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Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Rapmoney(m): 11:09pm On Jul 31, 2017
First, I am not using this post to say that ladies who desire a no-sex relationship are wrong or are committing a crime. Everyone has the right to decide what idea they feel is right for them or not. Morally and spiritually speaking, any girl who feels that she doesn't want to have sex till she's married has not committed a crime; it's not out of place. The foundation on which this idea is mostly built on by many young women is where the problem lies.

Romantic affairs are nothing but romantic affairs! They involve romance and I believe everyone reading this post knows what romance is. What romance is, is what romantic relationships entail. Let it not be as if we are still in primary school, learning life basics.

Romantic relationships are not just for kneeling down to pray together, playing ten-ten, ludo, kalokalo or suwe. It involves things that are done behind closed doors. If a girl doesn't want sex in a relationship, she should ask herself first what type of relationship she's into. If it's not a platonic or brother/sister relationship, then she better stay off romantic affairs until she's ready to marry!!!

You own your body as a girl but don't try to turn a full grown sexually active man to a celibate or eunuch because that is what you desire in a ROMANTIC AFFAIR! If he wants sex and you don't, kindly tell him your principle and move on. As a young woman, you don't need to cry while trying hard to convince him that he should not 'touch' you. If he doesn't 'touch' you, who will he touch? Won't he touch somebody outside? Will that not make rubbish of your relationship?

Young ladies who don't want sex in romantic affairs should stay off or look for a celibate who can dance to their tune. After all, most girls have made it a culture not to give anything else in a relationship other than sex. Being that the average African man gives virtually everything, his time, resources, energy including his soul in relationships, what do you, as young women expect him to gain when most of you cannot offer anything other than sex? He won't take that gladly knowing fully well that you are trying to withhold the only thing he knows he can gain from you! If I meet a girl who says she wants a no-sex affair, I should be able to see tangible things I can gain from the relationship. Being a demanding girl in a no-sex affair should be a suicide attempt in relationship.

I might not be too kind with idealism; romantic affairs involve SEX! Even if you go to Madagascar, Norway, Bolivia or Czech Republic, it's the same thing. If you cannot withstand the hotness of the kitchen, stay off the kitchen!

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Roum(m): 11:14pm On Jul 31, 2017
well written.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Rapmoney(m): 11:16pm On Jul 31, 2017
Roum:
well written.
wink

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Silentscreamer(f): 11:17pm On Jul 31, 2017
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Jodha(f): 11:18pm On Jul 31, 2017
Bingos will always bark...

Dry nairaland bingos..

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by NevetsIbot(m): 11:19pm On Jul 31, 2017
Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.
hope you said this same thing when your sisters were campaigning against broke guys?? double Standard.

behold... I just saw her dp. downloaded it so I could delete it. lubbish.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by VargasVee(m): 11:20pm On Jul 31, 2017
Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.


Nothing like ranting innit. He said the obvs truth.

Better you stay single than making a fuss out of sex

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by jaksmillioniar: 11:22pm On Jul 31, 2017
Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.
like u dont like sex

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Safiaa(f): 11:22pm On Jul 31, 2017
VargasVee:



Nothing like ranting innit. He said the obvs truth.

Better you stay single than making a fuss out of sex
sshh
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by NevetsIbot(m): 11:24pm On Jul 31, 2017
Safiaa:
sshh
yo!!!! what's up?

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Silentscreamer(f): 11:24pm On Jul 31, 2017
NevetsIbot:
hope you said this same thing when your sisters were campaigning against broke guys? double Standard.
R u among the broke guys? Then ur priority shuld be about working hard to make money and not sex. Misplaced priority.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by VargasVee(m): 11:26pm On Jul 31, 2017
Safiaa:
sshh

undecided undecided
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by NevetsIbot(m): 11:29pm On Jul 31, 2017
Silentscreamer:
R u among the broke guys? Then ur priority shuld be about working hard to make money and not sex. Misplaced priority.
Lol.... I simply stated something obvious and you went ahead to assume I'm broke. Lol. you sha.


working hard to make money and not go after sex? sex is a natural need and crave...... money wasn't there right from the dawn of time..... would you advise a broke lady too to keep of relationships? and to delete konji just as you're prescribing for guys here,

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by ikp120(m): 11:29pm On Jul 31, 2017
You are right man.

