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EggovinMma:
How smart can a guy get? Are you talking about him having sex with me or stealing money from me. If na the first, no kwams, me to like "no strings attached" and na ugly guys I dey like .I friend fine boys since primary one.But if it's the second, no need again, I too stingy. Sex is overrated to me.I can't be forced to e gage when I don't want to, I can't be forced to be faithful, I take no prisoners, I love my privacy most times.Serious relationship is something I don't plan, it happens.

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Lol.... Well sex per se! But that's u over liking it... What pleasure do u derive?
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With this post... I can imagine how PMs u'd be gettin from NL guys! They will profess love taya!

Ngokafor:
...You nairaland males are unbelievable...so you mean you typed 'a man who doesnt battle or give you troubles does not care about you' with a straight face..like seriously! ..

...Where are all you guys warped thinking coming from?..so so twisted and completely opposite to the basic human standard..little wonder most of you see nothing wrong with rape,parroting daft excuses like dress code and all.Same way most of you see fraud and 419 as just 'business'..smh

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Another fish-brained girl...
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Lemme tell u.... Trouble comes in when a girl begins to cheat or dates a man that's a flirt...If a man loves u... He will be concerned about u and ur welfare and to some extent....they will be so jealous! And that is what u idiots term immaturity! And will never do anything to hurt you or give u trouble or want u to trouble their emotions as well...
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If a man has a girl he loves and out of his flirty life, decides to have a date with you...and you sit infront of him and be answering other male calls and he doesn't bother himself about what you do... Just get it straight, that the moment he's done having u as many times he can...he will dump you!
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With how you reason! I can imagine how many times u've ben dumped! Coz u won't fancy any man dat will get disturb over ur affairs with other men!
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Trouble comes in when u make dt silly mistake to date the wrong man...and or u as a girl isn't consistent! And either of u will get hurt...but if he doesn't get concerned about the troubles u give him...he doesn't care...and so he doesn't love you... Capisce?

EggovinMma:
Or even lust or both.You know say dem no dey trust una
You don c the drama wey fowl wey won enter strange house dey play.E go first dey dormot, carry one leg throw inside, the other one go remain outside. The fowl go kon stretch neck to look inside whether na "no go area".Na so I dey do o when it comes to men o.If I look see say the thing pass me, I go spread my wings like fowl, fly Comot, jjump enter roof! The niggar wey won use me shine can only look at me from that degraded distance. No time.

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Buahahahahahahaha.... That sounds smart....but forget it.... You never jam Mr smart.... Well... I wouldn't go further... There is one story I'd share with you...it will go along way to tell u dat...if u want to outsmart a guy...he'll in turn make u useless! And u will end up getting used! But please stick to just one man! That's the joy I get seeing ppl enjoy a lasting relationship!

EggovinMma:
Hmmm! I had quality teachers back then and the school then was even a missionary school with reverend sisters of which some were expatriates. But after school hour, , shittes gets down. Expulsion then was rampant, so what girls did then was to use a my opportunity they get outside the school to commit atrocities.

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Hehehehe....was in a boarding school as well... Male school.... A then missionary school too... All that happened there was fighting, thuggery, cultism, ...and smoking... I never got influenced by the things I saw.... Coz I know the father I had back home and my background instigated me morale being! But I had friends that would protect and fight for me...coz of the legacy my older cousin left!

Pidggin:
Are you for real?! You sound unintelligent . So if a lady understands men that is a license to avoid rape

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Can you read at all? Common sense should tell u the extent u will go to reduce the case rape if u understand men! Try and get a sense... You really don't have a value sounding like this... This is one reason a lot of u go into blind date and get raped! And u won't still learn a thing!
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lol seriously what planet are you from?! If a lady knows her worth she can't get raped?

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If a woman knows her worth... She will know the sort of people to mingle with... This alone will intensify her virtue and reduce her from risking herself with people that will turn and rape her... Your worth counts... I'll say... Men will always rape worthless girls...

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Look who is talking, you clearly don't have a clue about women nor do you understand the way a woman thinks, and you expect every woman including a teenager to understand men.

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This u sounding like a teen... Isn't it from being a teen that they become ladies? If ur parents never sat u down when u were a teen to educate u about men... U shld educate ur teen daughters when u eventually get one! And not when they've made mistakes and become adults dat u'll kickstart ur lessons on them...

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What is the relationship between having self-worth and rape?

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Jesus christ! A girl who's got self-worth has dignity and she doesn't sound like you! Her dresses, her friends, her thinking, her judgement, everything about her shows how worthy she is...the same kindaf girls worthless girls (like you) go about envying!
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I can imagine a lady telling her sexually charged male friend "You can see I have self-worth, don't molest or rape me!"

