₦airaland Forum

The only thing Ghanians sabi do na to yab Nigeria. No sense.

I just finished reading one that committed suicide because of woman. Now na old man dey no get sense.

JobAndVacancies:
you're too rude.
What happened to second chance?

The truth is bitter and sounds rude.

Some times in life , second chances may come only in another life. That's why one should do their best or at least do normal stuff.

No one is asking for perfection from the dude, just obey your parents and go to school. If not possible, sit with them let them put u in a trade. But No, he collect the money and chop.

I am not sorry for the spoilt brat.

He blew his chance to make it and i must applaud the parents for kicking him out, I would have done the same.

How can parents labour , make sacrifices to make you a better human and then you tell them you are not interested? Most of us were not interested too but we obeyed and we are glad we did.

The civil servants would have used their connect to find him a better job anyhow anyhow but Charlie wan flex, he wan carry babes, he wan follow him dreams, he think say him go make am on him own.

Shout out to all correct parents jare. May God reward your sacrifices.

Ayoefa:
Obviously, you are ignorant of what logic is. By simple logic, you consider your enclave a jungle and a zoo; hence, you must be an animal or should be considered as an animal.
On the other hand, we see ourselves as humans in a conducive and inviting human environment, coupled with the fact that we have risen above the animalistic tendencies/stages that you are still stuck in. We have evolved from that archaic Neanderthal animal state that you and yours are still trying to grow out of.

I hope my simple explanation is not too complex for your animalistic IQ level to comprehend.

No vex ok.

BYE.

Bros , you want the guy to have convulsions from reading complex statements?

You need an axe to break open the skull and pour the written statement in before understanding can occur.

highchief1:
marriage is not worth it.just have kids by proxy and take care of them.

No be lie sir. I dey tell people say love no dey, dem go dey argue with me.

oceanblazer:
Can't you see that the reason she posted this is to find the girl using social media?

Why will someone rent out an accommodation to another person without getting any details? No I.D card, no phone number, nothing.

Why come on social media?

Get her arrested and get lawyers/court to settle it or forget about the matter.

Documentary.

Aspayastudenthu:
Yes men ought to be responsible and accountable to their families - but no woman should die because of a failed healthcare system.
Having a sustainable life requires money - no doubt but money is not the solution here. One could have 1 million but the hospital would demand for 5 million - the challenge is the system not money. For instance, Nigeria ought to be thriving in the Healthcare insurance sector…. Or don’t you think so?

Sentiment aside, and critically speaking, the healthcare system needs to be more favourable to women and unborn children. There ought to be some placement for this type of situation. Save life first and then don’t forget to educate people and create awareness about this sort of things. You know that most women may fall pregnant over and over again because they are looking for a particular gender or because they want a specific number of kids. And these are some areas that adequate awareness and education can provide help for.

I agree...

autoez:
How can you save in a country where your expenses supercedes your income. To survive this country well, it's either you're into fraud or you have a high paying job.

...or one cuts their expenses to the barest minimum.

Pascal9:
that 1million should be for expanding his source of income to take care of the 2 children not to bring another child in the world.most black people and Indians are not pragmatic.

Agreed

Pascal9:
what is 1m, is it enough to raise child talk less of 3

If a man has N1m after two kids and is expecting a third child, it means the man will be able to handle basic pregnancy emergency.
The 1m is not for raising a child.

autoez:
So do you mean every woman should stop having children or never get married because of the inflation caused by bad governance? They should they wait until the economy magically improves then they’re already past childbearing age? Let that sink in. Think deeply. Life is not balanced. If you're rich, be happy and don't ever mock the poor. Never ever mock the poor. It is bad.Be helpful to the poor. Everyone can never be rich.

Oga no need to be emotional.
The point is simple. Let parents have some earnings and let them have the small number that their money can cater for.
Anything outside that will only bring tears.

boldsleek:
you are knowledgeable about how this things work.

Even surgery fee in govt hospitals are like 150k, which couples will have like 6/7 months to start working towards how to raise it before the day of CS.

Which government hospital dey collect 150k and what year?

Remember this case happened in Lagos.

Burshh:
Maternity care is heavily discounted and it is almost free in Lagos. I enjoyed their services in the past, from Ante-natal to post-natal. It is pathetic this happened to this woman and the unborn baby. Obviously, a lot of negligence, ignorance are in the mix of this story.