But I can date without sex o, so long as she sucks my dick regularly. cool cool cool cool

My niggas forget these hoes. Gucci over pussy any day. Just park a Rolls Royce and you will fvck 10 of them inside that ride within 1 hour without paying a dime.

Chill bro. Just Gucci and pussy go follow.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by HannahHitler(f): 11:30pm On Jul 31, 2017
If you desire sex so much then put a ring on it. No. you don't want to put a ring on it, you don't like good girls with principles, you run after those ones that use sex as a bargaining tool and then come back here crying of heart break and your girlfriend liking money too much. Niccur gerrarahia.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Silentscreamer(f): 11:36pm On Jul 31, 2017
NevetsIbot:
Lol.... I simply stated something obvious and you went ahead to assume I'm broke. Lol. you sha.


working hard to make money and not go after sex? sex is a natural need and crave...... money wasn't there right from the dawn of time..... would you advise a broke lady too to keep of relationships? and to delete konji just as you're prescribing for guys here,
Ur free to enjoy sex when ur married. And stop talking bout konji or whatever, real men are able to hold their own until they are married.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by NevetsIbot(m): 11:39pm On Jul 31, 2017
Silentscreamer:
Ur free to enjoy sex when ur married. And stop talking bout konji or whatever, real men are able to hold their own until they are married.
haha.... good night. I can't argue tonight

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Rapmoney(m): 11:41pm On Jul 31, 2017
Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.
You call it ranting? So you dream on the Internet?

Is this not a case of pot calling kettle black? One who depends on offering sex to sustain and one who gives out the resources and accept the offer, are they not all in the gutter?

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Rapmoney(m): 11:45pm On Jul 31, 2017
HannahHitler:
If you desire sex so much then put a ring on it. No. you don't want to put a ring on it, you don't like good girls with principles, you run after those ones that use sex as a bargaining tool and then come back here crying of heart break and your girlfriend liking money too much. Niccur gerrarahia.
Really? So how many of the guys that slept with her in the past put a ring on her finger?

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Rapmoney(m): 11:49pm On Jul 31, 2017
Silentscreamer:
Ur free to enjoy sex when ur married. And stop talking bout konji or whatever, real men are able to hold their own until they are married.
Sex is a human act. Abstaining from it does not define a real man.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Blackhawk01: 12:18am On Aug 01, 2017
Fair enough cool

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by pocohantas(f): 12:22am On Aug 01, 2017
Nigerian men and the overflogged, 'what you offer is sex', then in the same breathe say if you can't give sex...stay away from relationships. It's not about what she can offer but what you willingly accept. If you give the average guy everything, without sex...lots of them won't be satisfied. Face it and stop the 'it's all you can offer' talk.

When will you guys realise that sticking with a girl who offers just sex and isn't ready to improve, makes you as stupid, if not more stupid than the girl? You reserve the right to walk away from these kind of girls with your values intact...but you stay, because what you also want is sex.


I just imagine how angry some people will be if a girl says guys without money shouldn't think of romantic affairs. Don't give me that, so you sell your body. Good number of Nigerian relationships are fukcd up, guys in it for sex...girls for money.

Tueeh!!!

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Nobody: 1:44am On Aug 01, 2017
Silentscreamer:
Hmmm... Seems nigerian guys lives depend on sex. See ranting.
bloody fvcker..

Most nigerian gals ehhh i wont use any harsh word sha

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by escapefromusa(m): 4:44am On Aug 01, 2017
pocohantas:
Nigerian men and the overflogged, 'what you offer is sex', then in the same breathe say if you can't give sex...stay away from relationships. It's not about what she can offer but what you willingly accept. If you give the average guy everything, without sex...lots of them won't be satisfied. Face it and stop the 'it's all you can offer' talk.

When will you guys realise that sticking with a girl who offers just sex and isn't ready to improve, makes you as stupid, if not more stupid than the girl? You reserve the right to walk away from these kind of girls with your values intact...but you stay, because what you also want is sex.


I just imagine how angry some people will be if a girl says guys without money shouldn't think of romantic affairs. Don't give me that, so you sell your body. Good number of Nigerian relationships are fukcd up, guys in it for sex...girls for money.

Tueeh!!!

Not if ur like my friends and I. When we tell a girl. I will fly u out and she so excited for 3 or 4k usd. You know shes junk.

Many of us are looking for girls that respond with "when u pay my bride price u can fly me anywhere u want".

