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Oro oro dog.

These dogs can chop shìt eh

Put him fire

Na wa o.

People are actually dying for Nigeria

Meanwhile buhari's jet at Heathrow is consuming £4000 daily as parking charges and tax.

Times £4000 (500 naira to £1) to 50+ days buhari had been in london...

I weep for my country

kocvalour:
chai
poverty na bastard

Poverty is a bastard that has refused to stop giving birth to children sadly

Show mercy nah.

U never thief before?

Hopefully she won't do it again.

However hunger is what makes most kids to steal

Doctorfitz:
I cant count girls I know who fvcked their ex boyfriend a day to their wedding and continued even after the wedding and even after giving birth to kids.

U'd be amazed how married women fvck around. Who no go no know oo

Lol a day to wedding...

Na wa o

double0seven:
It's just too obvious that this is LIE.

Bros forget o. People dey see all manner of rubbish in the name of marriage

A man is his house... imagine nonsense


Bros u weak me o. Push that disrespectful bìtch out of your house

What rubbish is that

pressplay411:
Can you take a minute and shut the Bleep up.
So what you're having marital problems? You're not the first neither are you going to be the last, so dont even entertain that i want to end it all crap.
Worst case scenario, he leaves you and you become a single lady again at whatever your age is. Is marriage all your life achievement and life goal is all about?
Single successful ladies every where having the time of their life, and I don't need to mention names.
Besides what makes you think you won't find love again? So many guys out here don't even want kids maybe cos they're already single fathers or they just don't, so many don't mind adopting.
My point in essence is life goes on. You just have to accept your fate, reevaluate your life and concentrate on what matters... What makes you happy? How about making an impact on your career, business, as a philanthropist, etc I'm sure you have an idea what I'm talking about already.
Really it might seem like all hope is lost but you know what, it never is. Stay positive, stay interesting, stay interested. Live. There's a lot to life.

Damn straight!

Fourwinds:
please don't say dat again... If d man is lying d wife would have discredited his statement long time ago

Abeg wait. What if she has but does not have access to the media?
Also she may not want to argue with her husband in public... think about it

manikspears:
Say what? Na wound wey go never heal we want.something wey go still show in her lying in state.

I was referring to the emotional wound between the brothers.
Besides if he kills his sil he goes to jail and his mother will suffer more.

kennygee:
Make I no just talk.

What achievements of hers made her merit the appointment?

What are the achievements of her male counterparts?

Support you fellow woman.

She not a whorè but and educated young lady. She deserves it.

shege45:
my house na my mama hwz ooo

Not when u are married.

Your house is then your wife's house.

Mothers should avoid this and stay on there own.

I'm a woman. I won't live in my sons house except invited for short period

Greenbullet:
Look At What My Elder Brothers Wife Did To My Mum ( Picture)

As I am speaking right now, I am fuming, my elder brothers wife has always hated my mum, and yesterday she showed it, she Beat my mum because she could, she injured my mom all over her body, I swear to God I will beat the shit out of this woman , I am on my way to my brothers house, my mother is not her house girl that she can beat like she owns and my stupid weakling brother will also feel my wrath , I swear to God

OP. Don't try it. Rather if u have a sister tell her to go and beat the shìt out of the woman!

As a man don't lay a finger on your brother's wife. Such wounds will never heal...

pocohantas:
Nawa.
Man wahala again?

A young lady in her late 30s is his niece?
Then how old is the said fiance?

I hope you're not about marrying your forefather?

I tire o.
Late 30s... his niece... I smell lies

sanpipita:
Seriously our education system needs to do better, comments I read here befuddles me, people are more concerned about her moaning than what could have triggered it, getting raped can damage anyone for life but for us rather than protect the victim we are hanging her out dry more, what a society we live in

It's really sad. These are supposed to be educated people...

No wonder we are so backwards.

Two foolish boys who don't know the cost of garri in the market.

Igbo get out before its too late!

All northern states should also leave the ss and se!

All oil block licences allocated to northerners should be revoked or else oil production will be halted. Nonsense.

SmartyPants:
You are going to absurd extremes in defensiveness right now. Why do "we" have to be sure about the bolded? The husband was there, he was sure. And the wife has not come out to say any such. If you import facts in answering a college-level problem question you get a big fact zero so you are the one behaving uneducated.

You also sound inexperienced with women. ARE YOU AWARE THAT SEX VERY OFTEN DOES NOT ACTUALLY FEEL GOOD?? If a woman is not wet, SEX IS NOT ENJOYABLE FOR HER. And women don't get wet simply because you stick a dick inside them. They have to be aroused to get wet, and then sex would be enjoyable. So if she was enjoying the sex, then she was aroused.

I did not categorically state that she was moaning out of pain.
On the other hand u have concluded that she was moaning out of pleasure... just because her husband said so.

About being inexperienced with women, there are so many ways a woman can get turned on. For some it's instant for others it take much more time.
But trust me when there is a dick inside the vigina, the thrusting is a turn on! That's why at first a woman may be uninterested but after a while she's heated up!












By the way... I'm a woman.

hedonistic:
Would it have been better for the man to stay in the marriage and torment her with frustration and even domestic violence as a result of his inability to achieve closure? We're talking about emotional and psychological scars here, and everybody has different tolerance levels.

If he had kept her at home and eventually beaten her to death out of frustration, people like you would still shout 'why didn't her divorce her if he knew he couldn't forgive and forget the incident'. Cut the man some slack.

OK now imagine this.

