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CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage Parties On A Yatch With Friends by YoungRay007: 10:23am On Nov 08, 2021
Oloshoooooo
PropertiesRe: People Run While A Building Collapses (video) by YoungRay007: 10:21am On Nov 08, 2021
Why build in muddy area
SportsRe: I'm Suffering From Gambling Addiction What Can I Do by YoungRay007: 10:15am On Nov 08, 2021
When it comes to virtual, you cant beat the system. It was programmed to make money for the owners. I wonder why people would put money on something that the owners controls 100%. They determine the result which is very bad, unlike real life games.
SportsRe: I'm Suffering From Gambling Addiction What Can I Do by YoungRay007: 9:58am On Nov 08, 2021
emmanuelbrown26:
If u are football lover, u hv to stop watching the game for now
That very true. Football is ruined. Alot of clubs are been sponsored by betting companies. During match breaks this days, what we see as advert is betting companies adverts only. It's so bad and this has to stop.

Investing in cryptocurrency is the way forward
PoliticsRe: Anambra Election: Apc’s Andy Uba Wins Polling Unit by YoungRay007: 6:43pm On Nov 06, 2021
Soludooooooooooo
BusinessRe: “Nwa Boy”: Rising Dearth Of Apprenticeship In Nigeria by YoungRay007: 6:40pm On Nov 06, 2021
The igbo apprentice system is still good. The problem is some greedy Oga and some lazy Nwa boy that trying to destroy the system. Agreement should be agreement, if you have agree to settle someone after six years, please don't disappoint That person.

Most of our youths want quick money especially our ladies.
BusinessRe: About 99.4% Of Bank Accounts Contain Less Than N500,000 - NDIC by YoungRay007: 6:56pm On Oct 31, 2021
Nigerians now use bianance and trust wallet
TV/MoviesRe: Olayinka Omoya Evicted From The Guilder Ultimate Search 2021 by YoungRay007: 12:18pm On Oct 31, 2021
Rikze:
shocked


Yet to feel to the show though... Lots of improvements are needed to give it the vibe of a reality show.

After watching Australia Survivor, you'll know this is wack and an imitation of the former...


Toke Makinwa was sounding too authoritative and unfriendly to my liking, with the contestants replying "yes ma"... Kai!

To the task master, " yes Sir!"


They should talk to the contestants with some measure of respect and dignity.


Australia Survivor any day any time, twice on Saturday...
Which station
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage Calls Out 'Gistlover' Over Sex Tape Scandal by YoungRay007: 1:25pm On Oct 19, 2021
Clictocurrency is the new bitcoin
BusinessRe: Loan Apps Send ‘Shame’ Messages To Close Contacts Of Loan Defaulters by YoungRay007: 8:20pm On Oct 15, 2021
With the level of poverty in Nigeria, I would just borrow 100k from one of this loan app and run to Ghana or Cameroon
FamilyRe: How My Monthly Salary Is Used On Foodstuff Only by YoungRay007: 8:18pm On Oct 15, 2021
With the level of poverty in Nigeria, I would just borrow 100k from one of this loan app and run to Ghana or Cameroon
FoodRe: Why Do Most Nigerian Visitors Dont Finish The Food Served To Them? by YoungRay007: 7:18pm On Oct 13, 2021
Now wey things hard you want to remain Food.
FamilyRe: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by YoungRay007: 6:45pm On Oct 13, 2021
Appswheel:
Post below is as seen on a WhatsApp group. On a personal note, I do not not agree that one sex is a slave of the other.



SLAVERY OF MEN BY WOMEN

German writer Esther Villar In her book *"The Manipulated Man"* that caused outrage and hostile criticism from women explains how women since the earliest times have manipulated men and turned them into their slaves, they have pretended to be the oppressed sex while in the real sense they are the oppressors. She explains how a woman manipulates a man skillfully by steps like courtship and finally marriage, hence the saying *"a man chases a woman until SHE catches him".*

In her book she explains how the man is tricked to care for the woman all his life and her offspring. He rolls the stone like Sisyphus and in turn gets rewarded by a few minutes of sexual pleasure. We can, by observing Esther Villars assertions that a man is a slave of his desires and the woman uses and has used it for thousands of years as a stick and carrot to keep the man chasing vanity and commit his life to serving her.