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This is very childish and the most unthinkable post I've ever read on Nairaland.... What is she doing in her male friend's place if she wasn't there to get laid? Be matured! I've got a colleague, and she told my male colleauge point blank how she visited him two times and he never made a move on her that she will never visit him anymore... And he told her he doesn't flirt... That's maturity!
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Are you drunk?

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If schooling is term drunk...then I'm drunk educating you!

OK your friend raped a girl, deflowered her and later married her good!

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Is comprehension an issue? I never said he raped her... He deflowered her... Common sense should have ministered to u that he befriended her back then...
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Ask your daughter or niece to visit their friends and beg to be raped so the guys can marry them, that's fine.

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This is you, sounding immature!

"The essential thing for a girl to do is to stick to one man! With this effort the unwarranted rape cases will reduce" It appears all is not well with you. Did the students raped or molested by the lecturer tell you they didn't stick to one man?

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All is well with me... I have a wife to marry! And I don't go about encouraging people to flirt... Only if u understand what sex is all about and the effect of it on ur gene... You wouldn't sound this amateur
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Lol u funny, please how old are u

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I'm old enough to scold u and even cater for u, for the rest of ur life...

EggovinMma:
And what make you think i di t have men that cares for me?
What makes you think its only women that needs care? I am drowning here with someone that needs my 100 percent attention. Men also need to be taken care of as much as women.
Talkin about Sex, when I need it, I get it! I hardly attach emotions to it.I no dey use boyfriend do husband.

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Good for you! But please... Sexing one man is a good idea to adhere to... And goodluck to the man that's craving for ya attention! He's prolly high on love! Who knows?

EggovinMma:
Now that's is a bloody rape! Girls school for that matter.You see, Konji is no respecter of any man, hence the need for both sex to exercise self control. I schooled in a girls school . Can testify to these and many atrocities there. whew! I will never send my child to same sex school.

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Hehehe.... Not at all.... My children will definitely go to schools with quality teachers and with good moral standards!

Toks2008:
you never really wanted her else you could hve shaped her to be wat u want cos at that age they can still be configured.

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Mehn.... This one was haywired.... She wasn't the type that will let u scold her or tell her what to do... She was just bent on embarrassing me! I took her ones to a batch and I left there with shame... Ones took her to get clothes and her collections were damn!
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They are some teenage girls u can never change until they set their minds towards it...that's when they attend the stage of maturity!

Toks2008:
Lol

it may surprise some people to know that some ladies fantacize about been raped.

I have been mostly molested by ladies and at 17 i was molested by an akwa ibom lady and several times i hve been threatened by ladies that they will rape me and many tims i will entr my hostel to see anaked girl in my bed and i cant start recounting all.

the funniest on was when at 25 a lady lured me into sx nd after the act i was praying for fgveness and she just started laughing at me and she took advantage of m several times.

This rape thing is also carried out by ladies but they will rather call it sexual molestation and not rape as the rape thing sounds manly lol.

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Lol...they won't even say a word close to molestation... They will say they handle with you or that they had fun with you.... Reason ppl don't take rape by female as a case!

Toks2008:
Gbam

even tensome.

Tell guys that there is a street that is so dangerous because ladies rape guys and trust guys to ask you the time of th day the rape usually takes place and it will blow your mind how many guys will delibrately go into the street with a pack of condom lol.

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Lol.... Awoof!

Toks2008:
honesly i feel comfortable with a lady I'm at least 8yrs older than and this age gap alone is a turn on for me and no matter how nasty she behaves,i will just see her like a spoilt kid sis.

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And not like a wife! Indeed!
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To me...its a turn off.... I hate immaturity..... Or girls dat behave nastily!
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I can't date a girl am much older than.... There was a time I had this girl... She will tell me she feels like climbing on my head...that she wants to play with my head... Sometimes she will say she wants to kiss my nose... Not in a romantic way... When we walk together in the street...she will be talkin and be pointing fingers at other people... Quite a teen! Mehn! Matured girls rocks! I jst don't knw how u cope! But I was very patient with her... She wasn't able to cope so she left and went to date a guy she was almost in the same age with... That was a pretty good idea...

EggovinMma:
Since most of them thinks "a girls no to sex is yes", it should also apply for men getting raped by women!

