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Luckystarsssz:
Women marry for different reasons.

Some one you're hitting the pot of good good they'll never want to leave you

For other marriage is for sustainable ( to secure the bag)

I thank God I married a woman that loved me despite my many problems with women.

At least my wife knows I'm a womanizer before we meet.

I don try stop am small sha

Confession time. 🤣😂 . The truth shall set you free.

jmoore:
I don't think all corpers depend on the 77k. Some of them have other source of income and probably come from rich homes. The one in the video was even prevented from driving his car home by other guys because of the heartbreak.

Good clarification

Nazgul:
This is exactly why a lot of guys end up broke and frustrated in this country.

You’re earning 77k as a corper, no stable job yet, no savings, nothing…and your next big plan is to propose to a girl. How do you expect to survive marriage when you haven’t even survived adulthood financially?

He’s still serving, still trying to find his feet, but somehow marriage is already the priority. The way some guys think in this country eh… it’s like they’re determined to stress themselves for no reason.

chill bro ..

SpencerForbes:
Nice one 👍

Back to the guy. The best revenge for breakup is self development. Once a girl leaves you because she wants to ‘level up’ (you won’t blame them, it’s their nature) instead of writing epistles and episodes— let that be a fuel, a motivation.

Pick yourself from the dust and put in more work. Build yourself to the standard whereby she’ll be viewing your status and wants to come back. Every guy has a point in his life where he simps and he’s bound to get hurt but what matters is how he handles it.

Work on yourself bro and you’ll see her trying to come back. And if she tries, block her or revenge (the choice is yours).

Work on your self esteem too. Because with this your write up, If she crawls back, you’ll accept.

Instead of sulking, celebrate the fact the treasure hunter left you early.
That’s why I keep advocating low investment or equal investment in relationships but to all, ‘we’re immature’
The lesser you invest, the chances of avoiding stories like this.

Mature Piece

mascot87:
Wike did not lose. Rule of law lost. Civilian lost against military. This shows that Military can do anything they like and nothing will happen. The Nigerian people lost. Democracy lost.
So tomorrow, military can do anything to Nigerians and nothing will happen.
They can bully anybody and it will be in vain.
Military authority won against Democratic Authority even in the face of military illegality.

Last last, na all of us go collect... If you celebrate this, then you are celebrating future pains that will be meted on you by the military because you cannot escape it

Story story. Uncle tell us another story

kiddaz:
Any female hooked on gym is Sus. Worse off if she disagrees to a home gym lol just know you are f00leesh for marrying a farmtool you should have made a baby mama 😂

😂😂😂😂😂 Nairaland no go kille me with laugh Different lamba e'ry day

SpencerForbes:
Even guys too. I wonder how some men sleep with girls that aren’t physically attractive. How do they look at the girl’s face in the morning

I love physical attraction and I think average looking girls should only be recommended for one night stands

Hahahah Baddest Man.

SpencerForbes:
Moving on is cool, but suppose every sign is pointing to breakup - what is the point of being in a relationship, right?

Unless you are not ready to live with a woman, but if you are going to cohabit, you gotta learn to spot the signs. Some signs mean she wants to leave, some mean she is testing you. If you can read them both, you are above their games, man.

Women are like grown babies - throwing tantrums sometimes. But if you are a solid dude, you laugh it off, do not play into their emotional vibes. Stand above that mess, and she will likely give you respect.

In relationships, respect is way better than love

Bless Up 🤗😊

Sonnobax15:

At least, she's crying inside a Lamborghini . Make she leave us alone wey no get shishi to flex our lives dey go small small inside our Keke with our bannies wey love and cherish us like that....

Bannies wey dey take Jennyclay and her co as role models,na like this Dem take dey end their lives las las

Hard girl my foot

Hahahah my brother.. Na so life be Ooo

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! 🥱🥱

Positioned himself, how? Keep running all over the place with this vague and meaningless bullsheet you lot are notorious for. When you are done, come back and admit that you are the one who has been confused from the start!🙄🙄

Your waiting will be like the second coming of Jesus.I stand firmly by what I said.

Kobojunkie:
Poverty/struggle love is to be blessed for the over 100 million Nigerians existing under abject poverty conditions today. Is that the love you are telling OP about — this selfish and wicked rebooting of struggle on millions just because?

2. If poverty is his history and present, what does it matter what else he imagines is cleaned up?

I guess you confused with what I'm saying.
Once a man has positioned himself all these the Op is saying won't come up...

Kobojunkie:
Like the over 20 million married Nigerian men living in abject poverty today, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

Misery really does love company! 🙄🙄🙄

I guess you writing From experience I doubt if you understand what I wrote there
😂😂😂 Is it your Poverty ...
There's poverty love. ..
That's UCHU. ..😂😂🤣🤣😂😂. I than by what I said.
if a Man is cleaned up the rest his history

Kingogbotor:
To find money...hard...to find true love..hard....To even sleep ...hard

As a man once you arrange and position yourself
Everything will align...

ARISHEM:
This German people still think he needs psychiatric care. If Osama bin Laden happened in London or Germany and he got captured. That is how they will send him there and not think of him as a terrorist

But true true only an insane someone can do what he did ..
You can't be sane and do this ..

Nickisindigo:
Some people do Yahoo to have capital to go into their desired Business

Lol Bad man ..You honestly said the truth.
Go to Alaba phone village
Them plenty there

Sonnobax15:

Apart from politicians and top men of God,the other set of people who are comfortably enjoying their heaven on earth are gym guys .