Some homo-sick guys burst into your house, pull ur pants down and rape u in front of your wife.
Your wife out of fustratration picks up mortar pestile and beats you to death a few weeks or months later.

Honestly how does that sound to u?
Pls with a mind set like this remain single cos if you can think of beating an innocent wife to death over a situation she had no control over, how much more when she does something that offends you?
I'm guessing in that case you would not only kill her but also her kids and entire family!

By the way if he has strength to beat a person to death, why didn't he beat the robbers?
What a cowardly a accession

SmartyPants:
absolve.

There are two things that happened here: One, the woman got raped. this was a sad incident that no one could help. Second, the woman enjoyed the rape. Now in the mind of the husband, whereas in the first place he is feeling angry, upset, and weak for not being able to protect his wife, the wife turns around to actually enjoy the encounter. So in the first incident it was not her fault she was raped. It was no one's fault.

In the second incident, enjoying the rape, we now can only speculate as to whether it was involuntary enjoyment which is unlikely, or whether she actually was in a conscious state of enjoyment. Are you completely trying to rule out the obvious possibility that she consciously enjoyed the encounter?

If you can agree that this was a possibility, then do you agree that the husband should be right to feel offended by such enjoyment?

Are u serious?
U are an educated person. But what I just read sounds like it came from stark illiterate!!

ARE YOU AWARE THAT SEX FEELS GOOD?? One can't help it when sex feels good! Damn it! Why on earth would u victimise someone who was raped??
Can those robbers stand before a judge and say it wasn't rape because the victim seems to have enjoyed it??
How are we even sure that the husband is telling the truth?
The only certainty her is that a woman was raped in the presence of her husband!
For gods sake how are we even sure that she was not moaning out of pain??

sanpipita:
Reading this article just made me sad, what kind of country are we living, this woman is being humiliated for being raped. God forbid.

Yes that's our Nigeria. We must always blame the victim.
If the husband could fight off the robbers, why is he then fighting his wife? The victim...

hedonistic:
What would you have done against ARMED robbers, Mr Real Man? Don't beat about the bush. Just tell us what you would have done to protect your wife in that situation.

If I couldn't do anything to the robbers rapping my wife, I certainly won't do anything to further hurt her.

The man is a foolish coward. He had no strength against his fellow man but has the mind to chastise the already traumatised woman! How is that right?

LadyJustice:
But this story is something else oh..is it the woman's fault that she was raped? Wasn't the husband there the whole time but did nothing? Silence as far as I'm concerned means consent! And where in the world does the word "moan" only mean pleasure? She was probably to weak to scream and was moaning in pains! Even if she did enjoy it, isn't she human with hormones beyond her control?!

Meanwhile abeg someone should share the initial link to the first episode of this gist abeg.. I need to share this info.. thanks.

What if the man is lying sef?

SmartyPants:
Can you please answer my question?

What should he have done to "protect" her?

Hiding this sad incident.
Protecting her image as it was not her fault!

Let's be honest this man is foolish for sending his wife away!
Did she ask to be raped?
How can u absorb the man of all blame and them blame the innocent victim by supporting the man?

hedonistic:
Put yourself in the man's shoes. Confronted with three or four ARMED robbers, wielding guns, while you have no weapon. How would you react? Fight them unarmed? And when you're shot dead, they would still rape her anyway, and then what?

U die a hero. Lol.

I'm not saying he should have fought them. Though it's his responsibility to protect his family, he definitely shouldn't have sent her packing!

SmartyPants:
You are contradicting yourself. First you say he should have done nothing, next you say it was his job to protect the family which means he did not do his job according to you.

My question is simple: what should he have done to prevent the rape?

I'm not contradicting my self.

I said he should have done nothing in the sense that he shouldn't have sent his wife away or made this incident public!
It is his responsibility to protect her. He he couldn't do that, he should have not sent her away!

BetaThings:
This man is useless
If they were homo-sick and forced him, will he allow his wife to tell people how he was overpowered by men and now bleeding from behind?
He should have protected the woman's secret

He is inferior as a man.

He only has power when it comes to woman. He saw his fellow men shagg the brains out of his wife and couldn't do shìt about it!

SmartyPants:
So what should he have done sir?

Fight them, get killed, wife gets raped.

What is your intelligent solution to the problem?



Very few people would know that a woman can orgasm during rape. However those case are actually very rare and the enjoyment only lasts during orgasm from what i read up on it.

In this case the woman may have been enjoying the entire session since she was moaning (present continuous), whereas it should have been painful since lubrication only comes with stimulation. i mean, isn't this why women say you have to do pre-intimacy first, and they can't have sex when they are tired, or not in the mood?

He should have done nothing. If he couldn't stop the rape he shouldn't have sent her away.
It is a man's responsibility to protect his family.

By the way why are u trying to judge the woman's sexual appetite?
Do u know her?
Have u slept with her before?
What if her husband is lying about the moaning sef?

Xda59:
The women who have orgasm while being raped are sex starved whores who moan like this shameless woman.

I'm just wondering how a person can be sex starved and a whoŕe at the same time

Foolish man. Instead of him to ask her how the robber did it that excited her so much so he can up his game, he is busy sending the poor woman packing.

She should not worry. A better man will marry her.

Tolexander:
A woman beats up a man, it was called an epic display by the woman .

But if it was the man that beat the woman up, it would be called violence and assult aganist the woman!



I hope when the otherwise happens next time, you won't come to disturb the media to register your hatred against it?

Yes! That's the way it should be! Because men are naturally stronger.

Why would anyone sane man throw punches with a woman?