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pocohantas:
I was very sure I have seen the topic, but couldn’t remember who created it. In his defense, he didn’t claim to be the writer.

To the topic, the way Naija guys hyperventilate over sex matter is embarrassing to put it mildly.

Rapmoney:
I won't blame you for stealing my original article and posting it here. I will blame the owner of this site, Seun and the mods who allowed such things to happen.

This post was copied and pasted in so many social media platforms without acknowledging the original writer. You are one of such people, unfortunately.

See below:

https://www.nairaland.com/3958925/ladies-dont-want-sex-should

Iceyjayz:
That girl is a kid, stop engaging her.

Mandela27:
@Xynerise
Sometimes u should not engage ursef in arguement with that 2001 girl child.She's always talking nonsense,and I wish she's close by,lehmi knock her head one day,she's too childish and I hate when people talk to her.

fati2001:
then he should date a prostitute.... I can't open my legs for a stupid man not husband for the sake of offering me money (what is he talking me for? a hoe because you have money) pls move to the next bus stop....
that's why they said "average ninezeria men don't have anything to collect apart from sex in relationships " a stable man will ask him self those questions.
1, is she worthy
2, why do she only show gratitudes in a similar way (opening of her legs)
3, what value have she offer to my life.
so many...... I can't say, everyone with his /er choice.
but some go sit-down gidibaaa! because of sex... later open their fuckin Negro wide mouth screaming "she has nothing to offer apart from sex "
WHAT A 21 CABBAGE!!!!
and GOD forbid me depending on man money (when I got hands and legs).
and me as a man can't demand for sex because I give a girl a cheap cent or she asked for favour.

fati2001:
why should I do so are we dating ?
my answers might not be ur answers, ur like might not be as same.
the only thing find someone with positive goals, if you see say the person dy bend for life... you quit quickly.

fati2001:
what you offer is what you get, and how you set your basic statics .

fati2001:
yes! money is not everything to offer and collect!
also sex is not everything to offer and collect !

fati2001:
that's to show that you don't have anything to offer in relationship apart from money and sex, no ambitions, no goal, no sacrifices at all...... may you see urself through.

First, I am not using this post to say that ladies who desire a no-sex relationship are wrong or are committing a crime. Everyone has the right to decide what idea they feel is right for them or not.

Morally and spiritually speaking, any girl who feels that she doesn't want to have sex till she's married has not committed a crime; it's not out of place. The foundation on which this idea is mostly built on by many young women is where the problem lies.

Romantic affairs are nothing but romantic affairs! They involve romance and I believe everyone reading this post knows what romance is. What romance is, is what romantic relationships entail. Let it not be as if we are still in primary school, learning life basics.

Romantic relationships are not just for kneeling down to pray together, playing ten-ten, ludo, kalokalo or suwe. It involves things that are done behind closed doors. If a girl doesn't want sex in a relationship, she should ask herself first what type of relationship she's into. If it's not a platonic or brother/sister relationship, then she better stay off romantic affairs until she's ready to marry!!!

You own your body as a girl but don't try to turn a full grown sexually active man to a celibate or eunuch because that is what you desire in a ROMANTIC AFFAIR! If he wants sex and you don't, kindly tell him your principle and move on. If he doesn't 'touch' you, who will he touch? Won't he touch somebody outside? Will that not make rubbish of your relationship?

Young ladies who don't want sex in romantic affairs should stay off or look for a celibate who can dance to their tune. After all, most girls have made it a culture not to give anything else in a relationship other than sex. Being that the average African man gives virtually everything, his time, resources, energy including his soul in relationships, what do you, as young women expect him to gain when most of you cannot offer anything other than sex? He won't take that gladly knowing fully well that you are trying to withhold the only thing he knows he can gain from you! If I meet a girl who says she wants a no-sex affair, I should be able to see tangible things I can gain from the relationship. Being a demanding girl in a no-sex affair should be a suicide attempt in relationship.

I might not be too kind with idealism; romantic affairs involve SEX! Even if you go to Madagascar, Norway, Bolivia or Czech Republic, it's the same thing. If you cannot withstand the hotness of the kitchen, stay off the kitchen!

proxillin:
even stronger than Bayern

Slymonster:
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How do you expect him to play score. He is the only one doing the work driving there. All midfielders in Chelsea just play with no direction or pass the ball back always. He needs drive and only Ziyech and pulisic has that.

ume1000:
If God knows the future and also gave man freewill then I think such freewill is nothing but a greek gift

Like you already know what would happen but still say you are free to choose

Coder2Client:
I am not in support of this ugly act but homosexuality has been in existence since time immemorial. That could mean the urge to have sex with same gender as you was embedded into human systems by the creator (God).

The question now is, why would God create something for man kind and later wants mankind to stay away from that same thing created for human kind?

Such cases are explicitly put under punishment and curses by the Creator (God) in Leviticus 18

MaziAlaye:
All your players will go wild.. meaning they triple the points of all your players.

Amatarasha:
DONT WAR PLS
DO YOU KNOW WE OWN THIS WORLD, B4 LIVED ONLY WOMEN BILLIONS OF YEARS BACK UNTIL MALE GOD'S CAME ALONG TO CREATE MEN,
Do am preach against RELIGION on ur own side cos Jehovah is Satan