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ebusfav:
To mark the 2017 World Autism Day, Femi Otedola's daughter writes about her autistic brother .
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Billionaire Femi Otedola's third child, Temi Otedola, has shared a moving story about her only brother, Fewa, who is autistic. According to Temi who wrote the article on her blog JTO Fashion, she and her siblings found out about their brother’s condition in 2004.

Her's what she wrote;

Autism Awareness day was launched 9 years ago to raise awareness and conversation about the people living with autism around the globe. with this in mind, I have
decided to share my own personal experience with autism.


Before getting to my own personal journey of loving and knowing someone on the autistic spectrum, I think it’s important to first describe what it is to those of you reading who are less familiar. Essentially, autism is a social development disorder which affects the cognitive, communicative and interactive ability of the brain.


People with autism struggle with heightened sensory stimulation and need a lot of attention and support from their parents, teachers and siblings to ensure they can lead the most productive and happy life possible. Raising awareness is not the main goal at this point–understanding is, and even more important–acceptance. So this Autism Awareness Day I ask for all of you, to appreciate, love on, or simply accept those living with autism.


How has autism personally affected my life?
In 2004, my mum called my sisters and me into her bedroom. With the composure only a mother can have, she told us that our baby brother, Fewa, had ‘special needs’. While my sisters asked questions, all I could do was think about what this would mean for me, the already overindulged, youngest of three girls.



Thankfully, my selfishness quickly wore off and Fewa quickly became the centre of our family. The role of an older sister always entails some sort of responsibility. However, the role of an older sister to an autistic sibling is a great deal more work. At first, it seemed like every day with him was a challenge, especially for my mother. I remember seeing my mum helping Fewa with simple tasks like brushing his teeth, helping him to get dressed, or feeding him lunch, with each day ultimately ending in exhaustion. Our family has been so blessed to have help from carers, but no one can deny the resilience my mother has had raising Fewa. It is the thing I most respect about her.



Every day, I see him becoming more independent. Our relationship is becoming less one-sided; I can truly say that we are friends. Fewa doesn’t need anyone’s sympathy. He is the most genuine and caring person I know. This is probably why I have never seen Fewa’s autism as necessarily and totally negative, it is a unique characteristic that adds to the complexity of the person that he is.
I am not naïve or unrealistic. I certainly have some gnawing worries about the future.


Fewa will always need support of some kind. At age sixteen he still requires 24 hour help. I would say that the biggest misconception about autism is that people who have it are socially inept geniuses – Rainman, anyone? Yes, that is true for some autistic people, but there is a reason the official term is “autism spectrum disorder”. It is a spectrum, and it can range from children who are not able to speak at all to children who can go to normal schools.



No matter what I do, I need to build my life with Fewa in mind. My parents won’t be around forever, and his care and well-being will become the responsibility of me and my sisters. It is true that consideration for Fewa will always affect the decisions I make in my life. Despite this, Fewa is by no means a burden. These worries do not reduce the immense love I have for my brother who has brought so much joy and shown me the purest form of love. To quote The Bard, “Love sought is good, but given unsought is better.” It is Fewa’s unconditional love that has shaped me into the woman I am today – a sister, a teacher, a carer and a best friend.


http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/04/heres-what-otedolas-daughter-wrote.html

Sweetie are u married? You sounded so reasonable

adorablepepple:
Disobedience is the root of all these problem, and madam couldn't manage with Oga since he is retired....... women these days everything is domestic violence mtceeew

best is for everyone to go litrate and do internet banking. Its even safer.

Abasi. nice but local

call

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Did you go to that juju woman on your profile to ask for him to come your way? If yes, go ask God for forgiveness and run from ur dear life. Abroad men and women are sick. Trust i have being there.

Your entire family are bastards. Your biiitch prostitute mother is cursed.

Philinho:
You're too foolish. did anybody noticed you're not going to church for over 10yrs?. a day shall come

Bros I just made ur likes 70

Nwodosis:
To be honest, Jonathan took all the blames when he was in power, Buhari shouldn't be an exception!
Based on this facts, I'm with PDP on this, Buhari is responsible for the suicide dives!

