cococandy: What is the cause of the animosity between them? Get to the root to solve the problem.
You know most of us Nigerians are superstitious. I've heard people believe that one can use pictures to do juju for someone else. 
What is your wife afraid of that she's not telling you?
Uncle you can't leave your wife for that reason. Let her apologize to your mother for hitting her back and getting into a fight with her. Na old woman she be o. What if she'd injured her seriously in the fight? Old people are fragile. She could have tired to endure the slap and wait to tell you when you get back (easy to say I know).
As for your mom, when everything is settled you need to talk to her. I know old people are revered, as such almost worshipped and can do no wrong in the eyes of traditional laws. Still she needs to be more peaceful. The pictures don't belong to her. Since she asked your wife and your wife said no, she should have waited until you got back to ask you instead of slapping your wife. Is your wife a riffraff that can be slapped anyhow? So annoying 
She could have even asked you before you left since she knows she doesn't get along too well with your wife.
Those two ladies she brought to visit with her, why didn't they stop the fracas before you got there? I'm suspecting them.
For her to slap her DIL in the presence of visitors means it has been decided that she has and deserves no respect in your house. Sad.
Pls set the boundaries in your home o.
I don't know why women won't let their sons have peace in their marriages. bae if sm1 does dat 2 ma mum she'll leave coz I knw ma mum. Vewi well she won't gt mad @ sm1 4 no reason. |