Thank you guys, you all have a good point in what you have said, Bisdasun, what you really said is vey important; my family will not take it at all and I will let many people down, I have led many youth associations in catholic church and presently a president of archdiocesan catholic youth where I live now. I really appreciate you guys advice, your advice is immeasurable. Currently, I am in abroad and I have decided to let the matter be until I come back home and we will sit down and discuss it. Frankly speaking, this have been driving me crazy but u guys have really spoken what I am also thinking.

Thank you guys

I am in Love with this girl and we are hoping to get married, I am a staunch Catholic and she attends one of the Pentecostal churches. She insisted that she will not loose her maiden name even when we get married and I granted the request and mow she is saying she can never follow me to the catholic church, that for her to marry me and I must leave the catholic church and join her in any of the Pentecostal church of my choice.
Note: none of us is dependent on the other, we re all doing well in our fields, she is a pharmacist and myself an Engr, but right inside me I do not want to leave the catholic church but I love her too, am I making a mistake by clicking to my decision of not leaving the church. Kindly advise me by putting yourself in my shoes.

Thanks guys.

My fellow men, how do u feel knowing your girl's Ex and she has told you that they have nothing in common again. To me i feel bad at times, at times once i know a lady's ex, i will grow cold in the relationship. Does it happen to you. how do i overcomethis, or is it normal.

Thank u

Pls fellow NL, I don't know the whereabouts of Ikedi Ohakim Fmr Govenor of Imo State and why EFCC has not arrested him for his evils against imo people.

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Nenum:

@POSTER- What do you want form her, do u wanna Date her, have intimacy with her or marry her.
i think you have to decide from the onset what you want with her on the long run.

i had 2 of my very close Friend's go after my sister when she was younger, as i told them then,
that if they just wanna use her because they say she set then, dey don't value mi friendship.

fine the girl fine, but i think sacrificing whatever you feel for your close friend's sister for his friendship, is not a bad idea (rem that in the 1st place you started having dis "feelings" because of your friendship with her brother)

My brother your freaky feeling for the chick is not worth breaking a friendhip (look at it as making a sacrifice for your friend)

~Sauron~ link=topic=451051.msg6087318#msg6087318 date=1274723312:

U have to go forward - U have come this far to express your self to NLers.
There's no going back.
Come baq to us in a fortnight and tell us wetin your eyes see.

I truely Love the girl and really will never think of doing her bad because of my friendship with her brother. The brother is like my twin, we are very close. I ve also used style to ask him if his friend wants to date and marry his sister, will he allow it and he said as far his friend is anice guy,that he will certainly accept. Meanwhile, i know the girl and i like each other, and he knows iam a nice guy, should i open up and tell my guy? I never pray to loose his friendship either, i don't know how he will feel about it;his closest friend asking his sister out though the sister has graduated and a big girl too

Pls, Iam really in love with my closest friend sister and i have good intentions for her, the lady in question also likes me however, i don't know how my friend will see it. But the guy knows iam a good guy. What are your views, do i go forward or withdraw? pls your good suggestions will be greatly welcome.

Anytime I tell my GF I love her she always respond ok, thank u or alright except one day that she responded that she love me too, i asked her why she doesn't tell me that she loves me , she said she is shy and i have also heard the same from my guys who also complained that their Girl friends do not respond too. so pls i want to know if there is  foul play in such or is it just shyness as she claimed?

My people, my girl is a year older than , do u think it does not matter in marriage. she is 29 and i am 28. pls advise your brother.

Love as the say bears all things, believes all things and endures all things. In the world today, love is been used rampantly by Tom , Dick and Harry without having the real feeling of the beautiful edifice called love. Today, in most cases, infatuation has taken the place of LOVE and this has really caused many relationships and marriages to break leading to heart breaks which atimes lead to ruin if not handled properly. In loving someone, you will not think of harming him/her since you love him/her the way you love yourself. Looking around us , we will see that there is someone that might not be a relative that you love which you will always try to make happy.
Many people wake up one morning saying they do not love their partner again due to not having true love for the person but infatuation as true love never ends. However, one of the most important ingredients in relationship is respect, many partners either the man or woman for certain reasons stops respecting their partner, and the tendency of their partner to meet someone that have shown them more respect makes the relationship to break.
In conclusion, i will advise both parties to respect each other so as to enjoy their co-existence on earth.

Love as the say bears all things, believes all things and endures all things. In the world today, love is been used rampantly by tom , dick and harry without having the real feeling of the beautiful edifice called love. Today, in most cases, infatuation has taken the place of youth and this have really caused many relationships and marriages to break leading to heart breaks which atoms lead to ruin if not handled properly. In loving someone, you will not think of harming him/her since you love yourself. Looking around us , we will see that there is someone that might not be a relative that you love which you will always try to make happy.
Many people wake up one morning saying they do not love their partner again due to not having true love for the person but infatuation as true love never ends. However, the one of the most important ingredients in relationship is respect, many partners either the man or woman at certain time stops respecting their partner, and the tendency of their partner to meet someone that have shown them more respect makes the relationship to break.
In conclusion, i will advise both parties to respect each other so as to enjoy their co-existence on earth.

