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fitinwell:
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The question is...

Why are you in a hurry?

Why?

Why do you want to alter the process of self delivery?

I wish you could still have time to answer my question?

Dude is the weight of 15kg was tied to your balls and it kicks 24/7, wouldn't you be in a hurry to off load

Run up and down stairs.

Eat pineapple

Take some spoons of castro oil

Have séx, make sure you cum multiple times

I have 7kids. All natural births at 40-41 weeks

I won't call it failed but it's hard.

Especially if you are not friends.

Marry a friend you have a lot of common interests.

If you both want the same things and think alike, marriage is indeed enjoyable.

I didn't tow this path... I married very young.

My spouse and I are two good people committed to our vows but we have little or nothing in common.

Our commitment keeps us together.

My sis got care job in uk and only paid admin fees of 350 pounds after successful interview and letter of employment issued by her company (NOT AGENT). COS was sent a few days later.

The asked for passport
Police clearance and
Relevant qualifications

I never heard of these requirements...

1Sharon:
Lol I wonder why you have alopecia?

Alot of nigerian women don't have long hair.

If you don't know how to take care of your natural hair and believe your hair is "hard" or can't grow, you will treat it as such. It's a shame.

Your definition of alopecia is short hair?

I'm literally bald on som areas of my head. No growth whatsoever.

My mother had it. My sisters as well.

So stop with this blanket statement. People wear wigs for different reasons!

BusterG:
I'm a guy and i honestly support this.

The one that baffles me is when seeing African ladies wearing wigs abroad.
Like WTF, how do you expect the people who you bought their hair to admire you.

TEAM NATURAL HAIR/AFRO/DREADS/DIDI/ALLBACK........ ANYDAY ANYTIME TWICE ON A THURSDAY

I have alopecia.

Wearing wigs is a must for me

wirinet:
Please watch the video. What other qualities of a good man than providing for the children and paying for their education. The children were in school when they were with the father, they dropped out on going over to their mother. Who out of the two is a better parent?

It is never the mothers responsibility to pay school fees whether the children are in their fathers custody or not and besides, the children are now adults. It is them that will decide who was the better or less negligent parent.

dabongys:
My prayer for you is that you don't have a bad wife. Especially if you are the busy type.

Amen. I already have a good husband.

I have a good father as well.

Nothing on earth can make my son hate his father. Nothing. Even if a turn to a devil, I can never convince him that his father is bad because his personal experience with his dad supercede my opinion.

Same with me. Nobody can tell me my father is bad. I can never hate him.

My brother equally loves my dad.

For an adult child to say he hates his father, that says it all.

Both I and my son are adults...

Emeka Ike is not a good family man, rather he is using his family for media relevance to promote his movie.

Godforbid!!!

DiskJokeyManic:
Shut up pls..... De topic at hand if not for sensless ppple like u..... If onli u knw hw most women manipulate deir children into hating de father.... U won't be here talkin dis thrash

Most women.... your mother manipulated you against your father and you now hate him.

Sorry, in your case that proposition might be true. You're clearly a digbat

patrickcollins:
What do you mean, he trained him, paid his school fees, most boys always think their father don't love them but would later appreciate their dad when became men

There's more to being a father than paying fees pls!

The person in question is not a boy but an adult.

He hates his father!

None of his parents were perfect but one was clearly better than the other!

By the way, what can be said of a man trash talking his family just to promote his movie?

Coolsat:
Emeka just go resurrect issue wey don die so as to promote movie but the woman has decided to be in the mud with him this time around. Na the kids I pity most in all of these kos their mental health is already messed up. Africans no dy care about mental health of children so parents are allowed to toy with their brains, sad sha.

As for Emeka and his ex wife all they need is healing.

Anyone with half a brain knows this.

Emeka Ike son says he hates his father.

That's enough evidence that the man is not a good family man.

No one can poison a person against their parent. It is what you experience growing up that informs your judgment of your father or mother.

