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franchasng:
My brother the world will keep running in a cycle.

Check fashion trend, some of the trendy fashion today were what our fathers wore in the ancient times.

Today youths want to dress half naked, indirectly they want to go back to Adam's era.


By the time they exhaust that, the new generation will come back to adopt the full clothedness again and it continues to cycle like that.


In the past, men enjoyed being the sole provider for their woman and breadwinner of the family, it made them feel masculine and complete, western culture brought the shared responsibility based on feminism that preached gender equality. Before then, men has upper hand in securing good jobs and all that, but with gender equality gaining ground, things changed as women now had better opportunities in certain jobs and fields. Today it's almost on equal basis, no longer gender based. Couples now share roles and responsibilities because most women now earn more than their husbands, things that never happened in the ancient times.


Gradually women now want to take up men's roles while men wish to take on women roles or run away from responsibilities.


So don't worry, it's part of life's cycle, it will surely get to that stage and then humans will want to revert back to the old ways where women stayed at home to care for the home while the men went out to work and being back bread.

These things are nothing but cycles of life that nobody can tame except time. Only time can tame it

You made a great Point. They came for my neck these past few days ..About role women should play ..GOD BLESS YOU THIS MORNING.. ONLY AN Elaborated mind can say this ..You have wisdom..

DoctorStanley:
Exactly. Class is not by watch you wear. A crude, upolished, low-down dirtiest of crooks could be wearing a million-dollar watch!

Lol. 💯😁✌️

TheBillyonaire:
My brother and friend, you are still alive? I thought you have dropped the body. I believe by now, most of you have come out of the other side of the rabbit-hole tunnel after mental defragmentation aka 'Awakening'. Hahahahahaha.

Greetings to you too.

Hahahaha What a wonderful experience.. 😀..

DoctorStanley:
My friend Baboon is just a metaphor. If a Bola Tinubu wears a 50K watch it does not confer any class on him. So also a Donald Trump. There are people who simply don't have it no matter how much watch they wear!

Mark comes to mind. Mark is always simple.

TheBillyonaire:
This is the end of Religions and Spiritual mind control systems. The mind will be decoded.

Welcome to Tier 1 Civilization.

Thank You China. What America is incapable of, China is leading the world to our next levels of on the Kadashev scale.

A civilization capable of harnessing all the energy available on its planet..
ability to harness and utilize energy for its own use. They way ahead..✌️😁💯 Billy greetings s

Judolisco:
They only know this because they went to look for his poo... If not wetin concern them?

😁😁😁😂😂🤣🤣🤣 . Savage

jrobbins:
In my office I have women working, will they resign to take care of thier parents? Even our MD is a woman. This your obsession with girl child is odd, you think they won't have a life in the future? Things have greatly changed. Will you advise your wife who say earn big to resign and become a care giver because girls earn well too now. Say your wife is working and her mum falls sick, will your wife resign to be at home with her mum and you'd agree to bear all financial responsibilities plus the one she has been contributing?

Your girls will get a job, get married and/or give birth to their own children too.

Lets take care of our health, pray for strength till we age, get money that can be used to hire for care if need be, then die when we are becoming a burden to anyone in the future.

Thanks for the Advice.

Bendeco02:
Many of them will learn in hard way. My female mates are now thinking of marriage and the financially stable men are no where to be found. Finally they may end up marriying the poor men they rejected before or remain single forever

Men are always the price .....The older the wine the better ..😁

Bendeco02:
Two ladies currently are seeing me as bad person because they need marriage while am not yet ready to settle down. That i dated you doesn't mean we will end up married. I did not proise you that

I love men with Balls .
You actually defined your Relationship. ✌️🙌

Maeve7:
Loyalty is what we want. A faithful husband who makes us feel safe and doesn’t create the need to go through his phone because we sense that he is hiding something with his numerous high security WhatsApp accounts.

I'm faithful.. 😁😁 You are safe 💯

Verbtips:
na 3quater we dey wear now

You know the matter I get am plenty..lol 🤣 Austerity measure

I built my wisdom from my personal experiences and from others I came across in life with challenges along and expanded it by guiding my footsteps with care. ...Even in Nairalander I still learn one or two from people's personal experiences.
I want to appreciate all Nairalanders contributing to this Platform one way or the other. God Almighty will reward you all and your House hold ..❤️❤️❤️❤️

Kobojunkie:
I see you are not able to reason outside of the box that you were raised in. I will choose to walk away at this point in time.

If you have a kids you would know what I'm talking about. Stop whining men.. When men talk you listen... Discipline is expensive and not for everyone is a gift it came from above.. You cant force discipline is a Gift for God. If you don't have it forget about it ..

pocohantas:
I didn't ask you not to stand by what you say. I said you should learn to care for your own parents. It is not rocket science.

I currently taking care of my parents as I'm the only one with them for now. I know what it takes as a man do to so. .Female more better. . Feminine energy...JUST LIKE what you said about taking care. I have sat with matured men of age. Man go far away for the parents to build his own family and home (house hold )

Women still remember home .
..

pocohantas:
Many daughters are not jobless.
Definitely not in 2025. We are not on earth to keep tending to everyone. From kids to our parents and now in-laws. Even husband wants us younger so we can look after him when he is old. It is actually exhausting and leads to a range of emotions in middle-aged women. Men should learn to be caregivers. It is not beneath them[b]. I work and still look out for my parents. I fail to see one reason a man cannot do it too.[/b]

you all missing my point...I Still stand Girls are indeed helpers.. Boys to some extent... I stand by that I say.

9jatriot:
This is very inspiring,
One takeaway for me is that it is good for families to have businesses that their kids get involved in. They may not inherit it but they will learn valuable lessons just being involved in it.

