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Gbsy07:
Correct guy.

network is bad....sorry bout that. Just create a new thread and upload the items you have. If you don't mind.

LadyF on my thread? It's alrice.

This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretati ons, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to become complete and fulfilled.
By: Blessing Ekpo
cc: farano, Rocktation

[quote author=Gbsy07 post=37226520][/quote]no shaking, i will call you.

kennygee:
Our Celebs and their fake and exorbitant life style.

Idris Elba is way richer than Dbanj and you don't see him in all those mumu chains and Glasses.

You'll never find Bill Gates, Aliko Dangote and Femi Otedola looking like this. They look simple.

The bank balance and Forbes does the talking.

It's a cliche in the entertainement industry, even in the USA. Now footballers and actors are rich but they don't dress up like that.

jukeblam:
Are you fed up with it already?
What do you want for it?

kinda...e no sweet me, maybe it's the weather. What do u have for swap?

Suffy:
how u take know?

Because I know...lol. That's a Honda Goldwing.

That bike belongs to Matthew Olory in Calabar.

Veave, which did you pick?

Jukeblam, i want to swap my Encre Noire.

I see why they call her "tundra".

so the deaf can hear.

I didn't come to comment, I just came to see the sneakers.

I just downloaded the album CrazySexyCool (1994) by TLC, the album has some sexy songs.

I want another.

swagifted, i had finished Shift that's why am looking for Shift 2. Look for Grid 2 it's another pure simulation game.

Jsut add Aso Rock make we see as e fine reach.

Gunbiz:
Lagos

am not in Lagos. Ask WMAN he will get them for you.
https://www.nairaland.com/1035742/garnet-pc-games-sale-cheapest

Gunbiz:
Can I get d games frm u?

your location.

Gunbiz, i played The Run 2013 but didn't enjoy it. I have Rivals now.

lemme prepare my list

I need a seller with a wide collection of PC games. But right now, i really need NFS Shift 2 Unleashed.

I need a seller with a wide collection of PC games. But right now, i really need NFS Shift 2 Unleashed.

insure1:
...but I dedicate this space to users of this pure definition of a stylish aura... Lalique!

Check my signature

just acquired this...the bottle is so heavy and cool.

Call of Duty MW3, Hitman Absolution, NFS Shift, Splinter Cell Blacklist.

Where is FIFA15, Battlefield Hardline and COD Advanced Warfare?

na the whole magazine be this!

I just ended NFS Rivals on PC, looking for another recent racing game. I have played GRID 2 also.

@bizzle2, YSL La Nuit is the most popular and most loved fragrance, it could possibily please anyone, maybe you got a fake. Or you would have given it sometime, then after a couple of months you try it again.

Also try buying older batches, or you may get a reformulated version.

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