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Yeah! The one I heard happened in a boarding school..... Female boarding school... A mother had two children and they live very close to the school...and she wanted travelling for three days journey and she took the boy to the school to live... A place was created for him stay after much plea and the principal heed to it... At night... Some sex starved girls....jumped off the hostel fence and sneak to where he little cubicle and ganged on this 16years old chap.... He fainted and they ran off... The mother was called to came and get her son when she sent the sister to travel all the way from lagos to go and get him... Its really been long though.... About 14years ago!

Pidggin:
It is easy to see your faults from your post. What is misleading about warning girls to avoid visiting guys alone, Will you be okay if your future teenage daughter or maybe your niece visits a man/boy alone? You keep saying her information doesn't count, well it wasn't meant for you. You said "One small loose girl" how do you know this much about her? This is why she was warning ladies, if you get raped or molested someone will call you loose and say it was your fault why not avoid it, can't you see why it is essential for ladies to do the best they can to prevent such circumstances? I don't think you understand the meaning of the words you are even posting please define "Cheap"

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Like seriously! I have been educated to sit my daughter down and give good advices! Why would she even visit a man by herself? You don't visit men by urself... Like somebody posted up there... The are quite a number of girls out there that have never encountered rape cases before...not becoz they dnt visit guys...but becoz they understand men! And becoz they know their worth! A friend of mine met a girl 6years ago in the university....he deflowered the girl... Now they're married! There are good testimonies about girls out there who's got good virtue and they live to protect it!
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I said she's loose becoz her post depicts every sense of it.... She has a guy and yet she has had three cases of attempted rape... What took her to those other guys place? If not to cheat on her man!
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The essential thing for a girl to do is to stick to one man! With this effort! This unwarranted rape cases will reduce!
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Get a lexicon and look up for the word "cheap"... You will get a perfect definition!

Legionss:
This issue of rape is a two way thing o
It is not only girls that are being rape na. So why blame men alone.

In 2014 I was raped by 3 female friends. Till this day each time I tell people all the do is laff. Even when I reported the matter to the police all they did was to inform me how lucky I am to be raped by women.

Why is not that nobody is taking me serious? Is it because am a man ?


@classic B. Not all men are rapist so please stop generalizing it.

People should be mindful of who the visit be it male or female. But do u know that must rape cases are committed by strengers? And not necessarily by the person you visited.

Again why is it that we easily believe that a woman was raped by a man/men
but we find it hard to believe that a man was raped by a woman /women ?

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Indeed...you're very lucky!
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I've heard cases of guys who got raped by female... But its often very rare!

EggovinMma:
Men with sweet tones Lmao! Me I no dey carry marriage for head o.I dint go into relationships with marriage on my head o . This person you are talking about is married na.Please purge your mind of the fallacy that a guy who us more than 35 must be married.Fmarried.For my area here, plenty 37-40 old are not married and still jobless/wealthy

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They mustn't be married per se.... Mostly, at that age...they should be responsible! Whether jobless or wealthy! A responsible man will want to indulge in a good relationship.. To avoid moving about changing girls and being coin as a rapist!
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You shouldn't carry marriage in your head.... But you should try and look marriageable so that men will look at you and respect ur person! At ur this age you are... You should be in a good relationship, with a man that loves and care for you! And not men for sex!

Pidggin:
You don't have the right to suggest topics she should write on. On the contrary she has every right to write on any topic she chooses as long as it is not against the rules of the owner of NL. If her opinion doesn't count to you, move on! She wasn't writing to guys, she was warning ladies who can choose to listen or not.

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Nairaland wasn't created for you and her alone! Neither was it built for her to post informations that will mislead younger minds... Do you know what a piece of information can do? You should be more concern about the young minds that will perceive the information!
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Her information doesn't count and I won't move on until she corrects herself... One small lose girl got raped severally for her stupidity and she decides to use her silly experience to confuse other young girls.... Right here, I've got baby cousins that are active on this forum! I wouldn't want them to stick to the kind of informations people like her goes about posting!...
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If u really want to defend her... You should tell her to be more psychological on her post! Simple! And don't defend her blindly! Coz u're beginning to sound cheap as well!

softysparky:
You want to accuse me of rape?

. . Heheheh.....so na u go turn rape am ni?

Rendition:
hahahhhahahah buh really women with big bumbum dey mk brain oooo just kidding lol

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Hehehehe....you badt gaan!

adeoti01:
Op you tried tho...
But you get time to reason with such thread Ooº°˚˚°o ...
Seriously...when I see any thread like that coming from a lady,I don't even check because I already know she belongs to the league of cheap group of feminine circle...I have and know few that they live well with virtue and reason above this general view of common ladies...Rape is bad; we all know...but please show me a lady that's raped and I will show a potential loosed brainless girl...I can only vouch for 1% of rape victims (ladies) and I know what I'm saying...tis my field (psychology)...

