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Can you Eat Raw rice like that ?

ZaraArewa:
Like his commitment level is zero, but he's someone who cares.

Reverse phscology

Mehn Man is Speechless 😶 This one off me .
I'm so sad for the monks.They chose the wrong path..

Jman06:
Stop typing gibberish! Nothing like those girls he broke their hearts coming to hunt him!

Heartbreaks happen both ways! Imagine a situation where all the women start getting hunted by all the guys they broke their hearts and vice versa. Does that make sense to you?

, Maybe I used harsh words. It will definitely go round check yourself ..

Eddodoh:
Seriously, if u ask me about my woman. I will even be confused. I usually ask "which of them". At a time i thought it was a spiritual problem ooo

Hahaha 🤣😂 . You just getting matured.. you becoming a MAN Change is constant. Enjoy your transition...
But honestly those girls you broke their heart you need to clean those energies if not they Will come back to hunt you ..
Keep it clean with honesty.

@Port443 I so much love this Lexus . The car is too notch. ..Class you got here ...❤️❤️❤️❤️
Much love. ...

Peacecore:
Amen oooo🙏
Ohh my God! This is one of the best prayers I have ever gotten from someone that doesn't know me. May you be successful in everything you do. Nairaland is blessed to have people like you.

Thank you brother.. Honestly I was just moved from my heart. ..

Whenever we hear Juju our minds come to something diabolic. Please clarify me on this Juju of a thing... I'm trying to comprehend.
I told a friend of mine Juju is a way of life...
Please I need clarification...

Peacecore:
Yes o
Investors never cry nor give up. I must surely catch them one day buh don't follow me o it's cold out there

You are good guy. . 😀 Thanks for the advice..
Sporty or no sporty you will make it okay ..
God will bless whatever you lay your hands on. .. From today ..... All your heart desires must be Granted..BLESSINGS FOLLOW YOU

Nothing wrong with you bro.. You only realized the life you living isn't favourable.. So just do the opposite of what you have done ..... And you good ..

Peacecore:
I'm an investor nah buh sporty nor gree bring even my capital let alone interest

Investor/ Share holder . Sporty ...😂😂😁😁

The judge might be a victim. Para de the judge body 🤣🤣🤣

obembet:
Nonsense court.. which kind of stupid judgement be this... That's why I don't go for low life guys

👀👀

ERockson:
I won't allow my parents to be buried far away from where we can see them regularly. Some parents are gods.
Some religion people will tell you it's wrong to burry at home but their parents is not buried at the cemetery including their prophets.

Same way you we become after our time on Earth here . We ought to live with all uprightness and honesty.

fuckingAyaya:
After sniffing some grams of crack my guy go climb pulpit begin perform some members go think say na holy spirit them no go know say Oja don burst for the guy head.
Pastor by day, distro by night.

hahaha .You just made me laugh hard. Lol 🤣🤣
Baddt guy ..

guobe:
Lol you too like stories.
Dem full everywhere, some even de nairaland here de read your comments. Lol.

Abeg I de find the. Even on Nairaland..I never see ..🤞😁😁

Holluwhakemmy:
It's well no difference from first bank and gtb they are all the same

Omo How do we secure our funds ..??
This instuitions can't be trusted

Jakumo:
There is wild exultant jubilation all over the land in Nigeria on this glorious day, as this exciting news breaks. Many of us wealth-worshippers had spent sleepless nights wondering whether this billionaire gentleman would upgrade his fleet of private jets by adding another magnificent third bird to the fleet.

Now, at long last, the good news that we had all been awaiting with baited breath has been released, meaning that our worries about there being only two jets in the fleet, can finally be put to rest.

The public can rest assured that no cost has been spared in the purchase of this magnificent flying status symbol, and that only the finest gold plate has been selected by skilled craftsmen to beautify all fixtures aboard this technological wonder, from the flight controls and door handles, right down to the finest details of the cabin décor, including the galley and bathroom sinks, for good measure.

In this day and age, no self-respecting billionaire should settle for traveling first class on any commercial airliner, because such a departure from protocol would mean that a man of great wealth could find himself being photographed lining up among for boarding along with lowly peasants who make up the rabble of society. By acquiring a third jet, of which an additional four luxury airplanes MUST be added as soon as possible, observers can rest assured that the natural order of things has been preserved, with the optimistic expectation that eventually, a separate jet will be on standby for travel every single say of the week, Sunday included.

