naijaboiy:

"No" doesn't always mean "No"

"No" is not "No" when the act has begun already with your consent. You can't call that rape.

I'm not one who goes with that "seductive dressing" line of thought.

Donariok:
just shut up OK, I don't expect you to b online after that show of shame , ur sense of reasoning is too low ..just try n think mature ok

classicB:

I dnt hate men o! Haven't you see any of my post here where I totally support them?? Will I have bf if I hate men?? I have male frnds but since my escaped rape experience I stopped visiting guys. That I stopped visiting you doesn't mean I hate u

iPopAlomo:



Do your so called trusted boyfriend almost raped you..? lmao...

dinachi:
@ ClassicB, you are the same with a rapist! You are both sinners before God.
You are comitting fornication with your boyfriend who is not married to you and you have the guts to point accusing fingers to men who are created in the image of God.

EggovinMma:



Look, I don't know why younger guys get or feel bad about this.10 years may feel exaggerated, maybe but I the limit I can go is 8 Years.OYears.There is nothing risky or bad about it! I love the maturity I see in them, period!

Pidggin:


What are you correcting? Someone wrote her opinion from her experiences as a woman and from things she has heard and seen why is it so painful to you. Whether her opinion is right or wrong I believe people are capable of making their own judgements. Some ladies have visited guys who they assumed were friends and got molested or even raped. Betrayals are real and some women have to live with the psychological impact of this for life which in some cases may have been avoided.

EggovinMma:



Look, I don't know why younger guys get or feel bad about this.10 years may feel exaggerated, maybe but I the limit I can go is 8 Years.OYears.There is nothing risky or bad about it! I love the maturity I see in them, period!

EggovinMma:


Sugar daddy or bitter daddy o, all join.I have never liked younger guys. .My ex was younger, na everyday we dey fight! Very immature! Can't stand it! Irritates me.
Encourage rape ke? I say if girl won fuccck, make she go see guy wey won fuccck too . Everybody is happy! No stress! No tales by moonlight!

Vyolet:
Even a prostitute along Allen road,when sex is forced on her,it is called "rape".
There is no justification for rape.
I bet all the guys justifying rape here would never ask their sisters how she was dressed if she came home and said she was rape.
If a girl dresses seductively,can't you take your eyes off her?

I once met a guy on social network and we had talked for a long time before we decided to meet. we never talked intimately neither did he ever asked me
out,I decided to pay him a visit on his request but went with my sister,I noticed his reaction changed as soon as he saw her. We chatted and left his house about 40min later. He then sent me a message asking why I came with my sis,he wanted me alone,he claimed i was immature for doing that cos he thought we would have nice time. I deleted him straight and tagged him " potential rapist"
If I had go e alone and he couldn't have his way gently,he surely would have raped me.
Many Guys are just so confused.

Toks2008:


You too get sense my dear. All these ladies dating a guy with about a year or two older than them are probably fooling themselves excluding the ones above 30 as they seem matured enough to know what they want

dinachi:

That is saying guys should expect sex anytime the babe visits because eggovinmma says visit only if you want sex from your boyfriend.

adeoti01:
Op you tried tho...
But you get time to reason with such thread Ooº°˚˚°o ...
Seriously...when I see any thread like that coming from a lady,I don't even check because I already know she belongs to the league of cheap group of feminine circle...I have and know few that they live well with virtue and reason above this general view of common ladies...Rape is bad; we all know...but please show me a lady that's raped and I will show a potential loosed brainless girl...I can only vouch for 1% of rape victims (ladies) and I know what I'm saying...tis my field (psychology)...

emusmith:


Deserves it? How please?

classicB:

We are talking about emotional torture here, having sex with my bf won't put me tru that okay?? Are u now saying rape is justified just.because it's also a sin as lieing?

Toks2008:


Sweet heart how are you?

