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omooba969:
Correct chick!































Will you marry me?

alawin alert!!!

Well OP much as you took sides already,and ur criticism was not constructive,you still have a point.I am not married but I know one thing for sure that no matter what,this is africa.the moment a lady decides to be married,she should be ready to take up certain responsibilities.she needs to be matured not really by age but at heart to handle situations especially with inlaws.when she knew she couldn't help her mother-in-law with chores,a simple phonecall will go a long way.just check on her and let her know you care and are concerned.I believe we women should treat our in-laws thesame way we will like to be treated.if after you've done your best,they still complain or are trying to take advantage of ur niceness(if there's a word like that)ehen den u are free to put them in their place.My opinion though

Na wa o Nig Army.Do u always have to announce ur plans before executing them? How dull do u think those guys are?so dem go hear una plans go sleep dey wait una abi?mtchw oshi o da n'le pako!

Happy birthday to me and every 24th baby in d house!!!

Noted.

24th.pls add me to d chat group justjify.

Chai!!!!!!!!idowuogbo and coogar mk una no use laff kil me abeg.

I am fat nd am proud to be.wat matters most is ur carriage

I gladly will

GODZY007:
April 24...anybody?

yes o! Nice meeting u birthdaymate

[quote
author=laiza post=29296103]Am I the only amazing April born here. April
24th. April born stands out but 24th is just an exception! [/quote]u can sure say dt again.24th is an exception.nice meeting u birthdaymate

[quote
author=Jollyjoy post=31613736]D crasiest thing i have ever done for a
guy i mean my b.f is giving him a second life by donating him my kidney.
Now he is an ex,due to natural circumstances. Indeed nature has a way
of cheating us. smh![/quote]ehn?kid gini??.my dear,if e die i go miss am nd i go cry wella bt giving him a kidney is a NO NO!

A sincere "i love u" does it for me

[quote
author=mollytinrox post=29882242]Jan 10th, that fateful year.

was hurrying to work from tbs. boarded a keke marwa heading for keffi
street, he was in it. I alighted on awolowo road, he did. I crossed to
the total filling station side, he did. I let him walk away so I could
go my way, and then he stopped and asked why I was stalking him. I told
him I was going to work, and it turns out he works in the building next
to my office complex.

so I was in this relationship which was apparently heading no where, and
I thought he was married. I never did ask him though. one week after
the relationship I was in fizzled out, I was so heartbroken my boss
asked me to go and sort my self out for 3 days. he saw me when I resumed
and asked why I looked so haggard. I told him I just ended a
relationship, and burst into tears. he looked at me with such
tenderness, and comforted me. then he said it meant the coast was clear
and he could move in. I gave him my evil look and told him I wasn't
dating for the next two years.

anyone who knows me knows that my shakara is legendary. he would call
me, I would ignore it. he would send me pings and I'll just read and no
reply. He deleted my number from his phone and my bbm contact.

anyhow, May 14th that year I said ok, let's do this. He proposed to me
July. 16, my birthday and we gott married Dec. 14. Same year! As I type
this our daughter is sucking with intensity and kicking her legs in the
air.


As to how I knew he was the right man, well, he wasn't like them other
men I had dated. He is a positive. pusher. He backs up his motivation
with money, advice, and monitoring. He also commands my respect, and
didn't actt like seks was. all that mattered. He always put 'us' first,
not all these 'me-me' guys we have. His devotion to God is top notch,
and his future prospects are aligned with. mine.

sorry for the epistle, but nothing as sweet as marrying the friend you
love.[/quote]ds has got to b no oda but my darlyn Gbadeski!!!

Interesting!!!c una mouth!curves ko,bend ni.

U r highly welcome bro,pls mk urself cmfortable*offers him a glass juice*

Mae sirei au - ebira

bliss2al:
April 24th... dis one dey here so?

yaaaaaay!!!!!i tot i wldn't c my bday mate.nice meetn u bro!

DukeNija:
Bros abeg no vex o, is it your wife who doubles as life partner and
mother of your children you are referring to with such disdain?
You seem to be a very angry person who feels he's doing a woman a favor
by marrying her. I am not married, but I felt the urge to say I am very
disappointed in your choice of words towards your wife. I take care of
people who are not even related to me by blood, financially and
otherwise and I never feel I'm doing them a favour, how much more my own
family.

You sound like you were forced to marry her, like you didn't propose to
this woman, didn't buy her an engagement ring and all that, like she was
begging to become your wife. I went through your post and I couldn't
even find what she did so wrong for you to hate her this much, even up
to the point of contemplating divorce.

Using words like "putting her under my roof", "feeding her and our kids"
"bitching about everything" is just too disrespectful to your wife and
I'm afraid your marital challenges can be traced to your negative
attitude towards your her. Please approach your marriage with a better
countenance and see your wife as you see yourself by truly loving her
and sincerely appreciating her contributions to your home. And yes you
need to praise her for cooking, cleaning after you and your child,
taking care of you and maintaining the home. Yes, you must praise her.
Try telling her how much you appreciate her efforts and cooking, and how
delicious her food is and see if she won't be overjoyed and do
something special for you.
Women complain a lot, my mom, sisters, gf every woman I know can
complain, it just doesn't make them bad people. That's just their way of
communicating sometimes.

And pls if you are tired of putting her under your roof, u can send her
to me. I have a very large flat with four rooms that can comfortably
accommodate her. *Just kidding*

u jst echoed my thoughts.well said bro.

I tell u o

Lol.jst couldn't hlp but laugh.funny dude

Tall and slim

Thanks op.alatise mi lo m'atise ara re

chukwudi44: The
Bible contains 73 books and not 66.The actual breakdown is 46 books in
the old testament and 27 in the new testament.Please kindly correct
that.

nope.it contains 66books.39 in d old testament nd 27 in d new testament xcpt if u hv ur own customised bible