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It is possible to do the two Masters at the same time. However, he needs to put some factors into consideration.
1. He MUST not run the two programs in the same school
2. The two Instituions must not be far apart... for Instance, if you are in Lagos, UNILAG nad LASU are good options. or UNILAG and UniIbadan. not UNILAg and UNIBEN or UNIBEn and UNIPORT when he is based in Lagos...Hope you understand? Proximity is important.
3. He MUST not run the two programs FULL TIME...Obviously your friend is not working I guess. Hence, he can run one in Part time and the other in Full time. The reason is to avoid clash of exams and a quicker completion of one for a freer time for the other.
4. NEVER LET ALONE TELL YOU YOU CANT...LIFE IS A CHALLENGE NEVER TAKE THE LAST BLOW.

My friend (permit me to refer to you as such), thanks to God for your courage and survival energy. Its unfortunate that you went through those horrors and inmaginable pasts..but like it was, learn to make them stored in your past. As for forgiving your parents, its a needful action to cleanse your soul of bitterness and unnecessary burden of hatred. Forgiving them might be a tall order, but they are your parents and they cant be replaced...FORGIVE THEM.
As for the aspect of their whinning about how often you should call, let them understand your position. You are a man and an angry one at that, express your anger (not volatile or abusive) respectfully. Let it be done in a way that will make them remorsed and ashamed of their past actions to you and your siblings (without being rude). This is necessary and essential for your own sake.
As for their expectation from you, if you forgive and made them realize their selfish mistakes, your relationship with them would be born out of love and not struggle; thus it would be easy to stretch your hand to them.
God has saved you and He is taking you somewhere great, dont clog yourself with these anger.

Dont really feel the need to put you down (never the intent of this comment).

If truly you are 20, you wouldnt understand the complexity of human sexuality. Its true that philandering, no matter how the society define or modernize it...its a bad thing. But like every other issue in (dis crazy) life, there is hardly anything with a simple solution to. Even when you are thirsty...several options would be available to quench it. i have lived close to 4 decades and I am telling you that ALL THAT MATTERS IS LIFE IS YOUR PEACE OF MIND. A man/woman is not determined by how many ladies/men he/she has slept with, but by how well you live each day you awoke into. Stories abound of people that your definition of studs/sluts will never do justice to, cos they are existinjg in that circuit and hoping that their frame would someday find solace in a being armed with such mind and peace that aces their past. Life sometimes is not what we get and living in it is just beyond sexuality or names.