₦airaland Forum

supajizy:
Is Buhari the one hoarding the passport? Or the tout conniving very with officials? We are our problem not Buhari abeg. Hold ur Immediate leaders accountable. That's y there is a Comptroller General of Immigration.

Story. Would u have said this under Gej?

Buhari has messed Nigeria up! Nothing is working!

Maduawuchukwu:
Madam have you thought about the fact that the man's business is still not even and the babe has been pestering him for the money like though he is a scam?

Why does he no longer take her calls?

pedrilo:
i wee not add it, come and beat me ma

Lol.

I am a woman who has worked hard and by the grace of God I can say I have it all.

pedrilo:
no wonder, u be typical house wife. doh

PROUDLY!!

But please add legal practitioner and business woman to that!

supersystemsnig:
Which one is i should shut up. Did i stratify myself before you ma'am? Yet another stereotype..

I said u guys should man up. I never said shut up.

Jung:
Then wetin you dey find for Nairaland ma?? Pride na die
Must you tell u say u get money? Later now when somebody start using ur facebook profile picture to fan body... U go start to cry

U can't get such information from my nl acc

pedrilo:
sorry, u sound like a liability woman!
ur sis, ur husband, everybody spending on u, who u help?

I help my family.

I help in being my husbands back bone and support system. He calls me his anchor!

I help by caring my husbands children in my stomach for 9months and bringing them forth in hard labour and pain.

I help in raising and training God fearing children making us proud in sch.

I help by cooking his meals, making sure our home is always clean.

I help by playing the perfect host to his friends and business partners.

I help in taking care of my father in law.

I help my husband by being trust worthy. He trusts me with everything.

It's called being a WIFE!
I don't need to give my husband money before it can he said that I have helped he.

Hope you get that.

supersystemsnig:
Aunty lawyer....pity our brothers please...these words are too heavy, they'll crash the site...

Abeg you guys should man up! I know it's not easy but nothing good is ever easy in life.

What makes a man is his ability to provide for his dependants.

This will never change. That's how God made it.

supersystemsnig:
Stereotype

Whatever

alexialin:
My dear, God will keep blessing your husband..hes a real man!

Amen!


Most Guys here are vultures.. I pity ladies who take them serious.

They are up for one chance!

I'm telling u! Hungry bastards!

They have no shame. No sense of pride as young men. Back in the day it was every man's goal to be successful.
But know we have young men just looking for every possible means to milk a hard working girl dry.

Just imagine the comments. The op gave her bf 500k with the promise that he will payback.
Since then he stopped taking her calls and is acting up. Isn't it obvious that the guy is a scam?

Linux007:
And some broke girls suddenly have an opinion. Come back and advise us when u have a responsible entrepreneur boyfriend u can 500k to run a business.

I'm not a broke girl. I'm a married woman with kids. A lawyer and successful business woman.

My hus is self made. He hustled like the way real men do.

There was a time my sister took me shopping and Spent a considerable amount of money on me. My hus sent her back the money as a birthday gift. He said it touches his ego...

That's the kind of man I'm married to. A real man's man.
Not the ones I see here on nl.

Pisure of the tear tear pant

PMWSpirit:
This country is fvcked up, we import our own identity

Yep

Jokes apart Nigeria is just a disaster under buhari.

Things have never been this bad.

I know someone who has been waiting for more than 7months for passport.

I personally have waited over a year for my drivers licence?

Wth is going on??

Is buhari still formating Nigeria

bakila:
It means there is no basis for the agitation since it lacks the support of the representative of the people.

Here we go again.

Who dose it represent?
Does that include the Igbos?
But 95%of igbos want a referendum.


The constitution of Nigeria is a BAD LAW and cannot be forced down the throat of those who is agree we it.
How can't the wishes of such an overwhelming majority not have any possible means of being granted?
How is that fair?
Was Nigeria is existence before1914?

If these issues are not addressed and are continually swept under the rug Nigeria will never move forward.

I just hope the entire south can push for restructuring and devolution of power. That's the only way out for Nigeria.

Good night. It was nice having this civil argument with you

Immee:
Hello fellow nairalanders, pls advise needed on this issue.

My bf and I have been together for a while now and planning on having our marriage introduction by November and marriage proper early next year.

Im an independent woman with a gud job. As a matter of fact, ive never made any financial request from this guy though he buys gift for me without requesting. He is doing well financially too, he runs a recycling factory while I work with a manufacturing company.

Things are working well between us since the relationship started untill recently when we had some business deals together ( my opinion though) cos I don't understand him anymore. He was broke at that time and needed to get some materials which he never budgeted for. He requested that I invest in his company by paying for those materials since they're coming cheap and he doesn't have enough to get them at that time and wouldn't want to loose the opportunity. I consented to the idea cos I knew he's business was very lucrative and that I'll get my money back with interest. He promised to be paying me a weekly dividend so I thought of giving 1 million naira. I made an instant transfer of 500k to his account as dts the maximum I can do daily without a token and I wasn't with it then.

The 2nd day dt I was suppose to send the remaining money, some issues occurred in his company in my presence. He had some major issues with some of the equipments in his factory. He had to stop productions for some days. So i with held the balance as it wont be neccesary since there was no production.While repairs were ongoing? I had to liase with some of my junior colleagues at work who are engineers to help my bf cos I found out he's engineer's aren't capable of handling the situation as dts the first time he would experience such. As God will have it operations started back in few days with the support of my engineers.

