Money is not making happy but its giving a warm and secured feeling.

Nigerian woman are running after well paid guys with status for posing, by hoping to have a life without much work.

In europe they use to say somebody must be able to afford marriage out of love.
Marriage and family construction can help to bring u up. And who doesnt want to be sucessful in Life?

If a plumber will be well paid ladys will start to run fpr them.

ESE mister,
this vocabulary I know but I like to make conversation with it. I have a big dictionairy but to put the words in the right order is something other and the Ibadan press from 1957 is anyhow not talking the same yoruba like people use today. The pronuniation between my motherlanguage is almost the same like yoruba. Only where a word is starting or ending I can`t here. Like by ODABO it is one word for me.
BAWONI? sounds like one word, but how I learn to speak it to make conversation with it? Clearly I am able to say BATA MI BULU or something like that. But what this helps for conversation? For example how I can ask somebody to help me by something? And can you explain me the constuction of sentences? Thanks a lot.

Thousands of nigerians are not speaking their native language well, I have met a lot of people using mixed english and whatever. It gives people who are made to learn languages and some are not. For me its hard to learn a language and humans are lazy, they are choosing the easiest way, which was english. Don`t blame yourself, learn it now! Look for somebody who speak it to teach u. Greetings.

Hello!

I am europeen and will be wisiting naija in some month.
Who would teach me some yoruba basics? Mu fe ko yoruba.
Pls. I don`t want to be saying only "femi si le" or odabo. Or did anybody has an idea how I could learn it without paying big money for.
Looking forward to hear something from u people.

By thinking about this election some days ago I came to the idea to think about democracy all over this world.

Do you think it gives it really and what is the most important fact in democracy for you?

My opinion is:
All over the world money is ruling the politics and not the population. In some parts of the world they are better in hiding there dismanagement but at the end of the day they make politics for themselves.

I will like to hear much comments to it.

yaoemi

I think is a natural fact that a woman who wants to get pregnant, and not that she is thinking that, her body thinks it, is putting on weight. But to say it in fact to put on weight does not mean to be fat! I am talking medically about 3-5 kilos. not more.

Equal how people are calling it #"bride price" or whatever. I am white and after i have been first time in Nigeria i have prayed the people not to loose all their culture. All over the world they had a lot of culture thousand years ago. I have grown up in Europe, by their euorpeen culture, where families are not standing beside anym,ore, etc. I don`t know , and it`s not my right to say anything to this bride prize but all the time i am hearing here, this culture is old, don´t belong in this world anymore, and and. Not only by this thread. Everybody who thinks like this pls. think about what makes human being to be an human being ? I think his culture is a big part of. Without the education is flowing away as well. If someone loose one part of culture he will loose another one as well.

Not to understand me wrong now, it gives a lot of culture thing to change there, about widows, about behavious to woman as well, but , Carefully and by thinking about if it is really good to run after the "white world".

For europeen people every one of the native languages is absolutely hard to learn. In Europe it gives only a small amount of letters which you build in the throat. But all the native languages have lots of them . For Yoruba i know for example that i could live over years in nigeria and native speakers would hear the different by `"gb" Its not possible for me to pronounce it well. the same like africans can`t pronounce "ü". They need many years for it. And to learn a language means to live with the people because to learn it only from books doesn`t mean anything.

I have the situation, not with a pross but kids ot of wedlock. I don´t really know if i like him to come back, but the kids i love. They haven´t done anything. And they are sisters to my son, also i don`t know if i could take them but before they would live on street i would do. How i should explain my kid that i killed his brother or sister by not helping.

Depend from situation, one is not nice, it will be alone, i dont like. Two will be better, they are not alone and they can share a bed if there is no place. lol   but really anything between 2 and 4 is all right i think.