we , most of us here in america are trying to move back to naija.

send to cocobutter2002200@yahoo.com. i dont want to put my phone number here. i am having problem sending mail through that emai u gave me

where is this place, i have been away from nigeria for over 13yrs and i am now looking for land to buy and start building

justdumb, i am educated, registered nurse. i am very happy , no regret.

@justdumb, you must be one of those ignorant man. it is ok to express how i fell, weather married to naija, oyinbo, arab, it does not matter , what matter is women should be treated with respect in any race, any nationality. when a woman is doing well or making more money, or have her own business , it can be intimidating. i know people here that are very happily married and the one that left there wife for another woman because they have there own business, i have seen them all. they are married legally with the family involve in there marriage and the marriage went down the drain. it is just not meant to be, marriage is not garantee. pray for your soulmate. i know people here that got married second time and they are happily married with no problem because the man change his attitude about women. i did not regret been married before because maybe it is not meant to be. i am not here looking, i am here to read about what is going on in nigerian community, i have been gone from home 12yrs never visited. justdumb dont like the true, they said the truth is bitter but i will say what i feel. god bless american, there is freedom of speech. this place is for people to communicate and express there feelings not to make enemy.

shenique, i agree with you, this people are married for a while before they got married. there is no garantee in any marriage. sometimes this men want to do whatever they want while they are married but the woman cannot that is why we have aalot of divorcee here in american, nigerian perticularly. mostly yoruba men. you will see ibo man treating his wife like egg, holding her, treating her like a wife, respect her, cherish her. you cannot have your cake and eat it too. alot of them here in chicago will have a lovely wife with kids and also have another one outside the matrimony have her ring too having another family outside. i think most of our yoruba men here should change there attitude and there bad behavior too, expecially the one that live here in america.

that is not true, that is what we taught me until the girl was send parking. i own my house before i married and when i divorce my house is not joint, i still have my house. no joint anything

here in america, they give the baby to the mother. the man cannot take the baby

@sale, what law is that? they will first send the man out of the house if she call 911 for domestic violent. but if the man own the house even if you have the same address , they will send woman out if the house is in the name of the man. one of my sister was married to a man here in chicago, the man baught the house before he married the woman. the police came ans send the lady and her new baby out. they are both yoruba couple

@doespiner ,the materials here may not cost you that much but the labor here is always more expensive than materials, i am into real estate here in america too. i looked into that solar system here it will cost you close to $30,000. i have a neighbor here that have it by my house.

if it will cost $1,500 everyone here in america will have it by now. i live in yankee. $1,500 is my mortgate payment every month. i would have put one in my house right now. my gas bill is $500 just to heat my house, electri bill is $100 per month. give me that person's phone so i can get me one for my house

@wafijoe, that is why i am looking for something to invest the money , i want to use the money to make a little bit of extra so i can buy a land in december and fence it.

i will never be a housewife, i want to work and make my own money and help out in the house too. i want to be able to go to work or do a business, i will be so deppress if i become a housewife

that is why aids and hiv is spreading around so much now. this men will go and have sex with a man with no condom and later go back been straight to a woman. i think everyone should get tested every 6 months, all this deadly disease everywhere

solar system here in american almost close to $30,000, i was trying to put it on top of my house until i knew how much. if it is that cheap in south africa everyone in nigeria should have it by now

to topea, can you pls send me some of those properties. i am interested in a 2 duplex that share walls with eachother that i can keep on for myself and rent the other with 4 and above bedrooms around ebutte metta or lagos in a good neighborhooh. i will like to know how much will the mortgage be abd how much down payment and do they pay monthly like we do here in america. give me an idea of how the payment will be in naira and dollars. i pay mortage here i have an idea here but i dont kniow about the way it goes back home. cocobutter20022002@yahoo.com

that is true nwaka because i use to be married to one before myself

i had alot of nigerian women are dating the asian now in nigeria. even the white men in nigeria are taking over

frank, that is so funny, that will definitely make him open up

if they are cheap designer stuff, they are directly from china. they are not the real stuff.

i have been looking at different website from china manufacturer, i saw alot of stuff there that will be good to sell. i saw the prices too, cheap

john, i was looking into that kind of business myself but it will be very hard to bring name brand product from china to america. i was looking into opening a boutique here. will $20,000 buy me a full container of goods to sell in nigeria and do you have any idea if people will buy those stuff in bulk. i dont want to open a shop, i just want to be able to use that money to buy stuff from china to make money because i want to use that money to buy a land in lagos.

i was telling some nigerian from the other website that we do have incest in nigeria too but they did not want to believe. i was like 21-22 when i was still living in nigeria that i saw by neighbor , we call him uncle john that share the same bedroom with his daughter that is like 30yrs old. this my neighbor have a 3 bedroom flat, all her daughter stuff is in his bedroom, they sleep on the same bed. i was very close to this family, i some time spend the night at there place, i swear one day i walk up on them while she was coming out of the shower and her father was waiting for her with the towel outside the door and he wrap her up naked with the towel. i almost fainted. this have 2 sons that live with them. the girl drove all this man's girlfriends away. i remeber i went downstairs to tell my parent, my mother was very upset, they send me away to live with my uncle in ikoyi until me and my parent and my 5 siblings move back to america. sometimes we talk about it. alot of nigerian kids have been molested by member of the family but they want people to talk about it. they want people to have it on there mind that it never happen, just dont talk about it. there are bad people everywhere