Did your maternity care require an emergency cesarean section?
If not then your case is different.

Chimaokigwe:
And what if he encounters complications during childbirth that cost 3M?

Atleast he would have something that will be enough for basic obstetric emergency.

Most times most couples have nothing at all.

Aspayastudenthu:
I hear that Dr Adanna , Ohakim’s daughter is now the SSA to the president on women’s healthcare. I hope someone can draw her attention to this. She talked about policy and I appreciate this may be too soon as she just assumed office nevertheless, I do honestly believe that change can be imminent in the Nigeria’s healthcare sector.

Yes. Let them make a policy that any man not having up to N500,000 in his account shouldn't try to have a baby . If such man is to have a 3rd child, he should have N1,000,000 or more in his account.

Namaster:
Nurses are WHOOORES that missed their calling.

Like when a woman can't make it as a FULL-TIME prostitute, she becomes a NURSE.

BusinessInsider punlished a research about a study on the relationship between INFIDELITY and OCCUPATION, Nurses came up as the OVERALL cheaters.

In other words, there is EMPIRICAL evidence backed by scientific research that Nurses cheat MORE than any other professional in the WHOLE WORLD.

The excuse?

LONG working hours.
High STRESS working environment.
And probably being surrounded by highly COMPETENT and REVERED men like Doctors.

Marrying a nurse would be like jumping out of a helicopter WITHOUT a parachute—you will regret it VERY QUICKLY.

This is false in this environment.

The article is likely from US where women in teaching, police, military etc cheat.

shellybubu:
We thought about this but we feel Nigeria is already rough enough for him to start going through the stress of looking for accommodation. He parked in last year June.

Please stop being considerate to people who don't consider other people.

Do you think the sleep deprivation will not affect your family in the long run, Your mental health, children school performance etc

When giving out apartment we told our agent we don't want religious activities in the compound. If you can't worship your God without disturbing other people then don't come in becos u will be kicked out. If you appear too religious or too gangster-like, we won't rent accommodation to you. Just appear like a neutral or a reasonable/ responsible person and I can tell u that I am happy with the tenants we have. Working class dudes who have no time for crap.

Give him quit notice for being a public nuisance.

Na all these kind people I dey find to mess up.

Truthseeker10:
What does Gnosis have to tell us about how the universe and life on earth began?

When I know I wilI tell you.

For now, I only seek to find me.

I got into my present religion because I wanted "to know" who I am. Gnosis. I am not into it because of location, parenthood or connection. I looked and found.

I have tried different religions and I am glad I did because at least I have an idea of what most folks are talking about. Plus I have my peace.

ppogba:
I can confirm to you it has been like that since 2000 to the best of my confirmed knowledge.

As bad as Osho baba may be, he built most of the drainages in Benin today.

I concur. I was there when Osho was governor and was constructing some drainages.

I know this.

Only few people are brave enough to admit it.

muyico:
Go get gud lawyer?

Gud lawyer is free abi....dey play

Chinese are all over the world. They succeed not only in Nigeria due to the ffg;

1. They are very practical people who prioritize on skillls rather than theory or certificates. They attend more of technical colleges,polythecnics and mentoring (master-student) teachings.

2. They also have a unique social support system, having Chinese village in almost all countries of the world. When 1 or 2 arrive, they connect with the guys on ground who give them authentic information. They also connect very well with their embassy that gives them country backing.

3. They are less tribal or religious-very little division amongst them. They don't expect a miracle. They plan and act.

4. Average Chinese individual is not wasteful. They don't carry too many women or have many kids. They don't show off.

5. Chinese people no too dey lie unlike blackman. They can do fake stuffs if they know your system is weak and can bribe their way. They are quite good at organized crime though.

6. If they solve your problem, you pay them. If you try to scam them, they will come for you.

7. They invest in what they do- instead of buying cars or clothes. They will buy equipment, pay for trainings, bribe their way..lol

8. IQ of Asians is among the highest in the world.

This is one of the reasons Messi is always preferred to Ronaldo.
Ronald acts like a teenager often times.
Media is more mature.

She don use ur properties as price for the knackings.

Abu u no dey knack am? Na praise n worship doings...

Pressure too much.

I have realized that it is private car owners that are more in a hurry these days compared to commercial vehicles.

Times are really changing.

All those girls wey dey like to keep x, I always wonder y.

But your own case na mathematics like dx,dy.