fekumzi123:
That child is not yours.
Women can swear by anything and even cry if you did not catch them red-handed.
Women can lie and she will never give In.

Can you afford DNA test after delivery? Tell her .

If you leave them for too long like 1week, there's a possibility of another man giving her doggy before you return. So sorry, but it's life.

For now I can’t afford the dna and she’s already threatening with divorce instead of being sober and trying to make me see reasons why the preg is mine

Baronthecelebri:
Divorce her ASAP

She actually is threatening me with divorce now she said if I don’t trust her enough then I should divorce her with the pregnancy

Zaheertyler:
If you’re the father you have spoilt your marriage already
If you’re not marriage still spoil
You should have been patient

Please I want you to explain how I spoilt my marriage

Fekumzi123:
That child is not yours.
Women can swear by anything and even cry if you did not catch them red-handed.
Women can lie and she will never give In.

Can you afford DNA test after delivery? Tell her .

If you leave them for too long like 1week, there's a possibility of another man giving her doggy before you return. So sorry, but it's life.

That is just my fear because she tends to love sex and I don’t know if it’s normal

Baronthecelebri:
Divorce her ASAP

Please do you read about my first post here when I noticed how everything started

Bukola94:
She is being real with you, so you want her to be pretending

Well you may be right on that but I don’t think it’s actually the real thing

Jozilinn:
Hmm breathe relax and just try your possible best to avoid overthinking.
Now no matter the issue involved l don't think anyone would be wise enough to have a relationship with a married woman when her husband is within his reach.

What would make her cheat,the high libido might be from pregnancy hormones too,if you have doubts confront the guy and ask him what's going on? No fights just talks okay everyone deserves a benefit of doubt,I can see some comments about you still doing DNA or something else someone mentioned try and get it done.
Why would your virgin wife choose another man's sperm to fertilize her for her first baby? Why?
Please just breathe I think you might be overacting though wait till the baby is born hmm.

She changed when I brought her to Lagos she was never like this when I met her because I met her when she was still schooling

Esthered:
You're thinking the worst and that's the only advice I can give as your mind is fixed.

Sometimes I feel like my mind is been manipulated I just don’t know or maybe because of what happened last that’s making me feel this way

Rexymania:
My prayers is for you not to father bastards 😂😂😂
You duh enter o e chance with that woman.
Wait for her to put to bed and conduct a DNA test. I can't tell a grown man like you what to do na. I have 2 boys btw.

Did you read about what happened last between us in my previous post

Rexymania:
Tell me street wey virgins dey run men o....bcus I marry my wife Virgin

Some are true while some are just something else waiting to be unleashed but above all it all depends on the personality of the person

Dyfynezz12:
Why not wait till when she gives birth then u run a DNA test,seems u re rushing things too much nd might disgrace both urself nd ur wife

She knows my business is not going well for now and so she is so sure I can’t afford the dna which is what is giving me concern

samwash:
How come a virgin is pregnant.
I thought virgin knows no man.

Please read my previous post to understand what I am talking about

Cerebellum:
Are you very sure she was virgin??
Girls dey run scam o, tighten laps and virg!na wall during period o bro!
When I read your story it was obvious the guy was Bleep!Ng your wife and pls stop "we promised not involved third party", yous family
It's irritating my eyes, be a man!

She is a virgin and the part that scares me the most is how she suddenly became addicted to sex and even sometimes she jokingly tells me my d**k is not big enough and I don’t satisfy her and we will jokingly laugh it out

Felimax:
I will spare you cos you plead not to be insulted.
Oga I beg you carry your wife enter house. When una don read rubbish online finish una go start to build skyscrapers for una head.

Scan cannot tell you the day you made love to your wife and get her pregnant. You hear me.

If her libido is high and you know that is even good for you. Don't you think so?

She is 2 months pregnant and I came back from work a month and 3 weeks which was when we had sex so how come the pregnancy is 2 months already when I have not stayed up to 2 months in the house

correctyourself:
Stop been confused, if you can afford the test do it now, it's still ok.

The most important thing is to clear your doubt so that you can prepare to father the child.

She knows my work is not so solid now and I feel she knows I can’t afford the dna for now which is why she is trying to make me accept anything knowing fully well I can’t do anything about it for now

Esthered:
Save up for a paternity test upon delivery. Congratulations in advance.

I really didn’t prepare for something like this and that’s why I am pained honestly

[quote author=franugo post=136590990]It's clear you don't trust her. Your actions will only serve to drive a wedge between you two, let her breathe, you cannot regulate who she talks to, she's not a child [/quote

AllBlack:
You keep brand new virgin nympho for house and you are marking sex calendar for her with excuses of being busy now smoke is coming out of your ears. You do well.

Is this what you want to go and tell her family? you want to go there and be explaining your sexual TIMETABLE to the whole community. 😂😁

Please your advice will be much appreciated at this time

Samantha125:
What if the child is his? What then? Do you think she'll ever forgive him?

He should just free the woman from that prison he calls marriage and let her go and find a man with no insecurities.

