didi100:
Good evening all.I'm an old member here but because of shame I created this account.This post is long,pls bear with me and read to the end.I'm 23 years old,my baby sister is 12 years.
She's in a female boarding school.We parked to our own house two years ago and my mum's secondary friend daughter is living next to us.So whenever my sister come back,she will go there and visit her.We allow her to go there as per only girl in the house and a friend is just in the next compound.
They are also some boys around that are + and - 3years her age if I am not mistaken.I and my Mom have warned her about those boys.My mom always tell her to be mindful of them because she is a female and if anything happen,she will be the one to bear the consequences.
She came back for her first term holiday,my mom gave my sister her old phone because she has some primary females friends and our female cousins too she like communicating with using my moms phone so my mom gave my sis her old phone to use.
Yesterday,I wanted to look for something in the phone.She was begging me to give her the phone and I shouted at her to open the phone.I just felt like opening the gallery which she didn't know of and I saw a picture of a boy's dick.I was surprised and confused.I scroll more.I then saw pictures of her snapping her breast and pictures of her vagina.She didn't know I saw all this.I asked her to remove all the passwords.I left her presence and went somewhere else.
Then I open the WhatsApp and saw the unbelievable.I could not believe my 12years old sister is this rotten.My mum warned her not to open Facebook but she opened.I also saw dirty chats.On the WhatsApp I saw porn related stickers and porn videos a boy sent to her.This girl was smart enough to put on disappearing messages.I must have missed some dirty acts she did.
Pls help me.I'm in the University and most of her holidays,I'm not around.I feel like a failure as the first born and senior brother.I never thought or imagine my sister will be such.I need you guys advice.No body in my family know about this except me and she will be going back to the boarding house on Sunday.I need your answers urgently.What should I do Pls matured response only. I will send screenshot of what I saw.Pls Admin,send to the front page
Modified:For the virgin part,she said her ex school.That was primary school and the boy which I know was her classmate.He should be 10 or 11 then

Oga you need to sit her down and ask questions but before the questions let her know the effect of what she's doing, let her know what might happen if she did not stop, let her realize you're having that conversation because you love her and you're scared for her future. After that is the time for questions. Her first time, what led her into it, is there a mature mind somewhere leading her on. There are many solutions in her answer.

It is good you get to know before she's pregnant. I know a girl very close to me she get pregnant at 17, it was then that her parents get to know that she's been active sexually at 10. The person that even deflower her was a big bros that everybody respected and he's been fuccing her since was 10 yrs.

asid:

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Replied Sir.

CANDYDADDY:
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I'll save up the 10k and add it to my brother's school fees.
My phone cannot do screenshot so I fail in that aspect but I really need the money.

2k. But what God cannot do doesn't exist. It can turn to 20k before the end of the day.

asid:

I saw your email notification Sir but I don't have access to the email linked with my profile anymore. Please mail me on Ohgeebee95@gmail.com thanks.

Karleb:


What about your mum or any other family members that could be of financial help?

Maami dey face her Hubby's wahala. Family member ke? My P-man is even considered the breadwinner before his predicament.

tete7000:


God sees your intention, he knows it is noble, he will see it through. He wills it, see yourself only as instrument he is using. He who have started this good thing in you will bring it to a fruitful completion, and while you do it, he will also fulfill your own innermost ambition. Just keep praying and never stop believing...Have faith.

Thanks for the encouragement.

Karleb:
What about your parents? I mean the boy's parents?

My dad was really trying pre 2019. But since 2019 he's been suffering from something called "Ewon" in Yoruba (It means chain in English) It start from mid back to the abdomen and gradually moves to the mid back again. Once it connects at the back such individual is as good as dead.

Wish I could explain it better. Thanks.

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tete7000:


Finish what you started. "Once the hand is laid on plough, no one who looks back is worthy of the kingdom of God-Lk.9:62"

Thank you sir. I pray God shower me with blessings to see it through and not waver. Thanks.

Vello:

I sacrificed my youth for family. Sponsored one outside the country and another through school (not fully though) gave all my salaries to elder sister for months so she could further her education. I sacrificed all my savings for entire family so we could be the envy of other families. I later secured admission to Unilorin years later, same sister called me bastard when I begged for N5000 loan so I could sustain myself till after exams.