My concern now is since things went back to normal in my bf compan' he's yet to keep to his promise of the weekly dividend he said I would be receiving from the investment. As a matter of fact , things has changed between us cos he no longer call and hardly pick my calls. I communicate with him mostly thru SMS now since he wouldn't pick my calls. I'd sent messages to him to return my money without interest and he has promised to pay back with no time and date of when he's going to pay back. I even had plans of going to his place today since im off work so as to force him to go to the bank with him so DT I can get my money but he left the house early in the morning with excuses that he has a place to go and would return to my place after leaving there.

Pls guys how best can I get this money back from him cos I know he has it but playing pranks on me. I don't mind loosing my relationship with him as I don't trust him any longer.

Don't mind the silly hungry boys here on nl. The truth is no responsible man will comfortably take money from his gf.
If he has no other option but to take from his girlfriend he certainly won't be an asś.

I hope u get ur money back and dumb him. That's not a man. He will wreck u.

olaremint:
If your story is true then i can only say the truth. You are obsessed with money. The dude is testing u and u have started to fail woefully. I just hope u have not done final damage as u don't deserve the guy. Money monger.

Women don't like being tested. Just like men.

TheRealestGuy:
You are a callous and wicked person.

You aren't even sure if he's broken even, you're not trying to be supportive, you're not even giving him a few weeks to stabilize after some production problems. All you're after is your miserly 500k that you lent to him.

You don't ever deserve to be married cos your type will turn to Jezebel if your hubby ever has financial issues.

If he wanted to scam you, will it be 500K, don't you know he'll be looking for a way to get more?

I pray for that guy that he doesn't marry you cos you will make his life miserable if he ever has financial problems.



Funny thing is that most of y'all women are like this, always quick to collect everything possible but when it comes to giving it's a problem.

I hope you fall into wrong hands that will teach you a lesson of your life since you can't be supportive of your to be husband.

All the harshness was duly intended and I exercised restraint not to call you names.

Have u given 500k to ur gf before??
Why the hash comments

After ideots on nl will say our girls are stingy.

bakila:
Start from the parliament, not by lawless and reckless statements.

But the parliamentarians are sworn to protect the constitution.
The same constitution that is repugnant to the Igbos.
So what's the solution?

Because of how our guys display their primitive uncivilised sense when it comes to women in can't blame her.

Here we go again...

Nobleking2000:
You should also know that your child has no right two misbehave in front of any teacher despite several corrections.

No teacher will also take it. If your child keeps misbehaving despite several corrections. The teacher will have to flog him or her for them to learn the hard way.

I thank God you are not and will never be my child's teacher.
In my children's school flogging or any sort of physical abuse is strictly prohibited.
The children are very orderly and produce exceptional results.
If any child misbehaves they are disciplined with a NON VIOLENT method!
I was not flogged as a child by my teachers and I turned out to be a decent quite successful respectful individual.
Why in God's name will I allow someone flog my child??
Like I said before, NO TEACHER CAN FLOG MY CHILDREN!
Brookstone Primary School Portharcourt.


You guys should enlighten yourselves. When it comes to discipline there are several more effective NON VIOLENT methods.

have they sold her baby or what??


Madam take heart. I also lost my baby after 6days of being born premature.
Worst pain of my life.

Miss you my beautiful Angel...

smardray:
all this things we can't even touch....aren't they abstract.... I tried squeezing it...I realized I was squeezing my phone

Hahahahaha

nengibo:
Brexit was more of economic matter not seccession a better example will be dat of Scotland

Make no mistake. Brexit is secession from Europe! The British don't want to share their country with migrants especially those from the middle east.
The British themselves know that Brexit is bad for their economy but they don't care. Provided they have their country back.
As for Scotland they were threatened that if the leave the UK they will be thrown out of the European union which is of great economic value to Scotland. I can bet u that there will be another referendum for Scotland once Brexit plans are finalised. This thimerosal it will be an overwhelming vote to leave the UK. Watch out.

Back to Nigeria. We both want the same thing. One unified Nigeria but FG needs to stop being an asś about this whole ipob issue! It's only making kanu into a super star.

Negotiation is the only way forward not military. Besides Nigeria needs to be Restuctured. There needs to be devolution of power in order to put an end to tribal wars.

bakila:
Tell me which country has conduct a referendum by a microphone request. Lets not add from an uncouth and braggadicious nonentity, full of bile and threats.

Pls tell me how the British got the referendum for Brexit?

No be lie. If u look at the negativity of comments from Nigerian you'll know it's borne out of fustratration.

comradespade:
See this liar as if we don't have eyes *pfft*

Look at the semblance.... Even their lips is striking




Quote me n die

So 2 people cannot look alike?

bakila:
The 95% should send the documents for the amendment of the Constitution to enable secession. One fool cannot ask for arms to wage war and promise to bring the head of the President to Ohafia and expect any further massage of his ego. I have seen a lot of Igbo people do things in many parts Nigeria to debunk your 95% wanting to leave assertion.
Miscrent who are terrorising Nigerians and want to harrass our soldiers cannot rely on your last paragraph. Igbo people were protected by the Federal Government action of preventing reprisal attacks.

Pls what documents are you talking about? Have they not being asking for referendum?
I still maintain that there is no military solution to biafra. Nigeria cannot afford to go into a war.
buhari is just too insensitive abeg.

soberdrunk:
So after all the hype and shakara' nah this low budget Oyinbo she finally marry......

Genny is worth almost 2b naira. She can afford a boy toy.

She can afford to buy u if she so wishes.

Nobleking2000:
In as much as you have trained and disciplined your children but there must be times they will misbehave so in such situation the teacher should clap and applaud them for their misbehavior.

Nope. The teacher should discipline without violence!

Detention. Extra academic work clean up etc!
That was how I was educated in schools.
That's what's is been done to my kids when they mess up in school.

No teacher has the right to hit my child. I won't take it!