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Yemon:
My brother I know what you are passing through,so with me.I am retired too above 60 with two graduates sons of 7 years and 5 years ago and to ice it up a girl had twins(boys)for one of them,all under my roof apart from the girl.

I laugh at the comments. As every thumbprint differs, so also lives, destinies, so it is not the same strokes for the different folks. You can't really judge another because you had a triumph in that area.

His 29 years old may not really be at fault.

Now, I personally put the blame on his father, and as for you sir, I put the blame on you too(with due respect). Reason being that some of you educated oldies always think about reading, reading and reading with certificate.

You didn't actually make the children know that it is harsh outside there and for them to beat this, they need to be encouraged from a very young and youthful days on how to make a living (money), let's say at age 20.

Many of you only think one way, it's about certificate, not about skills of value they can start using to make a living.

After all, you want all the control over their lives, you won't tell them the importance of money and responsibility perhaps for fear they may misbehave apart from wanting to control everything about them.

They graduate at 23, 25 in a country like this and instead of letting them get a job or encourage them to business or skills, you rush them off to do masters as if you people are even well connected with real creme de la creme in the society.

They finish masters perhaps at 27,28 you want PhD. You may not even sometimes think about how they can be independent and have joy of being a man or a woman.

And at those ages, some children of those who are not as educated as yourselves are already doing well and able to stand in the society as men and women. And at those ages, your children are already feeling stranded.

Don't make mistake that the 29 year old being discussed in this thread is a happy man. So are some others in their 30's which are affected. Some really long for their independence but they are already unhappy, and don't even know how to forge ahead simply because of one thing : you people do not allow them responsibilities even when they desired it at their younger age.

I don't wanna be rude to you, but I know what I'm talking about. May God deliver those in distress.

Sxyhalima:
we are all 27

I met him. I knew he was what I was looking for. We started dating, he told me he diddn't want a relationship, just a situationship - casual dating/FWB. I diddn't want that so I told him we should stop seeing each other. He pursued me. I continued because I liked him. We continued dating for about 3 months. I was in love with him at this point. I told him that I diddn't want to continue this and that we should stop seeing each other or he make me his girlfriend. He agreed for me to be his girlfriend. However because he diddnt truly want that in his heart, he continued to date someone else. I found out and ended it with him. I was heartbroken but moving on.

Me and the other girl kept in contact, I found about a month later he was watching my social media page and accidentally liked my picture, even though we don't follow each other. I told her about it and asked when she last heard from him. She said that day when we both stopped speaking to him. The day I told him that it was over, and I asked if he was going to continue to date and he said he wasn't going to date any one for now, just focus on himself etc. Then that same evening, he messaged the other girl asking if it was really over between them, how he never wanted to be in a relationship with me, and she was asking about a relationship, but he diddnt want a relationship with her either, so she said she wasn't interested. He deleted both of our numbers and moved on.

I found out and I cursed him out, cursed his whole family out, said abusive things that probably turned him off me completely. She doesn't know about this.

Valentines came and she got flowers from him. It turns out he arranged for the flowers to be delivered the day he said he diddn't want a relationship with her, but it wasn't signed from anyone. She messaged him asking if it was him, he said yes. the next day he messaged her apologising again but she wasn't really interested. the same week I contacted him several times, asking for him back in my life, he wasn't interested. We agreed no more contact, and he would post the items that he has of mine to me, but then he came to my house unannounced and dropped of the items (i wasn't home). he lives a good 40 minutes away from me but because he said he was going somewhere near where i lived, he said he would kill two birds with one stone.

she messaged him the same day, saying that she was interested in a relationship with him and he said he wanted one with her too and they arranged to meet for coffee. i have since cut them both off.

what do you make of this?

Hmmmn... The three of you are confusionists; now, you all should grow up and know what y'all want and stop using hopes to force through the relationship.

Wetin you no wan chop, no smell am. This kinda guy go sabi play game wella. He ain't ready for relationship and at the same time he's double minded jumping here and there. He already told you what he wants.

Let's say you hope he would forget about the FWB thing and you allow him to get you pregnant, na den you go see how he go fly away like bird saying him no want pregnancy for now.

Summary: I think you should move on!

ukaface:
no I can't.
All of this isn't necessary biko.
What does it add to the relationship?

You dey afraid say him go beat you with muscles?

Xcelinteriors:
Pigeon??
Haba na, that is a sacred bird

Who told you it is sacred. We rear pigeons and I see their behaviors and I can tell you that animals are animals.

Dem dey vex for one another dey beat dem selves join not willing to share space a times and sometimes greed and power will just make one oversee a bowl of water beating others away while he pollutes the water etc.

