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No matter what, cheating is not an option. It has never solved the problem of marriage, and will never give you satisfaction. Instead, you will be filled with guilt, regrets and insatisfaction.

Talk to your husband again and make him see how starved you are. But don't argue or make statements that will threaten his ego. He may misunderstand you there.

If you have an older couple that guide you (which I believe you should. It is important all young couple attach themselves to an older couple one of experience and wisdom) take the matter to them to guide you.

Your spiritual head too: but you don't paint your husband bad before anybody for any reason.

It is sad that people mistreat their grand parents when others would give anything to have theirs back.

You don't know what blessing you are missing I tell you. Sure because of age, they can act funny and frustrating a times. It is normal particularly if they weren't well educated thus lacked that aspect of mental improvement which formal education brings.

But I can assure you, if you take out time to seat with them and hear them out, you will pick out ancient wisdom from them.

Jobs 32:7 says," let age speak, and advanced years should teach wisdom"

There is whole lot to learn from them. Too much modernity and social media is cheating us of the best gifts we have - Family

Good she could remember her past. Whether some people are playing kalo-kalo with this chibok issue or not, it is good to have them back.

Nobody deserve to be in such captivity or unhealthy environment.

Good one! the boy is a huge talent.

Ojuelegba is really living up to its name. Too many bad things happening there.

AdonisGodwin:
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Calm down! there's still along way to go. Lists are still been released. No need to get worked up now after waiting this long.

As long as we still merge religious laws and Governmental, there is no way we can grow as a Nation.

4 years, 3kids, now both of them are shying away from their responsibilities as parent. I wonder why people are not ready for a long time commitment these days. How quick we are to source for an exit once we have gotten used to being with each other.

Sadly, the kids suffer most because they get tossed and dragged around. Every child deserves to be raised in a home. There will certainly be consequences for what we are doing now. People will have to answer for how they have brought up their children and all the unfavorable situations these kids have had to go through because two supposed adults, are just adult by age and not responsibility.

My advise to those intending to get married and at currently overwhelmed by the razzmatazz of wedding. Be sure to have a stronger reason for marriage than Love/lust physical and material features, passion or pressure. With time, these things will slowly fade away. Once it does, if there is nothing else to hold onto, then your marriage will hit the rocks sooner than you think because these days, people are losing interest in their partners faster than they generated the interest.

They found her walking freely around ajigin with her baby.

hmm!! so many questions on my mind but in will leave them unasked.

But we know boko haram kidnapped so many people young and old during their time. I wonder why the media don't confirm before quickly concluding that it is the chibok girl.

Girlbestfriend:
And you fink u will make heaven with this comment, issorite

I don't need this statement to make Heaven. All I need is Jesus. I hope you believe in Him too?

Since you are a church fellow, the first place to go with such an issue is The Bible and the spiritual authority over you. Hear what explanation they have to say and see if it is consistent with Biblical teachings.

Also, as a couple, I want to believe you have an older couple that you are answerable too as your guidance? you ought to. So take it to them. Nairaland should be a last resort.

Here on Nairaland, you won't get the quality of help needed I can assure you.

Goandie:
guy you just spoke my mind and that what av bn telling Chelsea fans, conte relies to much on the 1st eleven and that bad for a big team coz
when you first eleven start losing form una go ear am coz d coach as not help the other players on the bench.

abi? when you talk, they'll say you don't change a winning team. I agree, but you can tweak it a bit particularly if as a coach you spend time monitoring the play.

Sadly, Conte doesn't monitor the contribution of individual players. He is always apprehensive hoping for a goal. Once it comes, his mind calms down. But if you look at more experienced EPL managers, they read the game and make good substitutions. I just hope this is a wake up call because we have Leicester, hull, Liverpool and Arsenal.as our next four matches

Chelsea's loss dey vex me I will soon lead a "no comment" protest on Nairaland so that we can start getting beneficial topics on FP. Not all these photogram of whoever and all the snake and pre-wedding advert shoots that have taken over this forum.

Gone are the days when topics will have to trend for days to make front page. Nowadays, every topic gets to FP with the hope that it will trend.

Enough is enough jare. We need inspiring topics and those that will help the young ones to aim high. Not those that will encourage unwholesome behaviours and crowd mentality.

Unless if the whole essence of this recent developments is to generate traffic for the forum and more money to the owner.

So Conte finally remembered Batsuayi today wey market fall press am?

Dropping a player that had a man of the match performance and scored a brace in your previous match for one that wasn't even on the bench was a poor decision.

They will say he started the same 11 for 22 matches in Juventus. Well, this is EPL not serie A. The difference between teams is small over here in England.

Maybe it is time to shuffle things up a little bit because for the last 5games, irrespective of the results, opponents have been matching up to Chelsea. He also needs an alternative formation so that on a day when the chips are down, he can easily switch. That's what Mourinho is doing at United.

Play certain guys more so that they can be used to the system. We have the record of using the fewest number of players this season. Isn't it obvious that through careful study, other teams have started understanding how our individual players play? look at Moses for example. I don tire jor! make I pray go sleep jare. The match has ended,so has my analysis for the week.

I just know say the moderator no go mind leaving this thread on FP till next week if him fit.

Blue is still the colour and football is the game.

Gap cut down to just 5points damn!!!
on the other side of London, Arsenal have dropped to 5th on the table

ThankGod our next match is an FA cup tie

Fabregas for Kante

Willian scores twice against Stoke. I wonder why he didn't start and is still in the bench at 2:0 down.

thoollz:
I remember in December when I said this chelsea team isn't good, people came for my head, then tt were still playing champions league, now they're not, they r weak to defeat them even with complete players

baba forget that talk. Everybody has got to lose sometime. Besides, it is still game on.

Moses too dey fall jare

omo Na like dis e wan end Alli has scored a brace in the last 3 games.

Willian should come in for the second half because Pedro OS don't making Rose work.

Azpilicueta needs to step up too.

Tottenham Hotspur scored with the only shot on target.

It won't be easy, but we go come back. Hazard, I need your magic. Just hope that Cahill will hold his own and avoid a red.

I must say I have been impressed by how we are playing.
Go Blues

Good start for Hazard. That's how to do it against spurs.

Hostility has started. We must keep it tight at the back. Early goal for Tottenham Hotspur will do alot for their confidence. While an early goal for us will crush them.

Clemsworld:
Who will inherit your fourth position, if u ever win the league

help me ask am o. Because they finished in an unfamiliar second position last season, they are beginning to feel fly.

shegzdee:
dull vision

Don't worry, as the game goes on, the Vision will become clearer.

This January is going to be tight. I just hope Conte will shuffle the team more. Particularly against smaller oppositions so that we can save the legs of some of our key players for the home stretch of the league.

January is here! Conte should begin to identify quality re-enforcements. It is on record that we have some of the brightest talents on loan. We can bring back some and begin to use what we have to get what we want because currently, we have a record of wasting talents.

Our performance in January and early February; in our next five matches, will go along way in determining how soon we will clinch the title.

Thankgod for Hazard! as long as he has the ball and forces Vertongen and other defenders into making fouls, we sure will have the edge.

Dier looks good for an own goal or penalty.
Vertongen is sure for a card. Hopefully a red.

Line up out: Tottenham playing a 3-5-3. Walker and Rose as wing backs. I hope they suffer the same fate of City.

Willian on the bench. Hmmm!!
KTBFFH