God bless Antarctica.

🤞🤞👍👍🤞🙌🙌🙌 Cool... You go Sabi write Ielts...

muyico:
oh most horror moment for yinka, if he eventually escape this, never in his life, will he invite lady to his lodge

😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😁😁 Obirin 😂

Wizardslayer:
Our ancestors were right to give up their daughters in marriage at tender age, to prevent her from getting morally bankrupt.

These days our parents send their daughters to schools to perfect and learn the art of prostitution.

Wizardslayer the gods are wise. Wiser than us.

Therock5555:
Since I entered enforced celibacy by circumstances, my head just clear.....


All I dey reason now na; Money... MOney... MONey....



Thank you Lord .. 🙏🙏

Na money remain bro.. E go come.

femi4:
It takes 2 to tango....men n women go through sexual temptation

Hu(man)ity. I understand you bro.. . I'm just being masculine..

imsoftcash:
Most Men Fail In Life For Chasing Women, And Most Women Fail In Life For Depending Solely On Men.

The reality is, don't chase a woman, don’t depend solely on men, don't spend carelessly on them, and don’t throw your life fully out on a man/woman trying to prove your love to them. You may fail in life for consistently chasing them

You see, most men fail because they chase women instead of building something that women want to chase
While most women fail in life for fully depend on men, forgetting they too can build up their own life and strive.

My message goes to both the man and the woman. Learn to invest in yourself. Build, don't chase, don’t struggle to prove anything to anybody.

Once you are able to build yourself as a man, as a woman, only then will you see how great a number of women, a great number of men will be the ones chasing you. I mean the right and attractive ones in line with your personality

Live life for life is for the living, Live well by investing heavily in yourself, in your family and that of your business/career 
Is a beautiful weekend here, and we're all at #nlsoft publishers worldsocio.com and owners nairalearn.com Wish You All The Best.This

Weekend Have To OFFER.

We Thank God

I appreciate this Write Up ..
Thank You for Being part of Truth

Felimax:
I beg disregard all these unfortunate motivational speakers. Shishi that one nor get.

I paid my girl's bills through school and ended up marrying her a virgin. My boss and management almost killed me that she will drop me half way but I told them it's a mission I must accomplish.

Today I am eating deep into her account anytime I want to. Men with very thin wisdom will be capping rubbish.

The next best thing a man should learn is how a woman's mind is wired and how they think once you are able to get that you see them work as you think.

Respect 🤞❤️❤️

PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *23rd August 2025*

Topic: Sexual Temptation Is Everywhere, But...

Scripture:
I Corinthians 10:12 - Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall.

*THE PURE WORD*

Sexual temptation is everywhere - in the entertainment industry, in the sporting world, in the workplace, in universities, in religious institutions, in your street, etc. But the Holy Spirit has the power to do all things (and to make us be and do all things too).

The Holy Spirit is a Revealator. He knows if that movie you're planning to watch has a scene that can defile your imagination and make you do something stupid. He knows if that guy/lady can lure you into tasting an immoral sexual pleasure if you hang out with them. He knows if that website has an ad that contains immoral pictures.

He knows of your colleague at work who has been devising ways to tempt you into an immoral affair. When you are closely knitted with Him, He shares these things with you as well as guides you on how to deal with them.

Jude 1:24-25 -‬
Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy, [25] to the only wise God our Saviour, be glory and majesty, dominion and power, both now and ever. Amen.

*Confession:*

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

See how men avoid this Wonderful Piece..
God give us the power to resist Sexual temptations (Killer of men)

Kalatium:
This thread my generate somw controversies.

A lot of guys brag about how they’re “winning” because they maintain a girlfriend with ₦7
50k–₦100k monthly instead of spending money on casual flings. On the surface, it looks smart—more sex, more companionship, less cost.

But let’s be honest: when you scratch deeper, the economics of relationships tell a different story. In reality, casual flings often turn out cheaper, smarter, and more peaceful for men in the long run.

1. The Hidden Cost of Girlfriends

Most men only calculate the “visible” costs—monthly upkeep, data, wigs, dates, food, and gifts. But that’s just the entry fee.

The hidden taxes include:

Endless emergencies (family bills, rent balance, “I’m sick” calls).

Pressure to marry early.

Birthday surprises, Valentine’s Day, anniversary spending.

Emotional blackmail when you fail to “deliver.”

By the time you add all that, you’re not just spending ₦80k. You’re running into hundreds of thousands yearly, and for what? For someone you may not even end up with.

