Hey bro, I know it's been two years, and it has not been easy, but never give up. Continue to apply, also find something doing pending those application. I hope you get a good job.

Saw so many comments here, and I still can't find one that talk against what Ozil said. It only goes a long way to prove we are all hypocrites who don't like to hear the truth

Op, she has social anxiety, you should know it's not easy for her to go out and socialize. How about other good traits she has? Cos of one trait you don't seem to like, you're thinking something else. Why not try to understand her and not be selfish. Many people would even want reticent woman.

You should focus on helping her rather than condemning her

To be honest with you bro, you don't need to be giving a condition to be loved. Focus on your career for now, that's the most important thing. Love alone can't be enough, cos in the long run, having a steady income is very important. being broke is one of the worst things in the world, at least here in Lagos, you have a focus and a target, but in Abuja, you don't even know anyone except her. Make her see reasons why you should stay in Lagos, if she truly loves you, she will understand. But if she doesn't, bro, just move on, and you don't need to be afraid of not seeing a better girl, I promise you, a better person will come. A better person always comes

Femijohn198:
my brother don't because of a girl or woman denial your Christian faith,because you will regret it in life.you're a man not a woman.And in Nigeria is a man that married a woman not woman marrying a man.please done do what you will say if to say i know.

How about you who denied your faith to come comment here huh!