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This is the best comment ever! More like a psychologist!

Toks2008:
You too get sense my dear. All these ladies dating a guy with about a year or two older than them are probably fooling themselves excluding the ones above 30 as they seem matured enough to know what they want

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Why would you exclude women above 30years?
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You're such a greedy man!.... You must be the type that goes about dating small small girls using money to draw dem closer!... Coz u know that women above 30 will likely be matured enough nt to fall for ur silly pranks... Such a paedophilic bastard! No shame! Your type only visit their friend's house just to date/molest their friend's daughters!...

Pidggin:
What are you correcting? Someone wrote her opinion from her experiences as a woman and from things she has heard and seen why is it so painful to you. Whether her opinion is right or wrong I believe people are capable of making their own judgements. Some ladies have visited guys who they assumed were friends and got molested or even raped. Betrayals are real and some women have to live with the psychological impact of this for life which in some cases may have been avoided.

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Her information was misleading.... Even when she advised other ladies not to visit men.... She acclaimed that she has a boyfriend... Such opinion isn't just contradictory but very inappropriate. Her opinion doesn't count, if you ask me! She should bent on psychological advice.. To enlighten girls about the type of men to visit and the ones you shouldn't visit and also for a girl to date just one man and use her women prowess/power to change the man and keep him for as long as it takes and not to be jumping on men and be getting raped!

EggovinMma:
Look, I don't know why younger guys get or feel bad about this.10 years may feel exaggerated, maybe but I the limit I can go is 8 Years.OYears.There is nothing risky or bad about it! I love the maturity I see in them, period!

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Maturity isn't by age! Its by how much you can articulate and manage informations!
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Secondly... A man who doesn't battle or gives u trouble doesn't really care much about you...they will spend on you..which is exactly what u desire for... The matured men u're talkin about got one girl and told her he will date her and also help her but doesn't want her to get married to any other man! But he's married and have 3kids... The girl is clocking 36 this year and she's still enjoying the money... That's ur class of friends... But just this year... The man left her and get another younger girl... And she's stranded...! You better use ur head and avoid falling for men with sweet tones!

EggovinMma:
Prostitution or no prostitution, when mutual interest is achieved, it can be business, pleasure pr both! .HONEY, THIS BABE NO MIND!

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I really like your kind.... But I don't go for cheap things!.... You really don't have respect for urself... No dignity... No prestige... Sex should be respected no matter what!.... This is how you'll go about selling urself and at the end... You'll open a thread and destroy men just like what ClassyB did... And HIV is real... Condoms or No Condoms... U should abstain completely or u look for a good partner! Not partners!

EggovinMma:
My dear, I hardly go to a guy's house o.I dont even accept male friends in my house, because I don't trust people. I am very very hyper sensitive. If I guy is shouting at me alone, my body is already at a very high alert looking for anything to defend myself. I don't have patient for animals. If at all I want to visit a guy, I go majorly because I need to get penetrated. And i choose mentally stable man, atleast more than 10 years older with experience with various women .I no get time for guys wey still dey masturbate!Most of them are wacked! If them see toto, them go dey vomit like pikin wey teeth dey worry. Those type 9 na the average nigerian men Boyz. Na the ones wey dey buy shortbread, chinco phone for girls wey get time for their smelly boxers.

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This is how u girls will sound...but will end up with somebody u're far older than

"Men who has experience with various girls"

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If at all I want to visit a guy, I go majorly because I need to get penetrated.

you sure will always get penetrated by all sort of men! this is more like self-prostitution!

Cybertext:
My question to the OP is can One man truly r*pe a girl without any threatening weapon or drug inducements Most r*pe cases in Nigeria, u will see the girl hail and hearty no marks, no bruises, and most cases condoms were used...

To a Nigerian girl all guys are "incredible hulk" and can pin u down with one finger, remove your tight jeans with another finger, remove his own trousers with another finger, wear condom with another and open your legs with a shout.

The guy no drug u, no threaten u with knife or gun... after plenty romance the guy don charge reach brain and him wan bleep u no gree and him just remove all ya cloths and open ya leg just like DAT?? Wanraful!!!!

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Buahahahahahahahahahaha... You bad gaan!

oreos:
Ode!

Fish-brain!

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Ode sneh
Ant-brain sneh

classicB:
.who are those guys saying I used "all men" in my thread?? I didn't. You guys should please stop the mentality that "I spent my money on her so she must have sex wimme" we didn't force you to spend your money same way you shouldn't force sex on us. Your giving should be because the girl deserves it and not because u have a hidden agenda.called sex at the back of your mind. If Youcant spend.on a girl without expecting sex pls stop spending at all. We ain't no sex worker.