2. Casual Flings Save You Time and Freedom

Girlfriends = obligations.
Good morning texts, calls, weekend visits, and drama management. It’s not just money—it’s time and mental bandwidth.

Casual flings = clean, straightforward arrangements. You get what you want, no obligations, no emotional investment. After the moment, everybody moves on.

For a man building his career or hustle, time is wealth. And flings don’t tax you of that.

3. Casual Flings Eliminate Drama

Let’s be real. Most men aren’t financially drained by women—they’re emotionally drained.

With a girlfriend, there’s suspicion, jealousy, fights over who liked whose post, entitlement, and manipulation.

With casual flings? None of that. No “Who were you with last night?” No mood swings. No guilt trips. Just clarity. You pay with presence, enjoy, and go.

4. Cost Control Is Clearer With Flings

Girlfriends are like subscriptions—you can’t just cancel. Even when you’re broke, you’re expected to provide. Stop providing, and the relationship collapses.

Flings? Pure pay-as-you-go. You decide when, where, and how often. If you don’t have the energy or the funds, you pause. No pressure. No guilt.

5. Flings Protect Your Future

Many guys waste their best building years funding girlfriends—buying them gadgets, hair, or paying “urgent 2k”—instead of investing or saving.

Flings give you intimacy without the life plan tax. You can focus on building your foundation while still enjoying regular stress relief.

6. The Health Angle: Safer Than You Think

Some say girlfriends are safer. But let’s not deceive ourselves—plenty of girlfriends cheat too. The “exclusivity” illusion doesn’t mean safety.

With flings, at least you know what it is. You protect yourself, manage risk, and keep your emotions intact. With girlfriends, betrayal usually blindsides you—hurting both your heart and your wallet.


Casual Flings Are Cleaner, Cheaper, Smarter

When you count the hidden financial, emotional, and time costs of girlfriends, flings actually win in the long run.

Yes, a girlfriend may look cheaper month-to-month, but the long-term tax—upkeep, expectations, nagging, marriage pressure—far outweighs the straightforward arrangement of flings.

So the real question isn’t, “How much am I spending on sex?” It’s, “How much am I losing in time, money, and peace by carrying relationship baggage I can’t afford?”

Think about it.

Forum Question:
Guys, what do you think? Is maintaining a girlfriend really cheaper than casual flings, or are flings the smarter path for men who value freedom and focus?


Cc Dominique seun nlfpmod

You didn't talk about the Effects 🤣🤣😂 Casual flings to STis , HIVs ,Aids, Syphilis, Goncacus 🤣. And the list goes on ... Spending on a Girl friend or fling I see no difference.. I only see weak men analysing such. As a man if you wanna venture in women things be emotional Intelligent... Guard yourself spiritually ,financially and materially and be ready for anything. ...

Nonexisting1:
When I say most of them are badluck and hinderances to men's prosperity, people don't believe me.

The pussy cat of a woman is a sacred hole that leads to life or death Choose your path wisely

At least he said his mind. . A typical Nigerian mentality .. you can check crime section on Nairaland..

Tenrack:
just approach her with friendly vibes and tell her that you want to be friends with her. Then later tell her you want fwb. You go dey do small small levels for her. Since you're neighbours she won't charge you like her nose clients, 10k, 5k here and there. You fit buy her some food stuff now and then. She go open am for you.

lol Criminal somebody 🤣😂🤣🤣 Bad man.

Jeweltz:
I saw a post on NL last week where the author said men who forgive and take back their cheating wife live longer than men who don’t and I wonder if Nigerian men can actually do this, with their pride and all that 😏😔very prideful men we have here in the country. Men who will be expecting you message them first and ask them out hmm just don’t want to talk.

That said, the post might have some semblance of truth. Forgiveness isn’t weakness. It’s coming from a place of strengnt. God forgives sin because he’s strong and he’s the alpha and omega.

When a woman mistakenly cheat, it’s not an avenue for you to discard her like she didn’t matter, it just mean you should offer more support and get to the root of the matter. Maybe you’ve been neglecting her..

I’m not claiming an expert on relationship, I’ll leave that to counselors. Nonetheless, there might be some truth in it. I have never cheated in any of my relationships even when things weren’t going good, I’ll rather resolve it than step out.

What do you think?

But a man/woman who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself... I can give you a list of negativity in cheating..The worst thing is to make your partner not to trust you ..