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trytillmake:
But seriously is that laziness or there is no one to look after her while yr wife is bating, she can simply play in the room.... i think its rubbish

Thanks for your contribution but she’s already used to it now

osuofia2:
Ask yourself , if it's your son, can you bathe with him. Your answer you seek lies here.
Na so gay stuff de start

Hmmn but people here are saying it doesn’t matter that my daughter is still a baby

ceejay80s:
it doesn't matter,
Ur daughter is still a baby

Yes I know she’s still a baby but right now she cries whenever her mum doesn’t bath with her

HenryStarlife:
Your comment is contradictory.

Yes it is because how can you go topless but can’t go pantless is your breast not part of private part

risos:
Early morning like this, you sef go baf with ya son, make una two carry gbola dey waka for the whole house

Please u really need serious answers to this cos I’m planning on stopping it but I don’t want to look like I’m over reacting

Guys please is it okay for my wife to bath together with my 4 year old daughter because now my daughter is getting used to bathing with her mother so I want to know if this is okay or I should correct it immediately.

Please help move to front page to get wider view on this

Well I am telling you that barbing of children’s hair is old fashioned as new generation mum don’t do that and the child’s hair still grow healthy with proper care and use of natural remedies.

Kindly visit the YouTube page of fahvies hairven and you’ll see for yourself what I’m talking about. My regards to cute baby light.

RevenuesBoost:
That's how my hair was when I was a baby.
She's re-living my babyhood.

Now I have the longest hair.
I even make contents on it.

Here's one you need to watch.
I don't use products on my hair, it grows naturally and beautifully.
👇👇👇

https://youtube.com/shorts/lssZT-YxVbk?si=uwsJrLGdNyirW09j


So, Baby Light will still have hair.
Relax

All I have to do is cut off the first hair and it will start growing.

I just don't want to cut it now, let her not receive so much air into her system since she doesn't like wearing cap yet.

Please follow my wife page on YouTube @ fahvies hairven so you can see natural things to use to grow baby light hair without having to barb the hair

mobf:
M.I - Short black boy

IRON LADY BY CKOLTURE

Very intonational song and you’ll know the value of the women when you listen to it

Samantha125:
Okay, if you say.

Thanks for your concern

Samantha125:
Still, that living arrangement is not conducive for her... What happens when you want to take your bath? Do you send her out as well?

In other countries, the court would've never granted you custody of her... She's better off with her maternal grandmother, soon enough, you'll be bringing in another woman into her life who'll probably be ill treating her... Her grandmother only allowed you to take her due to the hardships at home, but I'm sure she wouldn't mind taking her back given that you'll still financially support her until she's old enough to move back in with you when you'd have gotten yourself another place.

Well for now I’m not planning on bringing any other woman as I am focused on giving my self and my daughter a good life. I feel she’s more safe and better with me than any other person.

Samantha125:
Until your condition has improved, let her stay with her grandparents, unless if her grandmother is old and frail.

Well I don’t think that’s necessary now since the grand mother accepted to give her to me so I think this will make me have some sense of responsibilities too and also to step up my game in hustling.

Samantha125:
You can send them money for her upkeep while keeping in touch and visiting her until she's old enough to come and live with you... And if you don't trust them with your money, make a list of all her monthly essentials, buy them, and deliver them to her grandparents place on a monthly basis.

Because this living arrangement of yours is not conducive for that child, what will then happen when you start seeing someone? Will you always send her out whenever you have to do your business with the lady?

I won’t always remain in this condition my dear so I believe with time everything will fall in place

Samantha125:
The husband of my aunt's friend used to do the same thing until their daughter started telling anyone who cared to listen about how her father has tail between his legs that is bigger than that of her brother.

And why are you having custody of your 4 years old daughter when her mother is still alive? At that age, she needs her mother more than you, she should be just visiting you and not living with you... Take her back to her mother and wait for her until she's old enough to look after herself, then she can come and live with you.