Afonjas will always be local. What is mama imade? Besides dis sofi body is still in the market. Just got hard on

akinlex:
Sophie Momodu gets a rare shoutout from her babydaddy

http://looknaija..com/2017/03/motherday-davidos-baby-mama-gets-rare.html

In as much as I didn't support that ashawo girl, I also hate all nigerian pastors with all my heart mostly oyedepo, dunamis and coza. You said u have forgiven someone and u are chasing her away like an animal. No care to know if the poor woman has eaten or has t-fare with her. Jesus didn't teach us that way. A prostitute came to Jesus and he received her. Fuuuuck sule, fuuuck all nigerian pastors. I haven't been to church for 10yrs now and God answers my prayer at home

Sometimes this Americans are sick. You put mexico as number one but Mexicans are visa free to all schengen countries, uk, Ireland, Singapore, Hong-Kong, south Korea, and recently canada. 139 country in question. If they were that bad, why did other countries welcome them so much? Bleep Americans. I pity those who will apply for u.s visa with these mentioned countries visa in their passport.

And that sick ashawo will get another afonja woman to act as her mother on the phone. useless girl with hiv

You are so foolish and stupid like the olosho born by a bitccccch just like ur mother

paparazzi1987:
You mean there is no taxi in canada ?

You brain is really dead or has been striken by poverty

Please tinubu should wear shirt oooo we never finish with his mouth odour and we go cum see yeye belle with chest like meat wey dey fridge without nepa.

Stupid lies. She said she is now in Toronto and in a taxi. Fake olosho.

Enemyofpeace:
abeg make I finish with her first before you bring out that your small prick wey be like a two month old baby

gay u don see my dick b4

Enemyofpeace:
Dis woman toto go sweet die from the back. Abeg wey my Vaseline?

Bro u know better thing as me as sweet without condom

All i see is a mom who worked hard to bring up her son alone and their mother child relationship is strong Noting is wrong with the pic. They are just on holiday vacation. Nigerians are too local and read meaning to everything. Beisides, see sweet and fresh bumbum Na dis type man dey take on from behind while she go dey mess softly poo poo

Nobody should come to abuja from kaduna oooo that road wont be safe until the airport in completed. I had rather travel to abuja from lagos by road.

Does these artise use this as form of rituals to fame? don't understand why these useless guys dont get scared of AIDS! Piitee

zoey4:
God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. bikonu pick up my call

Stop looking for high hopes and God will answer. God back to Jide

Ok

Get a good lawyer. Their in serious trouble for assault and battery. Keep the pictures. Sue for good money and u will sure get paid. When it gets to the IGP, he will sack them and beg u for settlement. Please I repeat, life has no value in Nigeria, leave now before it gets worst.

Is the military now a cult or what?

IpobExposed:
Better join us so the police can't touch u and Jungke justice can't reach u. Join the military

An nobody killed the policeman? Mehn he rather kill me too when am there or he dies immediately. Fucccck nigeria police, fucccck idris IGP.

informant001:
A 16 year old boy, Obinna Iwuoha, was allegedly shot dead by a trigger Happy police Sergeant, Wilson Ufere on Thursday at the infamous "Ugwu Omiri Lawyer" on Anara - Umuahia expressway in the okohia community in the Isiala Mbano Local Government Area of Imo State. The policeman reportedly went berserk by killing the teenage boy while three others went in coma, owing to the injuries they sustained from the bullets he fired at them.

Reports have it that the tragedy happened when youths, mainly teenagers who were in a rally for their church crusade which was billed to start on March 25 (today) had a flat tyre, at “Ukwu Omiri lawyer”, a metre away from where some police men were on a road duty.

One of the police officers insisted that the youths must remove their vehicle from the place, but the youths of Emmanuel Healing Power Ministry Incorporated, Uguiri, told the cop they were unable to move a vehicle with a flat tyre. An altercation reportedly ensued between one of the police men and the driver, resulting in the police officer allegedly slapping him consistently for three times.

Ufere, who was on the other side of the road and was not a party to the argument, emerged from nowhere, shot at the youths at a close range, killing one of them while three others lost consciousness.

Meanwhile, villagers have gathered at the residence of the deceased to mourn his death...

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2017/03/16-year-old-boy-shot-dead-by-trigger.html

Babe one year is too much. 3months. Unless workers are put in place to train people on how to behave.

NgeneUkwenu:
Just give it one year...it will turn to Abule Egba Bus Stop...Abi no be Nigeria?

This news will make dollar high soon. I knew it's a temporary stuff. Those shouting change, slow and steady are on the long thing.

Curse be upon ur family too.

IpobExposed:
Jonathan jailed so many comedians


U can see how Buhari is friendly.

Jonathan was a very evil president.


All the hardship today can be traced to Jonathan.


Jonathan jailed comedians but see how Buhari is living lowly.


Twale Baba.


I love u Baba


Sai Baba

Curse be on Jonathan. He cannot do this