I must definitely be a gym guy in my next life

Because of Pussy Cat.

If you never baff nothing for you

Kingosytex:
See as singles dey press phone. Nothing beats being someone's spouse, there is so much honour and respect it brings.
Only people who detest taking accountability would think that being married is to be in bondage.

Wisdom is not far from you my bro ..
God bless your new week

Dotherightthing:
He was following the laws of the time. He was doing the right thing based on the law. He had permissions from the authorities to do all he did.

Are you a christian

Alright thanks for making me understand. He persecuted Christians that's why. I love my tradition.

Dotherightthing:
Are you mharrrdh

Paul was NEVER a criminal!!!

Saul killer of Christians . He was a bandit

Kwet:
Tablets and ipads available

Lemme save this here ..I want to buy a tablet..for my son ..next week will come through

focus7:
I like WizKid, but his music is not for me. For me it's Burna Boy.

Respect 🫡

Kobojunkie:
No point for men to engage women at all. These days a man can pretty much work to pay for and raise his own family without a woman in the picture. That should be encouraged.

A man can, in this day and age pay for a surrogate, a nanny, cleaner, tutor, housekeeper, sex provider, cook, mental counselor, personal assistant, laundry service, etc,. All he needs do is work on himself and pay for the peace of mind he needs without a woman needing to be in the picture. So why not encoi that instead? 🥱🥱🥱

Men be extra Extremely careful.. in all thing's. Get the message my bro .

UkoAnnang:


Like the ex-husband man said, she has gotten all that she wanted. She's now and independent woman. There's always a story to cover up when they decided to leave

Men be careful, don't let a woman use you for her personal gain

Lemme add to your Write up.
Men be extra Extremely careful

LegendaryGrafix:
A lot of Nigerians are carrying heavy loads in their hearts, but you will never know because everybody is trying to form strong. Society has trained us like that. No matter how bad it is, you must package.

Someone loses his job, and instead of admitting that he is drowning, he still smiles and says, “God is in control.”

A lady is in a relationship that is crushing her spirit every day, but she does not want to look weak, so she keeps posting fine pictures on Instagram.

A young man is neck-deep in debt, but every Friday he borrows clothes and perfume just to sit at a club where nobody even knows his real name. By Saturday morning, reality is waiting for him again: rice without meat, empty account, landlord still knocking.

This is the life many people are living. Not because they don’t know it is fake, but because society has made it shameful to show weakness. We have turned “packaging” into survival. But deep down, people are breaking.

I once met a guy who said, “Bro, I no fit sleep without drinking. I take alcohol every night, not because I enjoy it, but because it is the only way I can stop thinking.” Imagine how many people are using sex, drugs, alcohol, endless church activities, or even overworking themselves just to run away from their own thoughts.

We are not addressing the pain. We are only covering it up. And covering up never heals anything. It only delays the breakdown.

What I've realized it that ntil you face yourself as you are, nothing will change. No amount of borrowed swag or fake smiles can heal what you refuse to confront. Life is not Nollywood. When you sweep dirt under the carpet, one day the stench will become too strong and everybody will smell it.

So ask yourself,, who exactly are you living for? Society? Strangers online? Neighbours? Or for yourself? Because peace of mind will never come from “what people think.” Peace of mind comes when you can finally look in the mirror and not feel like a fraud.

Sometimes the most courageous thing you can do as a Nigerian is to stop forming, stop pretending and admit: “I need help, I need to start again.” That is where healing begins.

Because the real glow-up is not when you buy a car to pepper people. The real glow-up is when you can sleep at night without noise in your head.

Very informative .Let me save this one. I have lot of folks on this situation .May God help 🙏..

ekineme:
If other nations of the world has toed this path, this fight would have stopped long ago, instead of condemning hamas and asking them to release the hostages, they are busy protesting against Israel.
I kept asking myself what would those countries do differently if there are in Israel position.

💯💯 You are Enlightened.. You interpreted my Thoughts in a simpler way .. .

The Great Emperor Trump has spoken
You guys should Open your eyes 👀👀👀👀

kolente:
PBAT & APC not only diminished Nigeria but have formed a coordinated flair for the manipulation of data, statistics and numbers.

As a well researched statistician and with an econometric background would see the extent of money illusion being branded by the PBAT Administration specifically the Economic Team.

1, When data and statistics favour a particular Government policy like revenues its converted to naira to look like a breakthrough and humongous in volume.

2, Story spinners and self employed Government Publicist like Reno Omokri also employs the method of converting to dollars ($) once data is unfavorable to the PBAT Govt an example is the movement of Nigerian debt from N89trn to N141trn .

3, The External Reserve of $42B being touted by the regime has over 21B as Portfolio Investors funds (Hot money) and whilst the dollar denominated loans and remittances due to the badly battered and devalued naira add-up to the reserve.

4, The GDP Growth rate of 4.2% also being celebrated surged as a result of the rebasing of the GDP whilst lowering the metrics especially food and energy for the new calculation to give a false sense of hope.

You learned. 🤞💯

Goo0dHardDick:
Noticed she didn't mentioned giving to her boyfriend?

Women knows exactly what they're doing. This is exactly why as a man you need to dismantle your pride and ego and allow your girlfriend to invest in that relationship! Women move on easily because they no they invested absolutely nothing in the relationship. Let her invest in the relationship and see if she wouldn't do anything possible to remain in that relationship even if the guy is behaving

more Goo0dHardDick to you ..
Investment centers on returns.