Please i would like to visit you since its now dangerous to invite ladies to our domain

Rendition:
hahahhhahahah buh really women with big bumbum dey mk brain oooo just kidding lol

softysparky:
You want to accuse me of rape?

wordbank:

I don read about old men wey die on top small gehs wia dem dey fucck ooo... I don dey for hotel jam woman wey find her husband come dia scatter d place burn d man car for the hotel front and she even carry her pikin come. But wetin concern me as much as I dey get steady pucci weda free or paid for as much as say she carry 3 years senior me cos toto wey don slack na bone hollam! Period!

dinachi:

Both fornication which you are comitting and rape is sin so before you condemn rape make sure you are not fornicating!

yanabasee:

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Her information was misleading.... Even when she advised other ladies not to visit men.... She acclaimed that she has a boyfriend... Such opinion isn't just contradictory but very inappropriate. Her opinion doesn't count, if you ask me! She should bent on psychological advice.. To enlighten girls about the type of men to visit and the ones you shouldn't visit and also for a girl to date just one man and use her women prowess/power to change the man and keep him for as long as it takes and not to be jumping on men and be getting raped!

yanabasee:

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Maturity isn't by age! Its by how much you can articulate and mature informations!
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Secondly... A man who doesn't battle or gives u trouble doesn't really care much about you...they will spend on you..which is exactly what u desire for... The matured men u're talkin about got one girl and told her he will date her and also help her but doesn't want her to get married to any other man! But he's married and have 3kids... The girl is clocking 36 this year and she's still enjoying the money... That's ur class of friends... But just this year... The man left her and get another younger girl... And she's stranded...! You better use ur head and avoid falling for men with sweet tones!

ronald4lif:


It seems like the 'bitter' is the 'trigger' here but since we both agree they're acting like they're indeed bitter then let's address other issues.

I read the thread but didn't follow up the ensuing comments or the controversy it might have generated. I was just enraged and had to get busy with something else just as its was a Sunday morning. The caption and contents was a slap and insult to Nigerian men and reading through the first page and saw the commendation she (the op) was getting I had to stop reading further. I'm not supposed to be faulted for not having a grasp of what went down there.

Granted, men constitute the higher percentage of rape cases but this hardly crosses the mind of a lot of females when reacting to rape cases as its usually evident from their comments where they posit and make sweeping statements which classify all men as rapists or one in the making. Yes, the unfavourable percentage on men should influence a person's decision on how they react to rape cases but not to the extend of classifying all men as rapists. That connotes nothing but outright bitterness and mischief. This false notion seems to be embedded in a higher percentage of women and it's about time some starts enlighting them that rape doesn't borders around women.

Someone need to remind some mischievous characters that rape isn't exclusive to women. Mentality like that is what would make male victims of rape hold up in the closet and lick their wounds rather than come public with their plight.

I haven't come across Toks2008 comment but I have that of Dinachi who himself and some other few alluded on the Mr. Baruwa lecturer rape thread that women's mode of addressing are responsible for rape. I air my opinion on that for I don't delve into issues on gender basis and wouldn't mind exchanging contrary views with them on anyone for that matter.

Pidggin:


You don't have the right to suggest topics she should write on. On the contrary she has every right to write on any topic she chooses as long as it is not against the rules of the owner of NL. If her opinion doesn't count to you, move on! She wasn't writing to guys, she was warning ladies who can choose to listen or not.

sleek82:
you are very wrong to label him a rapist.....some guys would see that move as a dick move, I would feel the same way. If a guy wants to really rape you, going to his house with your sister wont stop him, all he needs to do is call another friend to handle your sister. Trust me, not all guys you judge from afar are really whom you think they are. When i met my woman who happens to be my wife now, she also thought the same way, she thought i was just there to have my way and run. Even after telling her what i want, she still ddnt bliv and she came up with the 'no sex' relationship which i was able to handle till we married. If i were the guy, i could feel bad that you brought your sister, not because i want to do smtin bad but because the fact that ur sister is there might not make me get as intimate as i wanted to be (not in terms of sex)....i could want to ask you some private questions, share some intimate stories etc

DeeTus:
Stay away from irresponsible guys then.

EggovinMma:


Men with sweet tones Lmao! Me I no dey carry marriage for head o.I dint go into relationships with marriage on my head o . This person you are talking about is married na.Please purge your mind of the fallacy that a guy who us more than 35 must be married.Fmarried.For my area here, plenty 37-40 old are not married and still jobless/wealthy

iPopAlomo:



So your so called trusted boyfriend almost raped you..? lmao...