I lost her mother and the parents refused giving me custody not until now because they couldn’t afford to take care of her any longer so it’s better I do it my self

HelenaWills:
Can't you change right from the bathroom or wear a short atleast? Abi which kind compound you dey stay?

Na public settings

frozen70:
That their little brain picks up dirty things quickly because they don't have any responsibility so the brain picks up nonsense things

You are very right on this

lilsmart:
Come ooo you this boy.
Your timeline is contradictory. Or are you posting fictional or misleading stories, possibly for attention, engagement, or trolling. The stories do not align with real world timelines or biological possibilities. really need to Explain this

@Xso666, you need to explain this calculation to us very well. How can your wife be pregnant in September–November, and now in December you have a grown daughter of 4 years who is too attached to her father? This timeline doesn’t make sense. You can’t use our heads to play. Please clarify these contradictions.

The math is not mathing

Yes I already explained it here that I had a daughter when serving and I lost her mum, I wasn’t able to get custody of my child due to I have not balanced yet and so when I got balanced my wife which has just left me now to return back to her family house refused me bringing my daughter to stay with us, but now that she has left me I went to bring my daughter to live with me as the grand mum doesn’t have anything doing and i feel it’s right time for my daughter to come to the city and have a good life with me.

[quote author=frozen70 post=137778018]Of what benefits is your unclothedness to her

Pls send her out anytime you want to change

Once she starts seeing your unclothedness the devil will advice her on what to do with it

So when she gets in contact with a bad guy using it on get will be easy because she has seen it in you and may accept it on her by another





Thanks for this, though she’s just 4 so I sometimes think she’s just a baby and will definitely forget all of this when she grows up

Kobojunkie:
She is not too clingy. You probably abandoned her somewhere where she has been living anxious and rejected until you came back to get her. At that age, she is probably fearful you will abandon her again like you did before. Did you at least abandon her with her mother before now?

Anyways, you are a human being and can learn to take a shower and change your clothing after the child has fallen asleep or is temporarily distracted.

Thank you for the advice kobo

Mindlog:
You are trolling and you know this.

Same you that posted you got married to your virgin wife in 2024 and her being pregnant as of last month, November and how you posted she had been denying you sex, making you resort to masturbation, how did a 4 year old daughter come into the picture and living alone with her one room?

I had a daughter when I was serving in Akwa ibom but I lost the mum and I have been fighting for custody of my daughter and I just got it due to my wife had to leave me to her families house due to I am having some business backlogs and things aren’t going on smoothly for now so I had to Man up and bring my daughter to the city so she’s all I got now and that doesn’t mean I wouldn’t get married if I see a genuine and sincere woman because I need companion and there’s nothing sweet about being single.

Drifter02:
Although I'm afraid I might die alone, nonetheless I still have to admit being single without any extra responsibilities- no kids, no wife - is one of the best things to keep happening to me.

I was talking to one babe just this evening.. telling her to come, I'll cook her indomie and buy her something soft and babe was smiling coyly and bro.. I was seeing the future and I didn't like it

The future of me getting the girl pregnant filled me with apprehension. Imagine, if the girl's pregnant and I had a kid on the way, I won't have no time for myself anymore, my soft life will no longer be soft, I'll always have to be worried about money, about not losing my job.. my happy life will now be sad and constantly apprehensive and all the ills that comes with having a girl pest on your life..

Omo.. married men, I'd like to say "I feel for you" but na lie.. because asides from enjoying constant puzi you knew what you were getting your asses into.. and I'm so glad I'm not you.. and in any case not all of you have money issues

If your father has this same mentality I’m sure you wouldn’t be alive to enjoy the soft(lonely) life you are enjoying today. Marriage is not just for procreation alone it’s companionship and that’s why you must look right and be careful before choosing your spouse. And as for money it all depends on you because person wey go get money go get either married or single so erase that mindset and kids are extremely fun to have like watching someone grow from toddler to an adult like oneself is something out of this world. Please have a rethink my man.