God punish ona, ungrateful bastâřďş

superlanny:
Trusting a Nigerian girl is as good as believing APC will change Nigeria, you are just wasting your time. Its being a while I heard the word virgin, and I can categorically state that being a virgin is totally useless in this times, only a fool and simp will believe all this virgin crap. Nigerian ladies are easy pickings for legit sex romps if you know how to go about.

That's the women in your family, I know lots of chast young girls pls

A girl saved herself and gave you her virginity and you are still doubting her child

Wtf do men want sef?

Beremx:
Even men that married virgin wives are doubtful of their kids.

Na wa o!

He is just too insecure or even jobless cos I no understand this one at all.

Efna55:
I got married to her a virgin and we never intend having babies early because I intend putting her in school, to cut the long story short she became pregnant and I was very sure about the natural methods I used, there were also many circumstances that made me think the baby may not be mine, the baby is few months old and I took her to do a secret DNA test while the mother went to school for some registrations, the diagnostic centre said without the mothers consent it cannot be done..
Pls advice..

Guy, REST! If you force her for DNA test and the child turns out to be yours, she will resent you!
How can you be having sex with a young girl and not expect pregnancy?
Even tubal ligation which is the highest for for precaution fails!
Allow peace reign and stop looking for problems where there is none!

God has given you a beautiful family enjoy it. Don't ruin it!

ednut1:
There is one major characteristic of those men. They used money to entice the woman in Nigeria. You are a 29 years old man doing well, na 19 years old babe you go date or marry. Sponsor her through school, pay her parents rent and siblings bills. Now the bad part- emotionally and physical abuse, her opinions don’t matter, during NYSC you quickly marry and give her belle and prevent her getting a career. you know she cant leave because she is dependent on you.

But when you reach abroad, she can enter lucrative fields like nursing and tech. Starts earning good money and contributing to the bills. With her workload, child care . Many Nigerian men refuse to adjust to the realities and demand she cooks, does all the chores like in Nigeria. You still carry cheating come abroad. With time she begins to see there is no need for you and sends you packing. Many times its payback for patriarchy in Nigeria. Marriages where the man was a good man in Nigeria mostly still waxing strong abroad.

My sister's husband that used to be macho and abusive is now as loyal as a dog abroad. He loves his children and realizes he can't do the bull shit he used to do in Nigeria anymore because she can live without him now

EvangelistChuks:
Lack of fear of God and proclivity to fulfilling fleshy desires.

Why do men expect women to have fear of God when they don't??

optimusprime2:
The secret is this, if the hallmark of a marriage is patriarchy, it can Never... I repeat NEVER survive in an equal view environment.

Simple and short.

luminouz:
I'm a redpiller, you are a pūssy!!!

We are not on the same wavelength....

Na so. Myron/tete repill freak! Carry on. You'll learn the hard way

luminouz:
Before I marry anyone ... Trust me I would have really dealt with her and trained her to my taste. She would have seen me at my worst and STAYED. So New York won't be an issue with her.

Or I wouldn't marry her in the first place.

Better remain in Nigeria with her. If you leave her here alone, she'll have a side dude just like you will have abroad.

If you go with her.... well... you'll end up in jail or dead with this mentally!

It's simple, they now have access to finance and money gives you options!

So the men must behave!

This politics is very political!

Cute

After they will say women are petty.

She has even suggested your brother join her, what else do you want? Abeg free the woman! Marriage is not slavery!


If it's you won't you go

gidyambi:
This is the prototype of virgins and not those old cargos that are presented as virgins

Those are actually teenagers. It's the black paint that makes them look somehow.

You dare not present yourself if you are not a virgin.

Shalommy:
Congrats...to them. Chaii... Hardly see pretty girls as virgins..... Why??

My daughter is a absolutely stunning 27 year old corporate chic virgin. She's my pride.

Mistake?? How


Heads must roll!

Yet another fool made governor

With both parents working minimum wage in the UK, a family of 5 will have the basics i.e food, shelter and clothing without much stress.

This is way people japa.

Nope. Heaven is not for sale. You must repent and give your life to Christ and walk in His ways to make Heaven.