However, they aren't as violent as chickens. Also, the meat though small is sweeter and tastier

Adeife2:
I actually didn't travel to meet any guy
But there was a particular guy back then
We have been friends on Facebook,from there he asked me out,and I told him is not possible for me to accept to someone have never seen before

So one day,he accepted to come to my hostel
Innocent me,I thought it was one handsome guy, not knowing that am wrong

I prepared his favorite, because we have talk alot that have knew his favorite food

I stressed myself �� that very day ehn,I was going up and down as if am in my in-laws house

So he called me ,he is already at where I described to him
Me getting to his place,I wanted to run back because that wasn't the kind of guy I was expecting,he had a nice voice, everything while we normally do video call and chat then


To cut the long story short,the food I prepared for him,I didn't later give me ooo
I didn't even give him water till he left my place then ���

Kai.... You wicked o

Preshieben:
he took it too

He said he didn't wanted me to feel bad blah blah

My unforgettable experience
If someone told me this same story
I'll say it's a fiction

It happened.. people are wicked too
I have developed a phobia for men that are from imo

Sorry dear.

Leonyluiz:
Mehn. I remember back in 2016. Went to visit this girl i was dating at Ago Iwoye from Unilag. I had never had sex with her prior and this was supposed to be the day. Getting there i had the craziest nudge never to touch her. So I listened to my gut and just talked and watched tv all night. Had a scary dream that night of her turning to a scary lizard and chasing my mom. picked my bag without taking bath or even uttering a word and left first thing the next day.

Hahahaha.... na lizard woman you go meet, na so you for find yourself for lizard kingdom

Preshieben:
CONTINUATION ABI PART TWO

The bikeman arrived his hut,not house cos it was built with mud with cement plastering,
His room was wack and disorganized...
I immediately changed from my soaked clothes into the dry ones he gave me and wrapped myself in his smelly blanket which my skin reacted to it by itching me so I unwrapped it and slept on his bed without covering myself

I gave him my inhaler and told him everything and how to use it just in case
I turned and face the wall while he slept on the other side...it was still raining, I took out my phone from my where I hid it to prevent water from touching it, called the guy to tell him I'm fine and safe..he said I should give the phone to the bikeman, which I did

He gave me back the phone after few minutes of conversating in their dialect and lied down... the guy told me he has warned him not to touch me,that I should relax,he also apologized for putting me through all what I was facing and dropped the call.

Few minutes to 1am,I felt the bikeman touching me..(I couldn't sleep tho) I resisted him by adjusting a bit.,he shifted closer and held my boobs
I jumped off and climbed down from the bed..he didn't follow...he lay back and listened to me trying to pursuade him not to do what he wants to do .
The next thing was..he stood up and walked towards me ( I was actually leaning on the wall)he came closer, I could even hear his heart beat

The Nigga grabbed my neck so tight and whispered.."Hope you know I can kill you here and hide your corpse,nobody will know? So comport."
He left me grasping for air..and pushed me to the bed...in summary,I was raped thrice brutally within the interval of 1am - 5am.
The third one was so painful I had to fight him and tried pushing him off but he slap me hard and kept choking me that was where the asthma started..
He helped and did as I told him with my inhaler..I passed out
NB:After the first rape..I tried calling the guy I came to see,he noticed and ceased my phone

I woke up to see I was already dressed,I got up and picked my properties..he threatened if I tell this guy..he will look for me and finish me
I nodded with tears in my eyes and he drove off..
He stopped along the way, somewhere so bushy and removed my two sim cards for me and put my fancy phone into his bag,
Ordered me to climbed down and drove off
Omoh!!


Forgetting I'm a fine girl,I sat on the road and cried for what seems like an hour
I didn't see any trace of even a bicycle,
Moments later,a fine car stopped behind me.
It was a lady,she demanded to know what happened,I told her everything.
She gave me 10k cash and drove me off to where I'll see a taxi and advised me to go back to my state.it was like 11am

I stubbornly refused to go home and went ahead to beg passersby for a phone to insert my sim so I could call the guy.
A young girl helped me and I called him
He sounded happy to hear my voice...I didn't have enough time to tell him everything so I called another taxi and he talked to him and directed him...I thank the girl and hopped on the bike.
Finally,I arrived at his house and then proceeded to tell him everything after eating.

He apologized and cuddled me which led to sex..I told him to use condom which he refused,I stayed three days but had sex twice and went back.
NB: he took me to hospital and got me ARVs and postinor 2
Some days later..he called me to say I gave him infection..I tried explaining,he got more angrier and blocked me

Omoh...I collapsed and went down on my knees and swore to God to strike me dead anyday I leave my state to another state just to see man...since then,I've not tried ohh
He later unblock me and begged for forgiveness saying he didn't really get an infection...it was just a way of breaking up with me
I said no problem but I'm done with you.. I'M STILL NOT HEALED FROM THAT HEARTBREAK SHA

Some would have called this a fiction, but sh!t happens and most fiction works were tweaked true life stories.

That was an unfortunate journey though, and I'm sorry about the bike's man event.

But some would have asked why you still collected from your guy after all that happened and he even proceeded to do it raw and afterwards gave you ARV; did he use also use the ARV bcoz the bike man may not have used protection.

Sorry about the event though ;many are heartless!