She goes ahead to explain the rivalry of women, how each woman feels the powerful urge and need to own a male for herself. Like a slave owner she detests any move the man would make to offer his services to another woman. She uses all means to keep the man to herself and her offspring alone.

Esther Villar's sentiments are captured by Nigerian Poet, critic and writer, Chinweizu Ibekwe in his book, *"The Anatomy of Female Power"*(AFP) and Will Farrel's, *"The Predatory Female*. They all push the theory that all societies are matriarchal and not patriarchal as we are pushed and forced to believe. Matriarchy has ruled not through brawn but wits and tricks; women feigning weakness to be protected etc. Thus the male becomes the most exploited sex in human history,(in wars the man is always ready to die for the woman; he has been trained to do that).

Chinweizu calls the idea of dating and courtship, training, like that of a horse. It is during this time that a woman having kept the man on a leash by denying him sex and getting him addicted to her by false charms, trains and breaks him to whatever she wants him to become.

The marriage celebration becomes a celebration for the woman and her friends, and they all congratulate her for having succeeded in getting herself a slave. A man on that wedding day waves goodbye to his independence and his coalition of males and commits himself to a Sisyphean life, rolling the stone, an act he cannot abandon having society and the government checking on him and always ready to jail, shame or exile him for absconding his duties.
*Thus the government and society helps the woman in keeping her slave in check.*

Chinweizu gives a narration of how women are trained by older matriarchs to tame men. He explains how a man is trained to rely on women by his own mother. A man is shamed for cooking for himself and other domestic chores by his own mother who is an agent of the global matriarchal rule.

By getting the man to hate domestic works and having it enforced by culture which warns men against going into the kitchen, doing laundry etc., the mother trains his son for the woman who will captivate him and when the time comes she takes hold of the man's stomach and by getting the man addicted to her body she holds him by the two, in bed and in the kitchen. With those two weapons she manipulates the man and turns him into her plaything.

In the *"Myth of the Male Power"*, Esther Villar's *" A Man's Right to the Other Woman"*; *"The Polygamous Sex"*, the authors of those books challenge the narrative that men oppress women, and by detailed research across African,Western and Eastern both in ancient and modern societies, the authors unravel the hidden power of the ruthless matriarchal power that rules the world.

*Presidents, Emperors and Kings are all puppets of the matriarchy forces that rule the World by pulling the strings from behind the curtains.*

*�Man, Take it or Leave it!�*
Your post made my day a lovely day. Thumbs up
FamilyRe: Marginalisation: Women Playing The Victim Cards by YoungRay007: 6:07pm On Oct 13, 2021
Arelyn:
O.P, you are fast about this as I was planning to write something about this Ini Edo comment during the course of the weekend....

The truth is this ideology is one of the major problem that is destroying our society. Women playing this victim card has encouraged the formulation of loads of societal policies to protect them like an endangered specie while men has to pick the crumbs off the table

Success is not handed out to men on a platter of gold, in short men do engage in unhealthy competition amongst themselves to get to the top but naturally concede excellence or success to a woman that can show enough grit and determination

I work in IT field and can tell you men are not doing better than woman that believe their success lies upstairs in their brains and not in between their legs. It is more natural for a determined lady to get to the pinnacle of her career compared to a man that has to fight both tooth and nail to get recognition for his effort among the sea of men in similar space

After careful study and a bit of anecdotal experience, I realized that the statement tries to provide comfort or solace for ladies with lazy mentality and mediocrity ideology. They blame failure on their environment or society without recognition of their gross incompetence in the management of opportunities around them

In present day times compared to many years back in Nigeria, it's is much easier to solicit for sex with money or affluence because we are blessed with a large chuck of women that don't want to try but use every form of packaging to present prostitution in a acceptable and less demaging manner which is quite obvious in her- Ini Edo's, sector of the economy

Anytime you hear people say that around, tell them to make research on the percentage of women enrolling in traditionally male dominated courses and see how well they are doing, the number of female financial institutions CEO in Nigeria and the world at large speaks volume of my submission
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PoliticsRe: Soldiers Chased By Unknown Gunmen In Anambra (Video) by YoungRay007: 1:36pm On Oct 13, 2021
Lol

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