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SeeWahala:
How I cope?

It's either 001, 100 or 010

But I don't know how my maker does it that 1 will always find a way to be entering 0 steady 😏

tfelicityk:
I have asked some women - "How are you doing"? Some responded "I am not fine". I end up telling them to "Make yourself happy no matter the situation".

Few once asked me to give her money. I told her what work have I asked her to do that she is requesting for money from me without respect and dignity.

RPG2020:
300 euro a month for feeding una dey enjoy ooh

donshady:
Solar is the best! I have a 6kva inverter and 16kwh battery with 10pieces of 595watt JA solar panels on the roof. I use 1.5hp and 1hp Air condition during the day and at night I use 1hp all night till morning including every other appliances in the house. In the morning I wake up to about 65% battery left. It charges back up and the cycle never ends.

Hemanwel:
We have seen many cases in which David defeated Goliath. Never say never in football!

Adeoye11:
Ok message me via nairaland message tool

Adeoye11:
Yes! And geonix

Konjiboii:
Not going to lie I have done this before, at the time I was financially down and needed space to just reason my life, having babe at that time was financially draining, I was managing my little change eating beans and drinking garri, didn't need a babe that will insist on sharwama and parfait and when I say I don't have the funds she will act like I am less of a man, even though she might not say I will see myself as a lesser man. If only women know what men deal with mentally ehn. Relationship no mean say everyday go dey rosy.

Sonofgod1990:
Dis man was my school mate in the university

3Si69:
Alright bro. No vacancy for now and if any, be ready to relocate to Osun State.

3Si69:
You're smart, and I don’t think you’ll regret your decision. With an HND certificate, there are several jobs you may not be eligible for, even in some government recruitments and certain professional roles. I gained admission into Federal Polytechnic Offa with a friend, and after our ND programme I applied for Direct Entry and encouraged him to do the same, but he didn’t think it was necessary. After graduation, the job search started. I attended several interviews before eventually getting a job, while he couldn’t even apply for many opportunities due to qualification limits. It’s been over 6 years since I started working, I'm an IT Manager now he is still struggling to secure a stable job, with opportunities becoming fewer for him over time, which is why I believe a university degree generally gives wider access compared to an HND. I’ve tried several times to recommend him for the IT support role in our organisation, but management insisted that the minimum requirement is a B.Sc holder, so he couldn’t be considered and the pay for the first 6 months is ₦317,000.

SeaTrade:
swears My bro

Eriokanmi:
I expected otedola to invest in a refinery too. But seems baba no get the balls. He'd have done so well

muyico:
Almost clock 40years old

PeterTinubu:
Bro yours is small....I fvcked more than 10,000 prostitutes from Apps like Codedruns, Tinder,Inmessage,Bumble,Badoo,Michat and From Lounges like Farmcity and The Wave at Lekki,not to talk of Brothel hoes like Ocabique at Port-Harcourt,Cynergy Suites at Festac,Tripple T at Oluti, Aloxxy at Surulere etc Bro I was a beast...If someone had told me I'll stop patronising prostitutes,I will shoot the person back then but I am free from that disgusting act...I now see prostitutes as sewage tanks no matter how beautiful or sexy you are.

There's nothing like fvcking a woman who truly loves you and who belongs to you alone Not a public toilet who's available for every Tom,dick and Harry and still possesses multiple dildos for masturbation How can you enjoy sex with such person? 🤔

elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.


I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going

elipheleh:
Marrying an unintelligent woman is really the worst mistake a man can make.

If I can reverse the Hands of clock I wont go for my current wife.

Well, I always loved an intellectually sound woman. It trips me. Something like a medical doctor or a programmer lady. At minimum a working class lady. Both intellect and beauty trips me.


If I tell you Wetin dey my mind.. you fit kill your wife… just endure it…. Sefini

I imagined a marriage where I'll be on thesame frequency.

I am a 1st class material but financial burden made me drop to second class upper in my 3rd year to 5th year.

I always knew I was going far in life and needed a woman who wanted to go far too.

When I met my wife she was very beautiful, speaks very well and in her 1st year. Each time I asked about her studies she would convince me how she was the best in her class and this and that.

Ask for her results, she would say results are not yet out.

By her 2nd year I married her after she got pregnant. As per the honorable man na

Do you know this girl after I2nd year, all her results were carry over. I mean ALL. Not even 1 pass.

Damn. Women fear women.

Now she just birthing beautiful kids. But now there's communication. Tge knowledge gap between us is too wide. Nothing to discuss about. Even when I try to communicate it frustrates me. I will speak and still explain my very own grammar. Then I will now explain the meaning and the etymology before continuing with the sentence. Its a real pain communicating.

You can imagine my regrets when I see an intelligent hardworking lady doctor outside.

Secondly, she doesn't want to work or even study to improve herself.

I am not poor by any means. I am a software developer. I earn about N4 million monthly.

But my wife is only happy selling ZOBO and kwulikwuli. Even at that she is not serious with it. Imagine this year she has not even started selling anything. January has passed.

I've told her to learn and IT skills. She says No.

Told her learn nursing, she said No

I did international passport for me, her and our 3 kids. She just came up and said she won't like to travel abroad. Her fears is that women there are likely going to be working on jobs.

Ok. Madam lets open Boutique for you - she no get the energy to run boutique.

Oya learn driving and be taking the kids to school - it is taking her almost 3 years to learn. Today she will drive, tomorrow she will forget it.

Oya madam go back to school and complete your education. She no want.

Every quarrel, she will threaten to commit suicide (informing random relations of mine to take care good of her children if anything happens to her) and accuse me of not seeing any value in her. Madam which value? You don't want to improve yourself and you now cry that I am improving.

She wants this and that and I spend so much. How can a man be spending more than 3 million every month? She want chop chop chop.

Since I met her, I have overworked myself.

Story long..

Sometimes, I always feel like quitting this marriage. But being a Christian, I feel trapped in this better for worse journey.

If only Madam can develop herself. I wish she can be just willing to learn or pursue knowledge. Let her drop this laziness about self-development and littleness mindset thing. Kai. No ambition. No dreams. I wish she can just have dreams for once in her life. And be a lover of wisdom.

I plan to go far in this life. But its difficult to do so when you're unequally yoked with an unambitious partner.

Only God can save my marriage at this rate things are going

gerizzim:
I kno a frnd dt left Nigeria like 6mnts ago for uk is doing very well. He was working in a factory here in naija earning around 170k per mnt.
He got a factory job in uk where he earns up to 800k per day. same hrs. Different pay.

atobs4real:
They want to br recognized with their teeth. or what? some people like to get burnt to death before they die

OgbeniOptional:
What’s your collateral.




My house(2 bed &1bed room apartments)

Starz825:
Exactly....

Escorts go say dem wan collect 100k from men for just 30min pleasure..even bet no fit collect 100k for my hand at a go make i no chop more back