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Hey! Gbeborun whats ur stress Anyway Yoba thank God for the mix up that made me read ur story. Just forget about him and mooooooooooooooovvvvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeee on. God will see u through. A proverb once says 'if u have a bird at hand and it wants to fly away, let it fly, if it comes back to you accept but it does'nt, know it was never yours. . Smile huh, all is well. From Umy not Yoba.

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That was a wonderful testimony tho I don't wish him that anyway. I wish him well. Life goes on. About the topic 'My Love'. Though he may not feel the same way towards me, I knew I loved him. Dear, its over 3 years I met him and its almost 2 years he travelled, I've been seeing other guys all these while but I've not been able to love or sleep with any, that shows I truly love him but love as you all said is reciprocal so I've really decided to let go and give other guys a try and hopefully settle down.

Thiefofhearts, I'm sorry that message was not actually meant for u, it was meant for Fatlair. Thanks for all your contributions. I've really learnt my lessons. For those who think I'm not pretty, I must tell you that I can pass for a beauty queen, its just that when one truly loves someone, its always hard to let go. Thank you all for your contributions, I'm really begining to perceive life differently. U all gave me a new life.

That reply was from Yoba not Umy. I think there is a mix up somewhere. Thanks

Yes I've been in love b4 and I've really learnt a lot about love. Its very painful infact it could kill when its not reciprocated. I nearly died out of heartbreak and since then I've never been able to love again. I pray I will get over it and move on.

Thiefofhearts dear, I'm very sorry, that message was actually meant for Fatlair not you. It was a mistake. So Fatlair take note . Guys in the house, I have not heard from you or is it because a fellow guy is involved here? I need your opinion.

Thiefofhearts, that was too harsh, If I actually slept with his friend I wouldn't have found the legs to still go back and tell him I didn't. See dear, love is a thing of the heart, it works alongside the physical body. I can't sleep with a guy I don't love. Once my heart doesn't yearn for you, my body can't either. I'm not loose to that extent. So sleeping with his friend is out of the matter.

Hello friends, I hope u can be of great help to me by advising me religiously on this issue.

I once met a guy who introduced me as his cousin to both his male & female friends. Initially I didn't take this seriously but when girls started flocking round him and adressing me as his cousin I felt I should let him know I'm not comfortable with the 'cousin' stuff but he just waved it off saying it doesn't really matter.  One of his male friends who he introduced me to as his cousin started asking me out but I told him his friend wasn't my cousin and that I love him. Out of jealousy, he started feeding his friend with lies about me. He told him I've slept with him and that we were dating.  My love now felt I was cheap to have slept with his friend behind his back so he started dating someone else. All attempts to tell him that I had nothing to do with his friend proved abortive.  Right now he is out of the country.  I do call him atimes but he seems not to be interested in me any longer. The truth is that I still love this guy and hard as I tried, I haven't been able to love someone else for over 2 years now.

Please advise me on what to do.

God has promised neva to fail us.Thru His Ressurection, we shall also ressurect to a brighter future with NLNG. Amen.