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You sound very cheap and very dependent... No insult intended
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Must a man always foot ur bills? How will a man regard u girls? When all you do is expect a man to take u guys out just to eat? And to mek orders for ur siblings and grannies at home!
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Men respect ladies that will sit out with a man yet foot the bills and or contribute to it...
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They're other places to hangout with a man... It mustn't really be an eatery.
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Sometimes u can surprise ur man and take him out to places! Make life easy for u and ur fellow girls.
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And next time u want to open a thread... Try and advice ur fellow girls to stick to one man! So that we won't be raping u girls back-to-back.

Girls with fish-brain.... They've never been serious with their own lives.... They will say no sex..and yet still...they'll be admitted in the hospital over unwanted pregnancy or on abortion clinics....
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Girls are so confuse that....they will say they don't need a man for money...but for love... One will jst wonder the difference between money and love!
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Girls will claim they're smarter...but end up being used and dump!
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Girls are like Nigerian police, When they see a man that wants to love them..they will reject it... But will arrest a man that wants to use dem. And what baffles me is that... Sometimes you don't just have to say much... Just few words will turn dem crazy! They so confuse that they get emotional when they're not supposed to...
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Sometimes one will sit back and wonder if these girls of this techy generation are naturally born idiots!
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My friend says... He used to respect women based on the size of their bombom... But he realised that the bigger their bombom the more they're lose.
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Before u guys come here to banter me with ur unwelcome insults.... I don't really care about you girls coz I have never cared!

OrlandoOwoh:
PDP populated by corrupt governors is a known fact.

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The same populated corrupt individuals are now pledging their allegiance to APC. What difference does it make now?
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Since EFCC and ICPC, which were set up by the PDP's Olusegun Obasanjo, it's only ex-PDP governors that have been indicted by courts.

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APCs are no saints.... They've got corrupt ex-governors in their midst as well... Why do you people try to paint them clean? Will give u a rundown of few EFCC ex-governors that should and that will be indicted by the EFCC.
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Here, Mr Modu Sheriff who defected from APC to PDP last year is equally facing the EFCC...
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What about Raji Fashola? His $400,000 website scam? And his N1.18b pedestrian scam?
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Timipre Sylva is also facing the EFCC over his six-count embezzlement case.
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leaktimesng.com/efcc-set-to-arrest-2-pdp-4-apc-ex-governors-over-n1-39-trillion-looted-funds/
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No governor of the AD which metamorphosed to AC, ACN and APC has been indicted. Tinubu who came under Code of Coduct, couldn't be indicted.

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According to sen. Waku, a leader of the APC, in a statement sent to journalists in Abuja on Saturday, described a situation where Tinubu would be allegedly using his personal relationship with the EFCC Chairman “to embarrass and torment fellow party members” as unfortunate.
www.punchng.com/news/tinubu-behind-toyin-sarakis-efcc-ordeal-sen-waku/
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Tinubu isn't a saint either, this man will cover his tracks and his watchdogs(EFCC) will side him... This are the crime investigators... Set up by a criminal OBJ. These two corrupt men are under APC... I don't expect EFCC to go after them nor any other APC, except they've got somebody in their midst that they don't like and perhaps somebody in APC that is fighting against them! Just like in the case of Tinubu and Saraki's wife.

Physika:
Sneh !
Foxxy d goal banger sneh
I appreciate sneh

To keep it simple
Thanks for the sneh

Baddo sneh
Is a big psycho
I am a fan sneh


Did i confuse u still ?
Aiit.. In layman's lang it means love

To them psychos
It means.. street credibility/acceptance/approval/et al sneh..

#Sneh

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Ok ooo sneh
e mek sense sha sneh

Physika:
U are welcome boss.. Wil see what i cn do..

*grabs.mic*
Sneh
Yanabasee sneh
U dunno sneh

U aint in 9ja sneh
Gbogbo boys sneh

Hope u nw undastnd sneh

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Nahhh....I still don't get it. Often, people will apply the "sneh" either at d end of a phrase or somfin!
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I stay far south....trust me...things drop down here after decades of trending and makin waves!
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Is it from a track or just psycho words?
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All for you bro...physika....

Physika:
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Modify ur post nd remuv ur e-mail id.

Will message you asap.

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Thanks you can tell ur close friends as well.... Three more people will do.
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Whats "sneh" by the way! Its seems to be trending!