I wish I hadn't remembered we were family

I wish I were as wise as I am now.

Those same siblings today are my strangers far as I'm concerned. They don't even know whether I live or dead. They don't care.

Sacrificing for family is good but, never at the expense of your life goals, dreams and ambition. They would only respect you for what you make of yourself and never for what you do for them.

Far as this topic goes, the choice is yours

Thank you for sharing your experience with me, it gives more room for thinking. I really appreciate it.

God will surely crown your efforts. Thanks.

IamMobisola:

I know. Like I said let your younger bro get a job now because Na still work e go find when he finishes his HND 2. Let him look for work now and save money for his HND2

Thank you very much for your advice I really appreciate it. He's currently learning programming/coding which I really like.

occfx:


There is need to be selfish... But do what you can to help siblings and also help yourself. Join the people that needs help.

To get help during this period is quite hard, I just joined a cooperative society, after some month I'll be able to solicit for help.

asid:


What's the amount needed?

Ha bros. It's roughly above 100k that's why I'm troubled.
My brother's fees and rent is 200k. My potential school fees and admission processing is around 150k. I have 100k and I know I will be able to push it to 150k next month which will be sufficient for me.

IamMobisola:

You have tried in your siblings life. Now that your bro is done with HND1, let him go and look for job and earn himself some money too. You need to start thinking of yourself too, pay for your part-time studies and continue working. Your brother needs to pause his HND 2 education and look for job. If your brother knows about your situation and is still bothering you about his HND 2 fees then he is a very selfish person.

Look out for yourself, you have tried enough ooo

I took up the responsibility in the first place because they're SS

Thank you all for your responses I really appreciate it.

My life have been stagnant for like 4-5 years now. I work in a factory and I also sow clothes.
I've not been able to spend money on myself or to pursue my dream as a result of family responsibilities.
I'm a drop out of FUOYE and I'll so much love to go back to school but the plan has been failing for 2 years now.

I've obtained a part time form from Adekunle Ajasin University Ibadan campus last month hoping to start the new session next year but my problem now is that I have a brother that just finished HND 1, his rent has expired and he'll pay his school fees this January.
I paid his rent and school fees for HND 1 and he has notified me for HND 2.
My fear now is that time us running out for me (I'm 27yrs now) as I sincerely wanted to go back to school but I can't sponsor myself and two siblings.

Should I wait for another year or everybody should carry his cross?

Ikinternational:


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Once again, the good Lord will bless you. I really appreciate the kind gesture.

Ikinternational:


Have I entered wahala?
Guy no be by force to give out your account details

Not at all. Thank you very much Sir. As you surprise me today God will surprise you with life's good riches. Thanks.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:




Pls try abstain from gambling/betting.

Thank you sir but I've put that in check. Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it.

Ikinternational:



Your Yoruba name dey scare you..lol
Oga we're not like that o
We fvck with those that fvck with us

Alright Sir. But when in the beginning God created neither Hausa, IBO, nor Yoruba. We're all humans.

Sorry for wasting your time. Can you please edit your quote with my account details. Thanks.

Ikinternational:


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Afolabi David

Ikinternational:



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Oya send

Thank you Sir.

Ikinternational:

How much sir

#6,400 sir.

Ikinternational:



Very reasonable man
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Sorry to disturb you boss. Can you please help me out, I need to buy some drugs. Sorry for breaking into your conversation.

Yeah. We exist.

I'm not against drinking, smoking or womanizing. I just don't feel like it.

Despite the fact that I've worked in a brothel and I control at least 6 girls then but It's just like I'm dead to the three.

koolpal:
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kenearth50:


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Airtime received. God shall reward you abundantly for this.
Thanks.

Any good Samaritan in the mood of Christmas should please share me data.

Earthen:


Someone suggested Wema to me earlier..
I have also heard GTB and Access are relatively okay

Don't put access in that context. I stopped using access when I wanted to withdraw 3k and the ATM gave me 1.5k. I spent so much on transport yet dey neva rectify am.
Network issues is too frequent with access bank.