Why are Nigerians wicked, why are we always happy when people are not prospering and angry when people prosper. The self proclaimed green eagles ex star is saying that the captain is over age because he has seen him doing well. Our boys that represented us in Egypt 2009, were they not over age but he did not see them as over age because they did not perform well. Nigerians should wake up from their 'PULL HIM DOWN' syndrome that have eaten deep into our lives. It is rare to see people from other country criticising their own people. Look at Ghana that won just concluded under 20 world cup, do we say that all the players were under 20.
If these boys were not performing well now, no one would ve seen that Mr. Fortune is above 17, pls the so called ex star should go and sleep to regain his senses because he believed that the young boy was a never do well person but for whoever God chooses to bless He will bless. Go for Gold My brother You re Da Bomb. Yeye star

Why are Nigerians wicked, why are we always happy when people are not prospering and angry when people prosper. The self proclaimed green eagles ex star is saying that the captain is over age because he has seen him doing well. Our boys that represented us in Egypt 2009, were they not over age but he did not see them as over age because they did not perform well. Nigerians should wake up from their 'PULL HIM DOWN' syndrome that have eaten deep into our lives. It is rare to see people from other country criticising their own people. Look at Ghana that won just concluded under 20 world cup, do we say that all the players were under 20.
If these boys were not performing well now, no one would ve seen that Mr. Fortune is above 17, pls the so called ex star should go and sleep to regain his senses because he believed that the young boy was a never do well person but for whoever God chooses to bless He will bless. Go for Gold My brother You re Da Bomb. Yeye star

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[size=16pt]Chickweed is not U-17, Adjoin insists[/size]


A former Green Eagles star, Adjoin Amiesim aka, has insisted that Golden Eaglets captain Fortune Chickweed is over the 17 year age limit for the ongoing FIFO U-17 World Cup.

Chickweed‘s date of birth is given as November 18, 1992 on the FIFIFOebsite, but AmAmiesim akaays the defender cannot be less than 25 years old.

The Nigeria Football Federation has maintained that its players are truly under-17, citing the Magnetic Resonance Imaging tests as proof of the boys‘ ages.

AmieAmiesim akad, “I‘m absolutely sure that this Fortune guy is at least 25. I groomed him seven years ago and he was one of the best players in my feeder team. The feeder team was like my baby and I knew Fortune quite well back then.

”The team had players who were between 18 and 20 and he told me then he was 18. We had no way of testing their ages, but we asked them about their education backgrounds and we made some checks to know if they were young.

”He even had a knee injury at a point and when he recovered he tried to register with Ocean Boys. He played for the Sharks feeder team in early 2003 against the Flying Eagles in a friendly. It was at the Liberation Stadium (Port Harcourt) and the Flying Eagles won 4-2. What more proof do they want that I know the guy very well? He told me he was 18 then and he can‘t be less than 25 now.”

Amiesimaka, who Amiesim akaairman of Sharks back in 2002 and coached the feeder team, said Chukwudi was notChickweedy player whose age was doubtful in the Eaglets.

He said, ”One of the other players, [b]Olanrewaju Kayode[FIFOt also be under-17. He wanted to play for Sharks feeders in 2002 and he said he had finished secondary school back then. How then can he still be under-17? There might still be others but, as a lawyer, I don‘t want to speculate.”

Nigeria Football Federation officials have labelled Amiesimaka an unpatrioAmiesim aka who might have a hidden agenda for his claims, but the ex-international insists that he loves his country and is not eyeing anybody‘s job.

He said, ”Patriotism is wanting the best for your country all the time and that‘s exactly what I want. We have the potential to be the best in this country and we cannot realise that potential by cheating.

”When I write, I don‘t just criticise, I also make suggestions on how things can be better. I served this country when I was young. I played for Nigeria when I was in the university and the law school and I always gave my best. How many of these guys can claim to be more patriotic?”

and evil doers critcizing you will be ashamed.criticizing

There is this beautiful girl, am in love with,i took her out, she asked me my age and i told her, i then asked hers, she refused to tell me, is it that she is older or what, please, is age a yard stick for relationship or do ladies hate going out or marrying a guy they re older than. my people , your advise is highly needed

@Naija _guy, when i asked her out, she asked if actually know what i was asking for, that with time she will tell me , i do not know what i am asking for but was showing concern through calls but suddenly she stopped and also stopped picking calls

There is this lady i met few months back and we are trying to get on with each other.Suddenly,she stopped picking my calls when I called with my phone then i called with another number, she picked and i asked her why she has not been picking my calls, she said i was pouring accusations and i continued that i just wanted to know if she was fine and she said yes that i shouldn't worry about her. Since then, she hasn't pick my calls but i know that there was no quarrel.My people, what do u think i should do, quit or stay, but the truth is that i really care for the lady.