Double0h7:
She’s not a clingy child, she is a child. You’re basically putting her outside as in the streets per se because you live in a single room. Please up your finances before someone evil traumatises that little girl. Let her stay in the room but teach her to turn around and do whatever she’s doing while you change quickly using a sheet or towel to wrap around your waist. It’s worrisome that something so common sense baffles your brain that you came online to ask if a girl child can see you naked.

Thanks for your contribution but it’s not my fault I find myself in this condition as I am not a lazy person also

Double0h7:
Teach her to turn around and to give you privacy while you change. A four year old understands instructions when explained correctly and firmly.

Most times she’s on her phone watching coco melon but I still end up asking her to go outside and which is why I asked if there’s anyone experiencing this with their clingy daughters

We4all:
There are some questions that you shouldn't be asking. Why should a little girl see her father's unclothedness? Do you want to corrupt her mind at this early age?

That was how a very close relative started. In his case, he is a sexual pervert. He ended up sleeping with his daughters and nothing has happened to him.

In my opinion, if couples are divorced, let the kids remain with their mothers. This should be enforced, especially if the children are girls.

I’m not a pervert and can never sleep with my daughter I only came here to ask fathers and mature minds please no insult

kiddaz:
I get the picture now. One room apartment, public bathroom and toilet. Bro the towel is your best option for now or carry boxers enter the bathroom and as soon as you are done bathing, wear the boxers, enter house and dress up. Most importantly please and please try get a selfcon at least or two rooms in the same public settings. It's well

Oluwa go do am

2mch:
Don’t send your 4yr old outside. There are ways to change clothes or dress without her seeing your unclothedness. Just wear boxers. As long as you wear boxer you are alright. You can tie towel on your waist and use it to wear your boxer before removing the towel.

Exactly what I have been doing because I feel bad when I send her outside the house

HelenaWills:
Can't you change right from the bathroom or wear a short atleast? Abi which kind compound you dey stay?

It’s a public setting but she’s too clingy and I don’t know the best way to go about it and I want to know if it’s bad to change my dress while she’s on the bed watching her phone

brain54:
She doesn't like going out...

SO?

Is the outside unsafe?

You are already starting to fail as a parent. You are already failing to teach your child at a young age that she can't always get what she wants or have her way.



She doesn't like going out but she has to go out anyway.


You have to balance kid's mentality. Some parents still need parenting!

I live alone and In a public setting

Mindlog:
You are trolling and you know this.

Same you that posted you got married to your virgin wife in 2024 and her being pregnant as of last month, November and how you she had been denying you sex, making you resort to masturbation, how did a 4 year old daughter come into the picture and living alone with her one room?

My wife has finally relocated back to stay with her parents and I have gone to bring in my daughter to live with me but I will be telling you guys how it all happened

Hello guys, please I want to know if it’s okay for a daughter to see her fathers unclothedness because she is so attached to me and I take care of her alone so I don’t know if it’s okay for me to change my dress while she is In the room because I do send her out and she doesn’t like going outside to wait due to the nature of my compound, so I need matured advice on this issue and please she’s just 4 years old.

Please help move to front page so I get more opinions on this🙏

PinkNature:
Good day

i’ve had these black dots scattered all over my body since 2019.

it all started when i left home for a new town and i quickly developed these breakouts which since then have refused to clear off. i haven’t taken any serious steps towards them, but rn its getting out of hand.


its also on my neck and on my back too.
ps: i take my hygiene very seriously, bath 2x a day and also change my sheets frequently.

i need help.

Stop taking steroids , that’s a result of steroids abuse. Stop using steroids and watch it all go off

Tonynelson:
Don’t send a woman out with pregnancy, it’s not tradition. When she gives birth, ascertain the paternity of the child, then you know what next to do. Good luck

Thanks for this because I don’t want to act based on emotions and then later get blamed for everything