But now this is what I fear because I don’t want to hurt her by over reacting

Esthered:
Did you ask an experienced person to help you calculate before making these assumptions?
You didn't say if the messages you saw on her phone showed evidences of her cheating. She only disobeyed you and was still chatting with the person.
The foundation of marriage is trust and if it's not there, it can rarely stand firm and even if it does it's because one party is still tolerating the other person till they've had enough to leave.

I never said I didn’t trust my wife if it was her previous act that brought about all of this if you check my previous post you will see what I caught her doing and that’s what prompted all of this

AkhereOkaka:
My candid advice, tell her after the birth of the child you're going to get DNA done on the child. Inform her family too and the reason you insist on it. If the child happens not to be yours she and her family will refund the amount you spent on anti natal including drugs bought. Note the DNA will be done before leaving the hospital.

We rise by lifting others

I am just managing my life I don’t really think I can afford a dna test and that is why it’s breaking my heart and she has sworn that she has never cheated on me and I’m still thinking if I am over reacting to this

Esthered:
I agree that he complained about her but then let him calm down and calculate correctly, work back to their last encounter....before making assumptions that may destroy the marriage.

Thanks for your contribution but I was adviced on this forum not to involve our parents here and I followed that and now this is happening and I am lost and don’t know what to do at this point

Openair:
Op, you can determine the paternity of a child during pregnancy, it's called non-invasive prenatal paternity test (NIPP). Clinics do it in Nigeria. If you're in Lagos, check smartdna clinic online. They have clinics in couple of places here.
Just do NIPP and rest, you go know if na you get pikin or not.
Don't wait till the child is born, do it now.. imagine paying hospital bills and all, what if e no be your own ??

That’s my fear because I don’t want to be fooled at the end of the day but I’m confused

jmoore:
I will still marry a virgin.

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Paternity test, not scan.

They are good but it all depends on the individual as I am speaking my own life experience

jmoore:
I will still marry a virgin.

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Paternity test, not scan.

They are good

Samantha125:
Firstly, you said you don't want her giving out her number regardless of who the person is, so she's not supposed to have anyone else's contact details except for yours... Then secondly, you said her high libido is your greatest insecurity.

Clearly you're the problem here, free that woman from that prison you call a marriage... Is she your wife or your slave that you want to control her every movement? It's not her fault that you're insecured due to your low libido.

Thanks for your contribution but i don’t maltreat my wife or treat her bad in anyway just that the problem started from when she started associating herself with people on the street which I don’t really like and if you read my previous post I explained what happened in there so I think you should check my previous post before you judge me please

Good day everyone, please I will be as brief as possible on this. After my first post here on naira land I was adviced by members of this forum never to bring my family predicament on the internet space as I would not get answer or solution to my problem. Well I made a complain here about my virgin wife who I caught coming back from God knows where with a guy that sells thrift in my area because I went for outside work but unfortunately the work didn’t hold so I had to come back home unexpectedly. My wife denied having an affair with this guy and even swore on her late father grave that she never had anything to do with this guy and that the guy only escorted her from where she went to buy something that evening. Now here comes the big problem as my wife is pregnant and and we went for scan and the date of the pregnancy didn’t match with the last time we had sex because I am a very busy person and I go outside for work. I am confronting my wife now and begging her to tell me who is responsible for this pregnancy but she insisted I am responsible and she has never cheated on me, I didn’t want to take the matter to the village because I was advised not to involve her family members in our relationship for now but honestly I don’t think I can hold it anymore I really love my wife and I don’t know if I am overthinking things or I am doing too much on this. Some weeks ago when she was bathing I quickly went through her phone and I saw a number not saved in her WhatsApp and I went through the conversation and I found out it was a guy she was talking with and this is same girl I have warned never to give her number to anyone I don’t care who the person is but she always have a way of making me feel like I am too in-secured and I end up apologizing to her because I married her a virgin but her high sexual libido is my greatest insecurity as I feel like I might not be enough for her and maybe she might be doing things at my absent as the pregnancy date isn’t matching when last we had sex . Please I need sincere advice on how to go about this issue and please I don’t want insult or abuse as I am not in a right state of mind now.
Help me move to front page so more people can help me contribute to this so I get good and matured answers.

Dzzzz:
You're wrong to seize her phone cause it has no meaning,have you checked to see if there’s any hidden details?..You also must go confront the trader and if possible give him the warning of his life..If you don’t stamp your authority on your wife,she will do it again..She’s seeing the guy behind your back and it’s been happening everytime you travel..

I am thinking of confronting the trader but I don’t want to look immature by doing that because my wife is an adult too

kenn4rill:
Your problem is the you over magnified her virginity and you have been caged mentally by that but...it's unfortunate your wife is gone because she has tasted the street and her life will never remain the same.
Just check her phone and see what will kill you before your time.
That's life bro.... virginity is not the ultimate.
Be wise

I really do love my wife and I prayed before I got married to her so I see nothing bad in magnifying the woman in my life