Please never fail to build an empire.. Im working on this ...I pray God Almighty will make me succeed...So the lineage can be secured financially.😁

bolademi:
Calm down let her stay in ur sister place and when her own people too want to come stop them from coming. Simple

Leave that man he doesn't have a family of his own. .You just said simple Truth

Kobojunkieee:
Nonsense!

I bet if your father were the sick one, you would also roll it up as a girl child's responsibility then too. 🙄🙄

Why are you bittered. I still stand by my word. I bet you can even resign I leave your Job as a provider of your family to take care of your sick Daddy. If you like no go get girl child na oyo be your name .. Your sons have their own responsibility. They can only provide a care giver . I have sat with Men matured men and discussed about family I can authoritatively most of them all say their daughters look out for them ..I BET YOU Don't have your Family.
If you don't you won't say trash. ..Don't forget to get a female child or adopt . If not you go suffer for Naija ..

Kobojunkieee:
A girlchild, you say? You people are just wicked to the core is all!

When my grandmother was sick and unable to do much back in the early 2000s— this was before she passed away several years later —, her son, who was unmarried at the time, was the one who cared for her right there in Nigeria. My uncle was in his late 50s at the time this happened. He didn't get married until about 10 years after she had passed. He hired a helper at the time who worked as her caregiver right there in his house. She was the one who stayed with my grandmother 24/7 until the end.

This happened right there in Nigeria.

Please read again and use the bolded word and count your teeth...

Sunnyrado:
I don't want Peace, I want trouble always

8 more Wahala character needed.

Hahaha Bad man

Sunnyrado:
Am looking for that woman that will lure me with something into marriage. Let's see how it's goes

Lol..Make Devil no reason your matter Ooo.
You don de find trouble...🤣🤣🤣😁😁😁

fxexperts:
And when you are that your OG will finally get her pregnant just know that your case done they get K-leg from there.

Na woman wey impact for our lives we go get pregnant.. .

We4all:
You are 33 with an 11 year old son. So, let me assume you married at 21 or had a son at 21. What was chasing you to start a family that early?

I always wanted to have a young Family....

SisterAnn:
It simply means that the corrupt elites did not like him.

Yeah. I was only trying to pass a good message. Thanks Anne

2cribz:
Thats why i prefer temu. Fast and good quality. U see online is way better. U could always get a refund..nut u can never get a refund for a jeans u bought in boutique,shoprite.any mall .abi i lie. Temu u r buying brand new smelling new inside nylon. Not on top of hanger.

Alright bro I will give it a try.. Thanks for the info..

Acidosis:
The permission of whoever will take care of your mother needs to be sought. If you have never taken care of an elderly man or woman, feeding them, making them their favourite meals, engaging them in small talks, or even changing diapers, and so on, you should calm down and learn. Even if you are going to employ a maid and pay them, you still need to be patient; otherwise, you may come home one day and find your parent halfway gone to the world beyond. No be by gra gra or cho cho cho.

Imagine someone who spends almost his entire day in the office raising shoulders 😂 The first step to prove this so called love for your mother would be to resign and spend at least 80% of your time with them. It is insanity to think and demand that another person do your job for you because your married them with yam and a keg of palm wine.

Exactly why atleat a girl child is commendable...

We4all:
Try to train your sons well so they can care for you in old age. Children who are responsible and empathetic will care for their parents regardless of their gender.

A girl child will do the needful.. Male Children hardly look back to their mother highest they can do is to provide funds and look for who to pay to take care. So please try get female daughter... E get why. My mom gave birth to 6 boys no girls .So I'm talking from experience..Left for me I would have adopted but I want my own blood.. Hope you get the message ..My boys are responsible but I always know they have their lives to live. I don't want to be a burden to anyone..So I'm already planning my life. I'm still young though just 33 ..

guobe:
Those oshodi own go be bend down na.

Yes boutique you know the matter. Most of the boutique buys Grade A . I hardly see London bay or US bay they are very expensive but you get quality for your money.

2cribz:
Na.me i no like soft jeans.tho konga still get like 1 mad jeans wey dem deliver to me oh.15k last year.sadly my cousin stole the jeans when he was gploing back.w pain me.inprefer stock jeans.or winter jeans.light/summer jeans dey quick tear and washing machine no like am.

I can't order Jean online fear or getting low quality products. Because they use picture enhancement to beautiful the product..To be on the safe side I touch and feel.

guobe:
Sad situation

. pathetic. God will continue to provide for us.

2cribz:
Most jeans sold in naija are low grade
Used
And dead jeans.
In 2019 I bought 8 air of jeans for 55k from aliexpress.
Out of the 8,2 don sapa.
I dashed them out.
I still have 4 that I've not worn.
The remaining 2 na wetin I dey exchange with my clothes every few days.aside my joggers and native
The point is jeans is not too expensive.beyyer stock jeans from aliexpress or temu doesn't exceed 20k. B4 new jeans used to be 8k 9k.quality..original stock jeans .esp stone wash.
But what we have are now dead jeans.scrap sapa jeans. And the thieves wud slam 50k like say na evisu jeans,fubu jeans,Nike,wrangler,jack and jones. Na fake fake below quality grade jeans dem dey sell. The so called okrika have been terribly used and over faded but dem go use dye to dye am back.u go dey happy. If u wan know if jeans don sapa.turn the jeans over to the pther side of it..inspect the pocket back..if e get threads and dots..e mean say the jeans don do more than. 3 years .run away

hahaha Really O.G. I buy and feel the texture.. Highest you can get in Naija market is Turkey .USA and London Jean and very expensive.. . SO I just go and see what worked for me .but I always touch and feel the material ...I gat eyes for it though...