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biafraisdead:
who cursed the family? in as much as u may want to disagree with me I can bet with u that 98%(if not 100%)of these prophecies are fake, if u love her and want to marry her go ahead I bet u nothing would happen just put everything in God's hands. Our God is not a wicked God that he would visit u with calamities u know nothing about, otherwise what are we Christians for?

So are u saying I go on with her without involving my entire family?
I wish you know how crazy my mum and my entire family are about generatioal curse, typical Yoruba woman who is over protective of her five children which I'm the last and only male of my late father. I'm mature enough to know somethings are better said than done. In my family, you never marry without family support, otherwise, they will frustrate the poor girl and I don't want her go through that.

Hi Nairalanders.
What you about to read is my real life story and (not for a friend). I will try make it brief and simple.
My name is Femi and in my very early 30s. soon after my service, I came back for my masters when I met this girl on campus (call her Bolanle) who was then in 200, and aged 20, she was all I wanted in a lady physically and psychologically.
I don't double date and never intended to, so I promised her marriage and even got to meet her aunty who resides close by. Bolanle and I had great fun in together including sex which I practically begged to give. She never told me she was a virgin till I broke in. (it made me love her the more).

and this was how the problem started.

Bolanle and I had smooth relationship for a year and even did an anniversary. Suddenly, my mum called to inform me of a prophecy which she got from church about my relationship (she never knew I was in any relationship before). I dismissed it immediately and we even quarreled, she kept coming to warn me of a great danger. I insisted she takes me go meet the source of the prophesy. on getting there, the prophet after a serious prayer told me to back off from the girl I'm dating. they say she has got a short-live on earth and her mission is to come give birth to a single child before she dies. I asked if there is any remedy to help Bolanle out of it but he said it's not my responsibility that Bolanle's family are carrying a powerful generational curse, (Bolanle had earlier told me her mother died a year after her birth). I wept that night feeling pity for the innocent girl.
At the moment, Bolanle has travelled for the Christmas /new-year holiday. I love this girl but I seriously don't know how exactly to go with it. If I break up with her, I'm sure she will do something really crazy to herself.

My Point.

-How do I go with this situation without looking like I had used and dumped her.
pls don't tell me to marry her because my mum has informed the entire family to gang up against my idea of marrying this girl.
-Should I tell her about the Curse?
and if yes, then tell me how exactly to do it.

Pls I need very mature advice, I'm not here for play. (Luckily enough, Bolanle is also a follower of nairaland, she joined because of me, so I pray she gets to read this before I get to see her next year).
I had to use my long abandoned moniker because of this.