We can make that 3 -4k from commissions. But they dont know.

Uncles mistress took 5M naira and ran. She thought hit the jackpot. But he has 3 children in NYC attending private catholic school and a wife living in a 2 bedroom apt. That cost 1.8K usd per month.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Nobody: 7:02am On Aug 01, 2017
Jodha:
Bingos will always bark...
Dry nairaland bingos..
Lolz.
Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Earthquake1: 7:06am On Aug 01, 2017
Hmm

Listening to 'romantic' by Tiwa Savage ft Korede Bello.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Rapmoney(m): 7:49am On Aug 01, 2017
pocohantas:
Nigerian men and the overflogged, 'what you offer is sex', then in the same breathe say if you can't give sex...stay away from relationships. It's not about what she can offer but what you willingly accept. If you give the average guy everything, without sex...lots of them won't be satisfied. Face it and stop the 'it's all you can offer' talk.

When will you guys realise that sticking with a girl who offers just sex and isn't ready to improve, makes you as stupid, if not more stupid than the girl? You reserve the right to walk away from these kind of girls with your values intact...but you stay, because what you also want is sex.


I just imagine how angry some people will be if a girl says guys without money shouldn't think of romantic affairs. Don't give me that, so you sell your body. Good number of Nigerian relationships are fukcd up, guys in it for sex...girls for money.

Tueeh!!!
It has been said severally that guys who are broke shouldn't bother about romantic affairs. Many guys who are not financially stable these days don't even give a hoot about relationships because they know the situation but that's for another day. What I'm trying to say is that whoever that's ready to enter a romantic affair, not a platonic one, should be ready to dance to the music. No be fight my sister. If a girl wants a no-sex affair, she should look for a celibate or eunuch! Someone who has agreed to live that type of life too. U cannot force a full fledged sexually active man to become a eunuch because that is what you want. Annoyingly, most of these folks ain't even virgins.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Rapmoney(m): 7:59am On Aug 01, 2017
Jodha:
Bingos will always bark...

Dry nairaland bingos..
You didn't even pass a message across! I would have ignored your post but for the sake of putting some sense into you. Now listen, if you have a contrary opinion, express it intelligently and in a mature way and stop making a fool of yourself.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Safiaa(f): 8:02am On Aug 01, 2017
This thread just doesnt nake any sense to me.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by Rapmoney(m): 8:15am On Aug 01, 2017
Safiaa:
This thread just doesnt nake any sense to me.
Thanks all the same.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by pocohantas(f): 8:15am On Aug 01, 2017
Rapmoney:
It has been said severally that guys who are broke shouldn't bother about romantic affairs. Many guys who are not financially stable these days don't even give a hoot about relationships bthat's for another day. What I'm trying to say is that whoever that's ready to enter a romantic affaiady to dance to the music. No be fight my sister. If a girl wants a no-sex affair, she should look for a celibate or eunuch! Someone who has agreed to live that type of life too. U cannot force a full fledged sexually active man to become a eunuch because that is what you want. Annoyingly, most of these folks ain't even virgins.

There is nothing like force. She didn't use gun...Lots of them usually agree, thinking it will change with time. Everyone has the right to be in a relationship and it will have nothing to do with what you think or who you think it should be with.

And pls, let's not deceive ourselves. Lots of financially unstable youths are in relationships.

That one isn't a virgin doesn't mean she can't decide to stop having sex. Still her choice and totally irrelevant in this discussion.
escapefromusa:


Not if ur like my friends and I. When we tell a girl. I will fly u out and she so excited for 3 or 4k usd. You know shes junk.

Many of us are looking for girls that respond with "when u pay my bride u can fly me anywhere u want. We can make that 3 -4k from commissions. But they dont know. Uncles mistress took 5M naira and ran. She thought hit the jackpot. But he has 3 children in NYC attending private catholic school and a wife living in a 2 bedroom apt. That cost 1.8K usd per month.
Rich men discard women easiest.
Only the rich can outsmart the rich.

Naso!

motun2017:
you give sex wahala. you dont give wahala. lets get this money babe. these guys arent loyal abeg
Very disloyal set of creatures...but na them judge bodycount pass.

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Re: Ladies Who Don't Want Sex Should Stay Off Romantic Affairs by motun2017(f): 8:18am On Aug 01, 2017
you give sex wahala. you dont give wahala. lets get this money babe. these guys arent loyal abeg

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